Grace Hill
@gracehill.bsky.social
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not as good as I once was, but sometimes as good once as I ever was 📍 central Appalachia, because I'm too stubborn to leave matriarch, [redacted]
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gracehill.bsky.social
I do know about it, but mostly I’m thinking about the thin slice judgements associated with autism.

www.nature.com/articles/sre...
social impairments, but social interaction by definition involves more than one person and social difficulties may arise not just from people with ASD themselves, but also from the perceptions, judgments, and social decisions made by those around them. Here, across three studies, we find that first impressions of individuals with ASD made from thin slices of real-world social behavior by typically-developing observers are not only far less favorable across a range of trait judgments compared to controls, but also are associated with reduced intentions to pursue social interaction. These patterns are remarkably robust, occur within seconds, do not change with increased exposure, and persist across both child and adult age groups. However, these biases disappear when impressions are based on conversational content lacking audio-visual cues, suggesting that style, not substance, drives negative impressions of ASD. Collectively, these
gracehill.bsky.social
I like that analogy
gracehill.bsky.social
Good way to use cabbage!

#dinnersky
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6 bone in skin on chicken thighs all golden brown and crispy nestled in a bubbling dish of cabbage sautéed with onion, bacon, Apple cider vinegar, and sugar. Almost a sweet and sour sauce.
gracehill.bsky.social
posted a new chapter of the fic I'm reading out loud and recording -- podficcing -- and it was fun to listen again, after the intervening year plus since recording and editing
gracehill.bsky.social
My grandmother died in the autumn—she was 96, she was ready—and every autumn since, I weep.

I spent months with her and my grandfather every year, from age four to fourteen, and she loved me an unreasonable amount.

You’d think that a decade and a half would have eased this grief, but no.
gracehill.bsky.social
“we must all hang together, or most assuredly we shall all hang separately” in other words
gracehill.bsky.social
Oh, it was illegal then. They could’ve absolutely been fired, and if it just been one county, they might have done it.
gracehill.bsky.social
Gonna do this, if I can find which freezer I stashed the chicken thighs in:
www.seriouseats.com/braised-chic...
gracehill.bsky.social
trying to muster up the wherewithal to make dinner
gracehill.bsky.social
Central Appalachia would (did) reach back to their UMWA roots. Evidence below.

My favorite sign from 2018 was the local strip club down the road from an elementary school:
OPEN 7PM TUES-SAT
NUDE DANCERS
SUPPORT OUR TEACHERS
DAILY DRINK SPECIAL
West Virginia Teachers Strike, 2018 - a sea of red t-shirts in the main part of the state capitol building
gracehill.bsky.social
Back In My Day, if receptionist at a highly paid professional office didn't know the answer to a question, they'd take a message and find someone who could answer the question, but I guess I'm being unreasonable by thinking that's what receptionists do.
gracehill.bsky.social
me: "I'm calling to enquire about x service. Do you all still offer this?"
office: "What is that?"
me: "Well, if you don't know, then I suppose you don't offer it."
office: "I'm new here, so I'm not sure."
me: "Is there someone you can ask and call me back about it?"
office: "call back tomorrow"
gracehill.bsky.social
oh no. Treat yourself well!
gracehill.bsky.social
I am Taking The Rest of the day, and re-reading comforting books.

Went through all my spoons and well into forks on that vacation.
gracehill.bsky.social
*nodding in recognition* I hope you’re gentle with yourself over the next little while.
gracehill.bsky.social
My condolences, even so.
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himal.bsky.social
ADHD is more than just a label.
But even a label can be important. Especially if all your old ones were “lazy”, “stupid”, “too much”, “naughty” or “no good.”
gracehill.bsky.social
And not only use them, but use them in a way that works for you. Just opening social media and letting it run in default mode is at best, boring, and at worst, actively dangerous, imo.
gracehill.bsky.social
I was always a “no shoes in the house” person, but I’ve had to change my ways. Now it’s “no outside shoes in the house” 😂
gracehill.bsky.social
Yep! The good things can be very good!!
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gracehill.bsky.social
I met my spouse.
I got my job.
I made good friends.
I kept in touch with old friends.
I learned about my medical diagnoses.
I got book offers.
conradhackett.bsky.social
Has anything great happened in your life because of social media?