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Gryph
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Minnesotan in SC, daughter of Yooper. Sisu. Bi. ADHD. She/her. Writer. Early 40's. Animal shelter worker. TNR. Many cats. :) Links: https://linktr.ee/gryph42 Cat Sanctuary wishlist: https://throne.com/sarahgryph
Agreed! It's actually much more interesting writing (to me) with that taken into account than if it had been had been written differently.
January 12, 2026 at 2:59 AM
That's so cool, I didn't realize you were working on it!

I mean, I still haven't gotten around to the new season of Fallout but I was right on top of catching The Pitt, so that says something about my interest levels. ^_^
January 12, 2026 at 2:19 AM
Oh, I'd absolutely agree! Even if they feel bad about what they did, and I'm sure they do, the way they went about it felt super selfish. That tracks with how some folks IRL can be in early recovery (I say this without hate, recovery is a process), but still hard to watch.
January 12, 2026 at 1:43 AM
I feel like it was on purpose, bc it gels with the character still very much being in their own head and not *actually* out of the addiction-selfish-mode. Which is super accurate for early recovery, tbh. It's possible I give the show too much credit, but it felt purposeful in that sense.
January 12, 2026 at 1:30 AM
I was actually speaking out loud to my screen, lol. "This is not the time, dude. No, it's not about you right now, dude. No really, right now needs to not be about you dude, you really need to stop. I get what you're trying to do, but this isn't okay."
January 12, 2026 at 1:25 AM
Thank you for letting me vent, lol. To me, waving the scene off as "Oh, they're doing the Amends thing, that makes sense, good for them!" actually misses some really interesting character stuff going on *because* it's not actually being done in a good way. There's interesting layers here!
January 12, 2026 at 1:23 AM
(Being more specific would definitely veer into spoiler territory so I won't. But I have specific thoughts about WHY the thing is being done in an inappropriate and inconsiderate manner, considering the situation and the wording of the thing.)
January 12, 2026 at 1:20 AM
The show being accurate about how some people go about doing the thing, does not mean the character is doing the thing in an appropriate fashion.

That's my thing. Show being accurate, yes. Character doing the thing in an appropriate and considerate way, no.
January 12, 2026 at 1:18 AM
I think the show IS accurately showing how some people *go about* trying to make amends. Plenty of people do accidentally make it all about themselves and their need to confess and receive forgiveness w/o thinking about how the conversation might affect the other person or if it's a good time.
January 12, 2026 at 1:16 AM
Update tho: Coworker also texted the business and we just got a call back. We did successfully find the humans who care for the kitty, and thank goodness we were able to get in touch that way. ❤️
January 10, 2026 at 9:47 PM
Omg. O_o
January 10, 2026 at 8:47 PM
This is even funnier bc I just overheard someone from my adoptions team this morning, "Wait, we have two different Luna's up here?!" 😆
January 10, 2026 at 1:38 AM
Yes, the ear tipped cats on my account are usually TNR'd community cats in my neighborhood; sometimes TNR'd cats at the local cat sanctuary or the shelter I work at.
January 8, 2026 at 4:29 AM