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K
@hellotheresweetie.bsky.social
Living the good life. My random, slightly NSFW thoughts. MDNI. 43F. She/her.

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I haven’t had sex in a very long time. When my bf tried penetrating the first time, it hurt. Like he was tearing me apart. And that was just with his fingers. Then, a few months after our first try, he finally got in and it wasn’t painful! I’m optimistic that we’ll be able to PIV soon.
November 6, 2025 at 3:45 AM
A guy I chatted with for a while came back to ask if I'm still dating the same guy. I said yes. He then asked if we did the deed yet. Ignored him. He has no right to ask and he doesn't have to know.
August 4, 2025 at 10:18 PM
Asked my boyfriend to talk dirty during our make out session and boy did he deliver.
May 21, 2025 at 9:09 AM
I knew my boyfriend was a Pokémon nerd, but I never realized the extent of it until he started playing Sword. I asked him how he was going about, and he started giving me statistics of the team he had and then strategies on how he was going to go about each gym.
May 14, 2025 at 7:51 AM
I'm looking at job openings and the more I do, the more I don't want to go back to work. But I need to find a way to earn because life is expensive.
May 2, 2025 at 2:58 AM
I don’t neccessarily need to be chatting with my guy all the time, but he’s just so fun to talk to that I feel clingy.
April 25, 2025 at 12:42 AM
Am I weird for being mad at something very valid and rational, just because I am disappointed and frustrated by the situation?
April 22, 2025 at 8:22 AM
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April 20, 2025 at 9:26 PM
Lunch date went well. Still wish we had more time together.
April 20, 2025 at 12:46 PM
Going to my boyfriend's family lunch tomorrow. Easter Sunday and first time meet? Feels like a big deal. I'm not feeling any thing right now but tomorrow I betcha I'll be anxious AF. Wish me luck.
April 19, 2025 at 1:35 PM
Happy birthday to me! 🎂🥳🍨☕🍕💐🎁🧧🍀❤️
April 14, 2025 at 2:43 AM
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Never forget that in 1861 Charles Darwin wrote in a letter to a friend…

“But I am very poorly today and very stupid and hate everybody and everything"

…because this is my favorite reminder that we can do great things even if we don't always have great days
April 10, 2025 at 4:20 PM
Arrived back to the country after my flight got cancelled. Was supposed to go on a date today, but he got sick and I got sick so we’re sick and a few miles apart.
April 10, 2025 at 2:38 AM
Flight’s cancelled. Stuck for a few hours. I’m just glad we’re ok and safe.
April 8, 2025 at 7:19 AM
Currently in Japan. Despite it not being my first time, I still get confused. Also, it’s so damn cold.
April 4, 2025 at 2:35 AM
I love my boyfriend’s voice. It’s so deep and rumbly. I like lying on his chest and listen to it.
April 3, 2025 at 12:29 AM
Well. That was…

Well.
April 2, 2025 at 8:57 AM
11:11
April 2, 2025 at 3:11 AM
*sigh* I want to be more adventurous in bed but my anxieties get in the way. Feel bad for my partner, even if we talk about it and he is helping me.
April 1, 2025 at 1:23 AM
I’m in an LDR relationship. Occasionally, business takes me to his town. Right now he can’t travel for health reasons, so I’ve been the one to come to him. Yesterday I did a surprise visit to bring him food. Spent the afternoon together. No pressure, just enjoying each other.
March 31, 2025 at 7:21 AM
Dirty talk in Tagalog hits differently, can I just say.
March 31, 2025 at 6:55 AM
I love the feeling of random meet-ups when you’re in an LDR. Just got back from an impromptu date and it was the best.
March 30, 2025 at 12:41 PM
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March 29, 2025 at 6:27 PM
I would love to run my fingers through his hair… but he prefers a closely cropped cut so I just run my hands over his head and enjoy the bristley feel.
March 30, 2025 at 12:55 AM