jeff perera
@jeffperera.bsky.social
speaker and writer helping men draw maps to manhood.
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jeff perera
@jeffperera.bsky.social
· Nov 17
Men: when these online grifters sell you an idea of power as a man at the expense of others, when you thought you were being taught how to hunt
all along you were the prey.
#KnowYourJudas #HigherUnlearning
all along you were the prey.
#KnowYourJudas #HigherUnlearning
Let’s do the work.
November 10, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Let’s do the work.
Truth hurts sometimes, doesn't it? Spending your entire life as a man running from hard truths hurts everyone - including yourself - more.
November 9, 2025 at 8:20 PM
Truth hurts sometimes, doesn't it? Spending your entire life as a man running from hard truths hurts everyone - including yourself - more.
I got to speak to 5 brilliant experts exploring what’s next after the Hockey Canada trial aftermath. As part of a 5-part IG Live series,
We discussed consent, hockey culture and Canadian masculinities, accountability and more.
watch all the convos here: higherunlearning.com/2025/08/17/w...
We discussed consent, hockey culture and Canadian masculinities, accountability and more.
watch all the convos here: higherunlearning.com/2025/08/17/w...
November 8, 2025 at 5:53 PM
I got to speak to 5 brilliant experts exploring what’s next after the Hockey Canada trial aftermath. As part of a 5-part IG Live series,
We discussed consent, hockey culture and Canadian masculinities, accountability and more.
watch all the convos here: higherunlearning.com/2025/08/17/w...
We discussed consent, hockey culture and Canadian masculinities, accountability and more.
watch all the convos here: higherunlearning.com/2025/08/17/w...
Lessons from the 2025 Toronto #BlueJays for men and boys on being a present and caring teammate to everyone, openly expressing a variety of emotions, dealing with grief, having wins and facing defeats together.
Step to the plate and check it out here: higherunlearning.com/2025/11/06/t...
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Step to the plate and check it out here: higherunlearning.com/2025/11/06/t...
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The Blue Jays and The Power of Men’s Friendship
Being better teammates when everything is great and when everything sucks the worst. “Life is a series of bounces. Some will go your way. Some will not.What makes you a man is what you do…
higherunlearning.com
November 7, 2025 at 10:43 PM
Lessons from the 2025 Toronto #BlueJays for men and boys on being a present and caring teammate to everyone, openly expressing a variety of emotions, dealing with grief, having wins and facing defeats together.
Step to the plate and check it out here: higherunlearning.com/2025/11/06/t...
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Step to the plate and check it out here: higherunlearning.com/2025/11/06/t...
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While the World Series became a World Series of unfortunate events for the Blue Jays, they modelled for men and boys not just what we do when we win, but how to co-create a workplace where we all can bloom, and deal with grief when the bounces don’t go our way
higherunlearning.com/2025/11/06/t...
higherunlearning.com/2025/11/06/t...
The Blue Jays and The Power of Men’s Friendship
Being better teammates when everything is great and when everything sucks the worst. “Life is a series of bounces. Some will go your way. Some will not.What makes you a man is what you do…
higherunlearning.com
November 6, 2025 at 10:30 PM
While the World Series became a World Series of unfortunate events for the Blue Jays, they modelled for men and boys not just what we do when we win, but how to co-create a workplace where we all can bloom, and deal with grief when the bounces don’t go our way
higherunlearning.com/2025/11/06/t...
higherunlearning.com/2025/11/06/t...
October 31, 2025 at 2:22 PM
Reposted by jeff perera
Imagine if the people in charge of newspapers and TV stations and universities and tech companies and in Congress had 1% of Kat’s moral courage.
Trump would be in prison.
Trump would be in prison.
I have been charged in a federal indictment sought by the Department of Justice.
This political prosecution is an attack on all of our First Amendment rights. I’m not backing down, and we’re going to win.
This political prosecution is an attack on all of our First Amendment rights. I’m not backing down, and we’re going to win.
October 29, 2025 at 5:19 PM
Imagine if the people in charge of newspapers and TV stations and universities and tech companies and in Congress had 1% of Kat’s moral courage.
Trump would be in prison.
Trump would be in prison.
London has been the focus of a lot of conversations re: gender-based violence these last few years, especially 2025
Join us at GECO for a conversation looking back as well as looking ahead to the work we are called to do in all our communities. register for free:
www.eventbrite.ca/e/building-b...
Join us at GECO for a conversation looking back as well as looking ahead to the work we are called to do in all our communities. register for free:
www.eventbrite.ca/e/building-b...
Building Bridges Across Differences: Countering VAW and Hate across Ontario
A Gender Equality Coalition of Ontario Speaker's Series
www.eventbrite.ca
October 22, 2025 at 5:27 PM
London has been the focus of a lot of conversations re: gender-based violence these last few years, especially 2025
Join us at GECO for a conversation looking back as well as looking ahead to the work we are called to do in all our communities. register for free:
www.eventbrite.ca/e/building-b...
