@obviousbear.bsky.social
40, male, he/him, Germany. Just hanging out while the other place burns down.
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Disclaimer: I'm not a bot.
Just using the bridge addon to follow as many people as possible before they delete their Twitter, so my follows may be a bit spammy at first.
But yeah. Again. No bot (at least I think so) .
Just using the bridge addon to follow as many people as possible before they delete their Twitter, so my follows may be a bit spammy at first.
But yeah. Again. No bot (at least I think so) .
I can't take Cuxhaven serious. Even their license plates begin with 'cux'.
I blame furries.
I blame furries.
January 8, 2026 at 3:18 PM
I can't take Cuxhaven serious. Even their license plates begin with 'cux'.
I blame furries.
I blame furries.
Vacation's going great when you're seeing 'put rocks in your pockets ans walk out into th sea' as a feasible option.
Too much time to think. Once again realizing how much my mere existence holds my husband back from a better life.
...Well, time to punch a wall, go to sleep and swallow it all down.
Too much time to think. Once again realizing how much my mere existence holds my husband back from a better life.
...Well, time to punch a wall, go to sleep and swallow it all down.
January 7, 2026 at 11:40 PM
Vacation's going great when you're seeing 'put rocks in your pockets ans walk out into th sea' as a feasible option.
Too much time to think. Once again realizing how much my mere existence holds my husband back from a better life.
...Well, time to punch a wall, go to sleep and swallow it all down.
Too much time to think. Once again realizing how much my mere existence holds my husband back from a better life.
...Well, time to punch a wall, go to sleep and swallow it all down.
The vacation home we rented is so fancy, it has a full blown cuck couch
January 5, 2026 at 11:48 PM
The vacation home we rented is so fancy, it has a full blown cuck couch
Reading about some trends feels kinda stupid, especially if they're so utterly arbitrary. Or to put it in another way:
Dating in the US: I only date men above 6 feet!
Dating in the EU: I only date men above 182.88 cm!
Dating in the US: I only date men above 6 feet!
Dating in the EU: I only date men above 182.88 cm!
December 30, 2025 at 1:35 PM
Reading about some trends feels kinda stupid, especially if they're so utterly arbitrary. Or to put it in another way:
Dating in the US: I only date men above 6 feet!
Dating in the EU: I only date men above 182.88 cm!
Dating in the US: I only date men above 6 feet!
Dating in the EU: I only date men above 182.88 cm!
All I wanted was to spend Christmas with my husband and family,go for some short walks with husband and dog, and enjoy their company.
And my body goes 'eh, best I can do is headache, feverish feeling and quite a stomach flu. Almost the same, right?"
And my body goes 'eh, best I can do is headache, feverish feeling and quite a stomach flu. Almost the same, right?"
December 25, 2025 at 11:05 PM
All I wanted was to spend Christmas with my husband and family,go for some short walks with husband and dog, and enjoy their company.
And my body goes 'eh, best I can do is headache, feverish feeling and quite a stomach flu. Almost the same, right?"
And my body goes 'eh, best I can do is headache, feverish feeling and quite a stomach flu. Almost the same, right?"
Growing up with Krampus all my life and then seeing him discovered by furries over the past few years feels...weird at times. Having this obscure mythical figure suddenly be a popular sex symbol is amusing at best. I just can't see him as sexy tho.
December 25, 2025 at 7:59 PM
Growing up with Krampus all my life and then seeing him discovered by furries over the past few years feels...weird at times. Having this obscure mythical figure suddenly be a popular sex symbol is amusing at best. I just can't see him as sexy tho.
Every clothes store should be required by law to have one mannequin in their display unmoving and bolted down. What else are time travelers supposed to look at?
December 18, 2025 at 9:08 AM
Every clothes store should be required by law to have one mannequin in their display unmoving and bolted down. What else are time travelers supposed to look at?
Husband comes into kitchen, looks at me cooking, tries three different starts to a sentence. Then he throws up his hands, goes "You know what, I'll just leave" and backs out.
.... I'm not confident in my cooking right now.
.... I'm not confident in my cooking right now.
November 30, 2025 at 2:01 PM
Husband comes into kitchen, looks at me cooking, tries three different starts to a sentence. Then he throws up his hands, goes "You know what, I'll just leave" and backs out.
