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in person is usually fine actually, when i can, im not in a position to do in person rn so im stuck online and holy shit what a hellhole

Seems to me that people are jumping on the worst possible interpretation so they can participate in a pile on instead of just watching and waiting for new information to come out- and this leads to them ignoring or condoning a lot of baseless accusations, such as 'she was clearly high' etc.

I mean, it does demonstrate a willingness to use ChatGPT, but it could just as easily be that stupid 'yeah I use it like google to find quotes and sources' shit a bunch of people have been pushing as 'literally everything is fake,' and while both of those are bad, why assume malicious trickery?

im not comfortable with jumping to that level of severity, we dont know the whole story and this is a very vulnerable person we're telling to "fuck right off forever"

i mean thats the rub right there isnt it? desperate and afraid people doing desperate and afraid things, none of us are acting right. which is kinda my point. people are gonna do fucked up and cynical things, we gotta figure out how to handle that

no matter yours or anyones intentions, no matter how valid the criticism, the noise is filled with transmisogynoir and i think asking her or anyone to be able to parse out the good faith from the blood horny is an impossible task

idk the alternative, idk what the best way to handle this is. i jsut see a trans sex worker getting drug, i see people saying horrid things about her, and that concerns me. i think we as a community need to find better ways of handling it but i dont have the answers on that

thats assuming she did fake all this, but even if she did there no way this hate mob has made her feel like its a good idea to come clean. thats my issue with all this is we're all clamoring for restoration and justice while making an environment where that cant happen

yeah idk that last part is what rubs me wrong, nothing will be made right by ousting her, only thing that will happen is another trans woman will have access to less community resources. i just hate to see that happen, i hope this can be resolved in a better way cause this just aint the way

> i also see how all the hate and anger coming out makes it near impossible to feel safe admitting if it was fake. i dont think theres any winning here, and thats sad. i dont think tara or the people this affected will be made whole or find absolution. thats why i think we need to find better ways

idk honestly, idk how to handle any of this. i just know that i see what people are saying to her and it makes me feel bad. i hate seeing any trans person going through this. cause i get what you're saying that if this is never addressed it cant move forward, and <

like if she just wanted money she coulda just done the detrans grifter thing that proves fruitful. this is not the behavior of someone looking for clout and cash . but thats just me, i guess the community will decide whats right in how this young woman is treated

no not really, but thats okay i seem to be in a minority here. ive been trying to be empathetic and understand how, if this was all truly fake, she got to this point. if she did really make up a fake fbi letter then she's clearly going through some shit

so is about the substack or not? is it about the drugs or not? how is everyone is this mob both justified in their wrongdoings but also not doing anything wrong?

well if she posts another fake fbi letter or does any other sort of grift, or you can prove that she has done shit like this in the past, then i'll eat crow

okay and i still think that doesn't excuse the treatment shes receiving

i still dont think that implies shes a grifter