helentorourke.bsky.social
helentorourke.bsky.social
@helentorourke.bsky.social
I had a work event today and small talked for 6 hours straight, not a big talk in sight
this is a bit of an adjacent point but I do think "small talk" should be thought of as a skill, and something that becomes more enjoyable once you've practiced it a bit; reckon few people just love it from the off, there's got to be some effort at the start but it then becomes genuinely rewarding
Going to try a thing.

I do not like small talk.

I believe small talk is important for social cohesion.

Both of those things are true of me and could, maybe, be true of you.
May 16, 2025 at 11:54 PM
If you need motivation to clean your apartment, may I suggest having a thesis due in a month
April 16, 2025 at 2:50 AM
Should I watch all of The Pitt again or should I not give myself a heart attack
April 11, 2025 at 8:55 PM
But seriously…go Birds. 🦅
Howie Roseman says the #Eagles won't even scout players who have ever been violent with women:

“I won’t even watch them. I don't even want to talk. I can't go 'He’s really good, he did it 10 years ago and he learned from it.” It just doesn't work for us."

#FlyEaglesFly

(🎥: The McShay Show)
April 10, 2025 at 11:01 PM
I literally never need to know What’s New in Chrome. You can stop with that.
April 10, 2025 at 1:56 PM
This week I’ve successfully told three guys on the subway to turn their sound off. Should I register for the democratic primary
April 5, 2025 at 10:56 PM
I am a small woman who is on the train right now, it is fine
Sean Duffy: "The truth is, transit across America is dangerous. And these liberals -- liberal mayors -- they want everybody out of cars and into trains but they made the trains unsafe so nobody really wants to ride them ... even big men don't want to ride the subway at those times of night."
April 5, 2025 at 3:59 AM
April 2, 2025 at 2:28 AM
It’s 2025, who even gets covid anymore? This is dumb.
March 20, 2025 at 11:26 PM
Shouldn’t have picked the day I forgot my Lexapro
March 14, 2025 at 4:05 PM
If you are afraid of swimming in the ocean maybe don’t watch Disclaimer
March 11, 2025 at 2:49 AM
This is going to kill people.
We've confirmed the US Bureau of Prisons has transferred trans women to men's prisons despite three court rulings blocking Trump's executive order

“I’m continuing to be punished for existing. I'm a pawn in others' political games" -Whitney, 31-year-old woman taken to men's prison this week, told us
Trans women transferred to men’s prisons despite rulings against Trump’s order
Incarcerated trans women report being groped by male guards and suicidal thoughts: ‘I’m punished for existing’
www.theguardian.com
March 8, 2025 at 10:00 PM
Harmony Cobel the crazy bitch that you are
March 8, 2025 at 1:44 AM
Flow was so beautiful and sweet give it all the awards
February 23, 2025 at 5:12 AM
Honestly fuck the common cold.
February 20, 2025 at 3:33 AM
News: I have finally taken my Christmas decorations down.
February 18, 2025 at 11:35 PM
Almost drove by some cows without saying “cows!” but I caught it at the last second
February 17, 2025 at 4:51 PM
I was sitting in a shady spot, but after going in the pool, moved to a sunny spot to dry off. That is the most critical thinking I will do today. #vacationmode
February 15, 2025 at 8:45 PM
GO BIRDS!!! 🦅
February 9, 2025 at 11:15 PM
Watching this app try to figure out my algorithm in real time has been hilarious. We started with exclusively “cats” then it added “corgis” (not all dogs, just corgis), now we’ve got any mention of “coffee” or “tea”. What’s next??
February 4, 2025 at 2:59 PM