.... I'm not confident in my cooking right now.
.... I'm not confident in my cooking right now.
Do I do meal prep? Well, kinda.
November 30, 2025 at 11:24 AM
Do I do meal prep? Well, kinda.
I admit it always amuses me somewhat when a person has a very clear focus on a single fetish, draws it, and favs all artwork that contains it. And then there's a single picture in the favs from time to time where the artist is complete innocent and definitely did not have in mind.
November 24, 2025 at 12:28 PM
I admit it always amuses me somewhat when a person has a very clear focus on a single fetish, draws it, and favs all artwork that contains it. And then there's a single picture in the favs from time to time where the artist is complete innocent and definitely did not have in mind.
Was let go from my job less than a month after being hired. Nothing personal, they just had to cut costs, so as the newest hire I was first on the chopping block.
Still feels miserable. Not even able to hold down a fucking cashier job.
Still feels miserable. Not even able to hold down a fucking cashier job.
October 25, 2025 at 5:10 PM
Was let go from my job less than a month after being hired. Nothing personal, they just had to cut costs, so as the newest hire I was first on the chopping block.
Still feels miserable. Not even able to hold down a fucking cashier job.
Still feels miserable. Not even able to hold down a fucking cashier job.
What's the point of being big, or strong, or earning money or living in a developed country, when there is still shit nothing I can do to help our dog while he's getting older? It's killing me to see him gradually get weaker and slower, wondering if we'll still have him in a year.
October 18, 2025 at 6:18 PM
What's the point of being big, or strong, or earning money or living in a developed country, when there is still shit nothing I can do to help our dog while he's getting older? It's killing me to see him gradually get weaker and slower, wondering if we'll still have him in a year.
It's always endearing to me to through someone's favourites and see those slowly going from SFW/normal stuff to a few risky things, only to end at a point where you can clearly see the person going "fuck this, I love this stuff and I don't care anymore if people know that". And then it's superkinky.
October 14, 2025 at 4:02 PM
It's always endearing to me to through someone's favourites and see those slowly going from SFW/normal stuff to a few risky things, only to end at a point where you can clearly see the person going "fuck this, I love this stuff and I don't care anymore if people know that". And then it's superkinky.
At times I browse my timeline on the side and think "Wow, this person was really active the last few days."
Until I realize I accidentally clicked on someone's name and have been browsing their page for who knows how long.
And that's why I sometimes like your posts from 2 years ago!
Until I realize I accidentally clicked on someone's name and have been browsing their page for who knows how long.
And that's why I sometimes like your posts from 2 years ago!
October 11, 2025 at 8:35 PM
At times I browse my timeline on the side and think "Wow, this person was really active the last few days."
Until I realize I accidentally clicked on someone's name and have been browsing their page for who knows how long.
And that's why I sometimes like your posts from 2 years ago!
Until I realize I accidentally clicked on someone's name and have been browsing their page for who knows how long.
And that's why I sometimes like your posts from 2 years ago!
Spent an hour cooking butter chicken, forgot to properly lock the base of the blender, and then spent half an hour cleaning the sauce of all the surfaces in the kitchen when I lifted the blender and the entire content spilled out. So instead of a nice meal I have... well, no meal.
October 3, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Spent an hour cooking butter chicken, forgot to properly lock the base of the blender, and then spent half an hour cleaning the sauce of all the surfaces in the kitchen when I lifted the blender and the entire content spilled out. So instead of a nice meal I have... well, no meal.
I don't know if it's early winter slump, but I'm feeling even more useless than usual. Just a waste of space and time.
Maybe it's just a bad day. In a bad week. Of a bad month of a bad year of a bad decade.
Maybe it's just a bad day. In a bad week. Of a bad month of a bad year of a bad decade.
October 2, 2025 at 11:42 PM
I don't know if it's early winter slump, but I'm feeling even more useless than usual. Just a waste of space and time.
Maybe it's just a bad day. In a bad week. Of a bad month of a bad year of a bad decade.
Maybe it's just a bad day. In a bad week. Of a bad month of a bad year of a bad decade.
The irony of wanting to do something against my potential ADHD and failing at it because I'm too unfocuses for research and doctor appointments.
October 2, 2025 at 11:40 PM
The irony of wanting to do something against my potential ADHD and failing at it because I'm too unfocuses for research and doctor appointments.
