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Topher
@mcgiro.bsky.social
He/him | Nerd, chaplain, dad (1 human, 2 cats.) Sometime baker, 1st time caller.
This pain is preventable. It is preventable not with invasive, expensive procedures or complex medications.
Just information and practice. Just awareness that this program provided.

This breaks my heart.
May 5, 2025 at 7:15 PM
I’ve stood with parents whose babies never did wake up. I can still hear their screams of grief and confusion and pain.

This Breaks my heart.
May 5, 2025 at 7:14 PM
I’ve followed these sleep practices as a parent and, when I couldn’t stop staring at my sleeping baby for fear he would just stop breathing, they’ve given me some comfort and peace of mind.

This breaks my heart.
May 5, 2025 at 7:12 PM
Which is all to say you totally deserve a space like that and I wish more existed in a big way.
February 24, 2025 at 5:05 PM
Also, if you’re not sure how cult-y something sounds, hit up @nerdypsychlady.bsky.social
She’s done some awesome reading/thinking about what makes a cult.
February 24, 2025 at 5:02 PM
This speaks so much to my chaplain-y heart I could glow. A lot of religious communities fulfill fundamentally human needs, from an anthro & biopsychosocial model perspective. Some basic structure responds to just humans doing connection around shared values. The content does… hooboy, a lot else.
February 24, 2025 at 5:01 PM
I want that on the list of credentials when you’re searching for a doctor.
“Let’s see, they’ve got BA, MD, PhD… FLW? Nice.”
February 14, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Musk thinks he’s David Xanatos, his fans think he’s Tony Stark, and now his opponents have a much better depiction of him than we did before. 💯
February 6, 2025 at 2:34 PM
I suppose not… if you remember you can zoom in on photos, lol 🤦🏻‍♂️😆
January 31, 2025 at 6:42 PM
This is genuinely challenging. Feels like I’m on “Is It Cake?” 😆
January 31, 2025 at 3:28 PM
Ooh. Da. Lolly. 😂😂😂
January 31, 2025 at 2:54 PM
Ohhhh, I feel this. The “this has just happened. What’s gonna happen next?” searching is a special feeling in my nervous system lol.
January 31, 2025 at 2:53 PM
That AI generated text is so irritating. You’re exactly right.
“Also babies are deathly allergic to bananas and they are excellent sources of potassium.”
January 31, 2025 at 2:52 PM
Granted, it’s probably an easier subject to get into than the medical situation around them, but still.

TAKEAWAY: if you’re feeling distracted, stressed etc right now, that’s super normal. I hope you offer yourself an extra deep breath and some extra grace today. You deserve it.
January 30, 2025 at 5:07 PM