We are a deeply nonchalant nation. Once we've been pushed into chalant territory, it's set in stone and takes us ~30 seconds to become petty as fuck about the disruption of the vibe.

Not**** IT'S NOT OUR WEDDING goddammit.

But I recognize it's now OUR wedding lmao and that I need to shift the speech to be about their union and not solely about our friendship. AND THAT'S HARD. Because it's truly a friendship I wish on everyone and has been the blessing of my life.

Oh, to have a heart this big, I guess.

Nothing compares to tricking yourself into thinking the first draft *might* not be that bad, and then reading bad only to discover it is somehow infinitely worse. 😭

It's all right if the bravest thing you did today was eat a new type of berry or drove down the block.

In the end, it's all just learning to embrace the discomfort and keep on breathing.

Brave Thing I Did Today: used a pit toilet (and didn't cry). 🤘

The faster I listen, the less feelings I have. Depends on the book, really.

You're spilling like an overflowing sink ✨🩵