Jeramiah Dooley
@jeramiah.net
- Sr. Director @GitHub
- Model train super freak 🚂
- Too many shoes. 👟
I used to be fun.
- Model train super freak 🚂
- Too many shoes. 👟
I used to be fun.
True story: had someone tell me once that her estranged husband felt the need to remind her every so often that there is no such thing as spousal rape in Texas. Overdue is right.
Today is the publication day for WITHOUT CONSENT, a book I am so proud to share with the world, and that the New York Times Book Review says "is years — decades — overdue."
Read more, and order in your preferred format from your favorite retailer here: www.sarahweinman.com/book/without...
Read more, and order in your preferred format from your favorite retailer here: www.sarahweinman.com/book/without...
November 11, 2025 at 1:16 PM
True story: had someone tell me once that her estranged husband felt the need to remind her every so often that there is no such thing as spousal rape in Texas. Overdue is right.
Up at 4am with nightmares. Made it to another morning. Already winning?
November 11, 2025 at 11:18 AM
Up at 4am with nightmares. Made it to another morning. Already winning?
I just went and spent an absurd amount of money on trains and I don't feel a single bit better.
Fucking everything sucks.
Fucking everything sucks.
November 11, 2025 at 1:00 AM
I just went and spent an absurd amount of money on trains and I don't feel a single bit better.
Fucking everything sucks.
Fucking everything sucks.
Made it to another morning. Already winning. 🥶
November 10, 2025 at 2:05 PM
Made it to another morning. Already winning. 🥶
Can I share my cute frog pictures with you, Bluesky? I used to have someone who loved for me to send them, and I don't want this kind of photogenic talent to be wasted.
November 9, 2025 at 11:48 PM
Can I share my cute frog pictures with you, Bluesky? I used to have someone who loved for me to send them, and I don't want this kind of photogenic talent to be wasted.
I don't know what this TV show "Doc" is, but I could do without the trailer with women being abused. I've got more than enough of that in my life at the moment.
November 9, 2025 at 6:47 PM
I don't know what this TV show "Doc" is, but I could do without the trailer with women being abused. I've got more than enough of that in my life at the moment.
Made it to another morning. Already winning. ☁️
November 9, 2025 at 1:38 PM
Made it to another morning. Already winning. ☁️
I know life is complicated, and not everyone always shows up as their best self. Sometimes people lie, even if they aren't liars, and I can give a lot of grace.
But when you lie to me about things that are incredibly easy to verify, it adds a level of insult to injury.
I'm not stupid.
But when you lie to me about things that are incredibly easy to verify, it adds a level of insult to injury.
I'm not stupid.
November 9, 2025 at 4:43 AM
I know life is complicated, and not everyone always shows up as their best self. Sometimes people lie, even if they aren't liars, and I can give a lot of grace.
But when you lie to me about things that are incredibly easy to verify, it adds a level of insult to injury.
I'm not stupid.
But when you lie to me about things that are incredibly easy to verify, it adds a level of insult to injury.
I'm not stupid.
I had a pretty good couple days to end the week, but today is hard. I feel...hollow? I made a list of things to do so I stay busy, but it's just hard to focus.
November 8, 2025 at 6:17 PM
I had a pretty good couple days to end the week, but today is hard. I feel...hollow? I made a list of things to do so I stay busy, but it's just hard to focus.
Being able to freely tell someone how you feel after years of walking on eggshells might be one of the best feelings ever.
You know how you should always punch Nazis? I feel the same way about abusers. If that makes you feel uncomfortable, maybe you are on the wrong side of the discussion.
You know how you should always punch Nazis? I feel the same way about abusers. If that makes you feel uncomfortable, maybe you are on the wrong side of the discussion.
November 7, 2025 at 6:37 AM
Being able to freely tell someone how you feel after years of walking on eggshells might be one of the best feelings ever.
You know how you should always punch Nazis? I feel the same way about abusers. If that makes you feel uncomfortable, maybe you are on the wrong side of the discussion.
You know how you should always punch Nazis? I feel the same way about abusers. If that makes you feel uncomfortable, maybe you are on the wrong side of the discussion.
I've been thinking about how abused people experience love, and it makes me sad.
For me, love is a choice, not a feeling. Not an urge. I love people deliberately because I want to.
People abused in romantic relationships don't know they have a choice, so they see love as an obligation. A chore.
For me, love is a choice, not a feeling. Not an urge. I love people deliberately because I want to.
People abused in romantic relationships don't know they have a choice, so they see love as an obligation. A chore.
November 6, 2025 at 11:08 PM
I've been thinking about how abused people experience love, and it makes me sad.
For me, love is a choice, not a feeling. Not an urge. I love people deliberately because I want to.
People abused in romantic relationships don't know they have a choice, so they see love as an obligation. A chore.
For me, love is a choice, not a feeling. Not an urge. I love people deliberately because I want to.
People abused in romantic relationships don't know they have a choice, so they see love as an obligation. A chore.
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When people talk about the excesses of MeToo, they have to lie, because the reality is that there was no massive social reckoning forcing people to believe survivors or hold perpetrators accountable. In fact, there has been a significant backsliding and new punishments in rejection of MeToo
November 6, 2025 at 4:33 PM
When people talk about the excesses of MeToo, they have to lie, because the reality is that there was no massive social reckoning forcing people to believe survivors or hold perpetrators accountable. In fact, there has been a significant backsliding and new punishments in rejection of MeToo
I was always taught that how a man treats the women in his life is one of the biggest indicators of his character.
