What is also not helpful is when people DO sense it's out of fear or trauma, then take offence or try to convince me there's nothing to be afraid of.

That isn't up to you. That is between me and my nervous system. Me feeling safe is not a button you can push. It takes as long as it takes.

When you hear someone over-explaining, know one (or all) of these is true:

1). They’ve often had their reality denied.
2). They've been hurt in unpredictable ways & believe it was because they didn't explain better.
3). They've grown up being ignored.

Please be patient.

Without downloading any new pics, where are ye at mentally?

I keep forgetting to be medially social. Have cat.

I, uh, *like*, this idea.

1 like = 1 song I love

Even if I only get one like I'm going to have trouble whittling down what to put because I love a lot of songs 🫠

I'd like to get back into some kind of creative outlet. Can people give me a prompt of something to draw, just for sillies 🤔

Hi.