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Lighthouse Wifie
@lighthousewifie.bsky.social
An atheist #countingblessings for my #mentalhealth.
Likes tea, hot-water bottles, social justice, knitting, nuanced opinions, & sleeping.
Look North.
That's where I live.
Hence the hot-water bottles.
Fucking Kafka. It's hard not to see it as weaponised cruelty. Sending hugs.
February 17, 2026 at 2:22 PM
Ooooh, more cool pictures! Thank you!
February 17, 2026 at 12:30 PM
OMG, doesn't it!
February 14, 2026 at 1:02 PM
I have no idea!

The upper classes like the Twisleton-Wykeham-Fiennes would occasionally multi-barrel, though now many of them, like Ralph Feinnes and Ranulf Feinnes, just use the one surname.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twislet...

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ralph_F...

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ranulph...
Ranulph Fiennes - Wikipedia
en.wikipedia.org
February 12, 2026 at 8:50 AM
You must have Many Stories! 🤣
February 11, 2026 at 9:00 AM
I guess every name is difficult somewhere.

Here is a list of falsehoods programmers believe about names. It is one of my favourite business / IT texts.

www.kalzumeus.com/2010/06/17/f...
Falsehoods Programmers Believe About Names | Kalzumeus Software
Classic essay about how software routinely bumbles human names.
www.kalzumeus.com
February 11, 2026 at 8:51 AM
PS

I am constantly astonished by the pain people inflict on their children with their choice of names.

www.reddit.com/r/tragedeigh/

As I said - I have thought far too much about this! 😄
tragedeigh
Tragedeigh = a given name that has been deliberately misspelled or completely made up to appear more unique than it actually is.
www.reddit.com
February 11, 2026 at 8:33 AM
Second husband is still shocked by the inadvertent oppression!

What I *should* have done is ditched my first name. But my middle name was also a difficult one (for politico-social reasons, not spelling) and it still makes me itchy today.

I could go on... I have thought FAR TOO MUCH about this! 😀
February 11, 2026 at 8:29 AM
I kept it after my divorce because I didn't want to go back to spelling out both names again, and because I had a career and a professional blog in that name.

When I remarried, I still kept my ex's surname for my professional work, but took my new husband's surname for reasons of spelling.
February 11, 2026 at 8:29 AM
I have thought about names a lot! My first name is difficult, and my maiden surname was not pronounced the way it was written. So I had to spell both every single time.

I embraced my first married surname because it was expected of me, and it was easier to spell.
February 11, 2026 at 8:29 AM
And some women double-barrel their maiden name with their partner's or husband's name. For some it's so they have continuity during their career. For others it's so share part of their surname with their children (usually boys) who get given the father's name.
February 11, 2026 at 8:21 AM
It's no longer a signifier of class.

I know several people with double-barrelled surnames because their mother chose not to take their father's surname: the parents double-barrelled the children's names.
February 11, 2026 at 8:21 AM
It's almost as if the people who actually fail to integrate are cis-het, white, and desperately clutching their pearls.

Projection is a wonderful thing. 😕
February 9, 2026 at 9:34 AM
Bemused, but grateful.

Unsurprisingly, neither of us won! 😀
February 9, 2026 at 9:26 AM
To cure, or to cause?
February 9, 2026 at 9:20 AM
"There Is No Cloud – There's Just Somebody Else's Computer" 😍

"The "i" in "LLM" stands for intelligence" 👌

Thank you! I enjoyed that!
February 8, 2026 at 4:30 PM