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Raymond
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🇳🇴 Adventurer, programmer, budding author, recovering Nice Guy.
Working with men's mental health.

He/Him
Some time ago I read the absolutely amazing "There is a vitality" quote by Martha Graham.
You should read it if you haven't already - especially if you're doing creative work.

Here is the first draft of the first scene of the first chapter of what might become my first book.
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August 2, 2025 at 11:41 PM
Står og venter på kebab, en fyr foran meg.

"Alt på?"
"Nei, nei nei, bare kjøtt og pomfri"

Kebabmannen ser forvirra ut.

"Mild, medium, sterk?"

Han foran meg stormer mot disken; "Nei nei, ikke saus, bare kjøtt og pomfri!"

Tipper han skraper osten av grandisen
March 3, 2025 at 6:33 PM
Do fewer things, with more intent.
Don't let yourself be carried by the currents around you.
Choose your line of action.

Focus.

Stay critical.
March 3, 2025 at 5:32 PM
Gleder meg til å bli minnet på at jeg må legge meg av fuglekvitter
March 2, 2025 at 1:05 AM
Make sure to stock up on dependable friends before the apocalypse
February 28, 2025 at 11:46 PM
Reposted by Raymond
It took seeing adult bullies to understand that my childhood bullies didn’t even really want to hurt me, they just wanted to feel powerful and how I felt about it wasn’t even in the equation.

I can’t imagine someone not outgrowing that, but apparently it happens quite a lot!
February 28, 2025 at 11:29 PM
Ugh
Moving away from my subconscious need for validation - especially from attractive women - is HARD.

I've spent literal decades doing all these little things, reinforcing these patterns, and now I have to unlearn them.
February 24, 2025 at 11:27 PM
Turns out Hyperdrive Sound pairs really well with brie and honey
February 23, 2025 at 1:34 PM
I wonder what the world would be like right now if Elon had access to a supportive men's group in his 30s.

On one side I'm certain he wouldn't have that screeching need for approval, on the other side he might not have the intense drive for success, and someone else would be wielding the chainsaw.
February 23, 2025 at 12:48 PM