Because it's not a choice, it becomes very easy to look down on others who see it that way. It also makes taking the slippery path back to an abuser much more likely.

I thought I could deliberately love someone into being free. Love them into happiness. Turns out, they have to do that themselves.

If I hear you talking like this I'm going to push back, forcefully. Work, home, grocery store, Zoom call, I don't care. I'm tired of it. You want to pick on someone, at work or at home? I'm right here, step up and try.

bsky.app/profile/did:...

Saw this one being passed around. Has most of the new ones that were verified