Join us at GECO for a conversation looking back as well as looking ahead to the work we are called to do in all our communities. register for free:
www.eventbrite.ca/e/building-b...
American Baseball talking head ‘experts’ learning how to spell Clement and pronounce Lukes in October… #WantItall #BlueJays
October 5, 2025 at 8:52 PM
American Baseball talking head ‘experts’ learning how to spell Clement and pronounce Lukes in October… #WantItall #BlueJays
October 5, 2025 at 8:46 PM
Reposted by jeff perera
During the Jays' first playoff run in 1985, Canada's other major league baseball team offered their support.
Toronto Sun, October 8, 1985 #bluejays
Toronto Sun, October 8, 1985 #bluejays
October 4, 2025 at 8:09 PM
During the Jays' first playoff run in 1985, Canada's other major league baseball team offered their support.
Toronto Sun, October 8, 1985 #bluejays
Toronto Sun, October 8, 1985 #bluejays
You aren't just stuck in traffic...
Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
October 3, 2025 at 8:04 PM
You aren't just stuck in traffic...
Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
Debate Bros are so wack. Let’s make being Dialogue Dawgs the new cool.
#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
September 19, 2025 at 9:17 PM
Debate Bros are so wack. Let’s make being Dialogue Dawgs the new cool.
#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
1) The shot that killed Charlie Kirk was like an internal decapitation that severed his head from his body. One could argue his mind was separated from his heart years ago based on his words and work.
September 14, 2025 at 5:47 PM
1) The shot that killed Charlie Kirk was like an internal decapitation that severed his head from his body. One could argue his mind was separated from his heart years ago based on his words and work.
“His words were bullets that pierced the tattered strands of connective tissue left between us.
Those are my thoughts, and here is my prayer: that more of us take this moment as a call to action towards change… reject the tradition of handing down hate”
higherunlearning.com/2025/09/11/s...
Those are my thoughts, and here is my prayer: that more of us take this moment as a call to action towards change… reject the tradition of handing down hate”
higherunlearning.com/2025/09/11/s...
Some Thoughts and Prayers: Charlie Kirk and Rejecting a Tradition of Hate
Charlie Kirk’s death can be a ‘fork in the road’ moment where society decides to reject hate and find its way back to our collective humanity, or pass a point of no return. What direction are we he…
higherunlearning.com
September 11, 2025 at 5:13 AM
“His words were bullets that pierced the tattered strands of connective tissue left between us.
Those are my thoughts, and here is my prayer: that more of us take this moment as a call to action towards change… reject the tradition of handing down hate”
higherunlearning.com/2025/09/11/s...
Those are my thoughts, and here is my prayer: that more of us take this moment as a call to action towards change… reject the tradition of handing down hate”
higherunlearning.com/2025/09/11/s...
Excited to read this! Joanna Schroeder and Christopher Pepper offer parents, father figures and family members 16 conversations via this beautifully done book to help teens and tweens navigate today’s tough topics and issues.
Thankful to have written a little piece for the book as well! Go get it!
Thankful to have written a little piece for the book as well! Go get it!
September 9, 2025 at 7:04 PM
Excited to read this! Joanna Schroeder and Christopher Pepper offer parents, father figures and family members 16 conversations via this beautifully done book to help teens and tweens navigate today’s tough topics and issues.
Thankful to have written a little piece for the book as well! Go get it!
Thankful to have written a little piece for the book as well! Go get it!
What does bravery as a man look like today?
September 7, 2025 at 3:20 PM
What does bravery as a man look like today?
Does it feel like you - like we - reached a point of no return?
It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
September 6, 2025 at 7:32 PM
Does it feel like you - like we - reached a point of no return?
It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
Rebuilding our atrophied empathy muscles as men would give us the strength to eradicate hate.
September 5, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Rebuilding our atrophied empathy muscles as men would give us the strength to eradicate hate.
Enough of the measuring contests… here’s the true measure of man. 📏
#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
August 29, 2025 at 7:38 PM
Enough of the measuring contests… here’s the true measure of man. 📏
#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
Being assertive as a man doesn’t mean we have to be aggressive 24/7. For some guys however, the Ends justify the Mean.
August 28, 2025 at 8:07 PM
Being assertive as a man doesn’t mean we have to be aggressive 24/7. For some guys however, the Ends justify the Mean.
From my short piece: ‘Five Truths on Not Buying into the Manosphere Bait and Switch’ up at The 44 North
the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch
the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch
August 25, 2025 at 6:23 PM
From my short piece: ‘Five Truths on Not Buying into the Manosphere Bait and Switch’ up at The 44 North
the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch
the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch