@marcinca3.bsky.social
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Never imply that the adult survivor is to blame for their childhood abuse. Nothing a child has ever done, no matter how provocative, is justification for abuse. The abuser ALWAYS carries responsibility for the abuse. It is a criminal act.
September 10, 2025 at 4:00 PM
Never imply that the adult survivor is to blame for their childhood abuse. Nothing a child has ever done, no matter how provocative, is justification for abuse. The abuser ALWAYS carries responsibility for the abuse. It is a criminal act.
When God’s people worship separate and untouched by suffering, they are not worshiping the God of the Scriptures. There is nothing in the Scriptures to suggest that being complicit, neutral, or uncaring and deaf to the cries of humans is godly.
February 10, 2025 at 9:16 PM
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Just as we never forget those who turned away, failed to listen, disbelieved, or changed the way they treated us,
we never forget those who listened, gave us enough time, and made us feel it was safe, in every sense of the word, to disclose child sexual abuse. #CSA
we never forget those who listened, gave us enough time, and made us feel it was safe, in every sense of the word, to disclose child sexual abuse. #CSA
January 20, 2025 at 7:44 AM
Just as we never forget those who turned away, failed to listen, disbelieved, or changed the way they treated us,
we never forget those who listened, gave us enough time, and made us feel it was safe, in every sense of the word, to disclose child sexual abuse. #CSA
we never forget those who listened, gave us enough time, and made us feel it was safe, in every sense of the word, to disclose child sexual abuse. #CSA
A love language for anyone trying to heal from trauma is: safety
@the.holistic.psychologist
@the.holistic.psychologist
January 29, 2025 at 8:39 PM
A love language for anyone trying to heal from trauma is: safety
@the.holistic.psychologist
@the.holistic.psychologist
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Pleased to contribute to this. The economic consequences of surviving CSA are hard to quantify as each survivor is different, but in my case surviving becaming more expensive as time went on, for me and for the state -exacerbated by continued poor systems responses. #CSA
Pleased to contribute to this. The economic consequences of surviving CSA are hard to quantify as each survivor is different, but in my case surviving becaming more expensive as time went on, for me and for the state -exacerbated by continued poor systems responses. #CSA
'Being sexually abused as a child has cost me over £100,000'
Survivors of child sex abuse share the financial impact of their trauma.
metro.co.uk
January 26, 2025 at 9:38 AM
metro.co.uk/2025/01/25/b...
Pleased to contribute to this. The economic consequences of surviving CSA are hard to quantify as each survivor is different, but in my case surviving becaming more expensive as time went on, for me and for the state -exacerbated by continued poor systems responses. #CSA
Pleased to contribute to this. The economic consequences of surviving CSA are hard to quantify as each survivor is different, but in my case surviving becaming more expensive as time went on, for me and for the state -exacerbated by continued poor systems responses. #CSA
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"My life could have been so different if someone chose to support me when I disclosed abuse.” - survivors everywhere
The way you treat the victims in your life is going to have an impact on them. Make it a positive one.
The way you treat the victims in your life is going to have an impact on them. Make it a positive one.
January 23, 2025 at 5:45 PM
"My life could have been so different if someone chose to support me when I disclosed abuse.” - survivors everywhere
The way you treat the victims in your life is going to have an impact on them. Make it a positive one.
The way you treat the victims in your life is going to have an impact on them. Make it a positive one.
Loving the Houston snow ❄️
January 21, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Loving the Houston snow ❄️
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Many Stories Matter
Identifying and Resisting the Dangers of a Single Story
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January 19, 2025 at 4:22 PM
It is a grievous failure of those who claim to be the people of God when they not only fail to be a sanctuary for the traumatized, but also create the need for one.
December 28, 2024 at 6:28 PM
We can all agree these men are terrible people who committed atrocious acts but I want to point out that medical misogyny played a role
Gisele KNEW something was wrong. She went to her doctors on multiple occasions. She was gaslit & led to believe she had Alzheimer’s. She deserved better. We all do
Gisele KNEW something was wrong. She went to her doctors on multiple occasions. She was gaslit & led to believe she had Alzheimer’s. She deserved better. We all do
Gisele Pelicot, Medical Misogyny and How Disabled People Face Increased Risk of Abuse
Most of us have heard Gisele's story. It's a reminder that even men you trust can harm you. Did you know that she went to her doctors for help? A look at how medical misogyny contributed to her abuse.
www.disabledginger.com
December 20, 2024 at 12:01 PM
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Whenever a minister uses temporal distancing tactics by claiming the abusive scenario took place XX years ago, my first thought is, why did it take XX years to publicly repent, lament, and step down from ministry? The more years it took to supposedly repent, the worse it looks.
December 6, 2024 at 3:30 AM
Whenever a minister uses temporal distancing tactics by claiming the abusive scenario took place XX years ago, my first thought is, why did it take XX years to publicly repent, lament, and step down from ministry? The more years it took to supposedly repent, the worse it looks.