Between the NYT op-ed page and the abusive, malignant narcissist in my life, I'm entirely fucking done with people who act this way. Done.
Between the NYT op-ed page and the abusive, malignant narcissist in my life, I'm entirely fucking done with people who act this way. Done.
When people say women ruined the workplace, you’ll notice they don’t call for women to exit the workforce. Instead, they want our labor to be unpaid or severely underpaid and for us to have zero agency or autonomy at work. They want us to be subservient; they want us to be slaves.
November 6, 2025 at 4:34 PM
I was always taught that how a man treats the women in his life is one of the biggest indicators of his character.
Between the NYT op-ed page and the abusive, malignant narcissist in my life, I'm entirely fucking done with people who act this way. Done.
Between the NYT op-ed page and the abusive, malignant narcissist in my life, I'm entirely fucking done with people who act this way. Done.
I've gotten an up-front seat for a master class in abusive narcissism for the last decade, here's a couple things I've learned.
1) The mask always slips. You can't trust the "good" version
2) They will always care more about what they have and how they are perceived than they do about you
1) The mask always slips. You can't trust the "good" version
2) They will always care more about what they have and how they are perceived than they do about you
November 5, 2025 at 8:15 PM
I've gotten an up-front seat for a master class in abusive narcissism for the last decade, here's a couple things I've learned.
1) The mask always slips. You can't trust the "good" version
2) They will always care more about what they have and how they are perceived than they do about you
1) The mask always slips. You can't trust the "good" version
2) They will always care more about what they have and how they are perceived than they do about you
Things I didn't expect to be doing today: trying to decide what my obligation is to hold a child abuser accountable. Why can't people just be fucking decent to their wife and kids? Want the fuck is wrong with people? I never wanted to be in this position.
November 5, 2025 at 6:14 PM
Things I didn't expect to be doing today: trying to decide what my obligation is to hold a child abuser accountable. Why can't people just be fucking decent to their wife and kids? Want the fuck is wrong with people? I never wanted to be in this position.
Grief is a strange thing, especially for someone like me who is notoriously reticent to let go of people or relationships. I'm probably gonna do some out-loud processing on here for the next little while as the need strikes me. Feel free to mute, block, or participate as you see fit. 🫶
November 5, 2025 at 4:41 PM
Grief is a strange thing, especially for someone like me who is notoriously reticent to let go of people or relationships. I'm probably gonna do some out-loud processing on here for the next little while as the need strikes me. Feel free to mute, block, or participate as you see fit. 🫶
I woke up yesterday morning hoping for a miracle, or at least an outbreak of sanity and common sense. I woke up today very grateful for the bullet I dodged.
Absolutely bonkers how fast someone can get from one feeling to the other with the right motivation. 💪🏼
Absolutely bonkers how fast someone can get from one feeling to the other with the right motivation. 💪🏼
a man wearing a hat says " sometimes life takes care of itself " in front of a building
ALT: a man wearing a hat says " sometimes life takes care of itself " in front of a building
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November 5, 2025 at 9:29 AM
I woke up yesterday morning hoping for a miracle, or at least an outbreak of sanity and common sense. I woke up today very grateful for the bullet I dodged.
Absolutely bonkers how fast someone can get from one feeling to the other with the right motivation. 💪🏼
Absolutely bonkers how fast someone can get from one feeling to the other with the right motivation. 💪🏼
Just another Tuesday. 🫠
a man says that was a rollercoaster in front of a palm tree
ALT: a man says that was a rollercoaster in front of a palm tree
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November 4, 2025 at 7:34 PM
Just another Tuesday. 🫠
If he means the stock market as it's become in the last 25 years, I see this as a benefit not a risk. What we have now doesn't bear any resemblance to reality, mostly because of the insane amount of power the largest investors have. Remove billionaires and you change the whole investing game.
November 1, 2025 at 4:57 PM
If he means the stock market as it's become in the last 25 years, I see this as a benefit not a risk. What we have now doesn't bear any resemblance to reality, mostly because of the insane amount of power the largest investors have. Remove billionaires and you change the whole investing game.
"Trusting you is my decision, proving me wrong is your choice."
Damn.
Damn.
October 27, 2025 at 12:30 AM
"Trusting you is my decision, proving me wrong is your choice."
Damn.
Damn.
My son's college and my daughter's high school have both been effectively shut down because AWS has no ability to fix the dumpster fire that is us-east-1.
Some things never change.
Some things never change.
October 20, 2025 at 5:08 PM
My son's college and my daughter's high school have both been effectively shut down because AWS has no ability to fix the dumpster fire that is us-east-1.
Some things never change.
Some things never change.
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Live your life so that millions of your fellow citizens don’t feel compelled to take to the streets to express how much they dislike you and how bad you are at your job.
October 18, 2025 at 5:28 PM
Live your life so that millions of your fellow citizens don’t feel compelled to take to the streets to express how much they dislike you and how bad you are at your job.
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bsky.app/profile/did:...
Saw this one being passed around. Has most of the new ones that were verified
Saw this one being passed around. Has most of the new ones that were verified
October 18, 2025 at 4:42 PM
bsky.app/profile/did:...
Saw this one being passed around. Has most of the new ones that were verified
Saw this one being passed around. Has most of the new ones that were verified
Has anyone made a "fascist government accounts" blocklist yet?
October 18, 2025 at 4:14 PM
Has anyone made a "fascist government accounts" blocklist yet?
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after careful study, I believe only people born between 1975 and 1995 should be allowed to use the internet
October 9, 2025 at 7:30 PM
after careful study, I believe only people born between 1975 and 1995 should be allowed to use the internet