I also did the thing for once!
I guess not many surprised for people that know me in that context.
(Disclaimer: The 'No Thank you' in this case mostly meant 'I don't mind seeing it, or talking about it, but it just...doesn't do anything for me. Like at all. Might as well talk about geology')
I guess not many surprised for people that know me in that context.
(Disclaimer: The 'No Thank you' in this case mostly meant 'I don't mind seeing it, or talking about it, but it just...doesn't do anything for me. Like at all. Might as well talk about geology')
August 11, 2025 at 7:37 PM
I also did the thing for once!
I guess not many surprised for people that know me in that context.
(Disclaimer: The 'No Thank you' in this case mostly meant 'I don't mind seeing it, or talking about it, but it just...doesn't do anything for me. Like at all. Might as well talk about geology')
I guess not many surprised for people that know me in that context.
(Disclaimer: The 'No Thank you' in this case mostly meant 'I don't mind seeing it, or talking about it, but it just...doesn't do anything for me. Like at all. Might as well talk about geology')
Unrelated, the current situation of adult verification on Twitter is only amusing to me at this point. On the one hand it has no problem showing me a real life picture of a dude in leather gear and chastity getting fucked while being pissed on, but a cartoon dog? Can't show that, need verification!
August 2, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Unrelated, the current situation of adult verification on Twitter is only amusing to me at this point. On the one hand it has no problem showing me a real life picture of a dude in leather gear and chastity getting fucked while being pissed on, but a cartoon dog? Can't show that, need verification!
It's weird to find out I'm blocked by an artist on FA that I am very certain I never interacted with before. Why? I have no clue, and that's the only thing that intrigues me. It's not as if I've posted art there in the past decade, or even commented on stuff much.
August 2, 2025 at 4:29 PM
It's weird to find out I'm blocked by an artist on FA that I am very certain I never interacted with before. Why? I have no clue, and that's the only thing that intrigues me. It's not as if I've posted art there in the past decade, or even commented on stuff much.
Nothing like a major panic attack while walking the dog, watching him struggle with stairs and thinking about how 14 is very old for German Shepherds and he might have to be put down at some point.
July 21, 2025 at 6:26 PM
Nothing like a major panic attack while walking the dog, watching him struggle with stairs and thinking about how 14 is very old for German Shepherds and he might have to be put down at some point.
I hoped now that I have working medication and no longer 3 migraines a week I could make progress with my life again. Instead every day just shows me more what an utter failure I am on every front. And I'm just... so tired. Mentally. It makes me wish the heart attack last year had done a proper job.
July 13, 2025 at 2:34 PM
I hoped now that I have working medication and no longer 3 migraines a week I could make progress with my life again. Instead every day just shows me more what an utter failure I am on every front. And I'm just... so tired. Mentally. It makes me wish the heart attack last year had done a proper job.
I just realized I've not been drawing art for longer than I ever drew in the first place. It's kinda weird. Some day I just put the pencil down, said 'I'll take a break', and have never started again. And honestly I doubt that will ever change. Sure, some times I do want to put an idea to paper.
July 13, 2025 at 12:56 PM
I just realized I've not been drawing art for longer than I ever drew in the first place. It's kinda weird. Some day I just put the pencil down, said 'I'll take a break', and have never started again. And honestly I doubt that will ever change. Sure, some times I do want to put an idea to paper.
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"Wow, this kink is so WEIRD and EXTREME" and then you look inside and it's literally just "what if I never had to Be Responsible or Make Good Life Decisions ever again, and somehow this was a sex thing?"
April 5, 2025 at 6:16 PM
"Wow, this kink is so WEIRD and EXTREME" and then you look inside and it's literally just "what if I never had to Be Responsible or Make Good Life Decisions ever again, and somehow this was a sex thing?"
One of the things a lot of people that go "Oh 36 in Germany, it's just summer, here in Texas that's a cool day, la di da." often ignore is the sheer difference in latitude. So for comparison: It's 36°C in Vancouver for us here right now.
July 1, 2025 at 1:26 PM
One of the things a lot of people that go "Oh 36 in Germany, it's just summer, here in Texas that's a cool day, la di da." often ignore is the sheer difference in latitude. So for comparison: It's 36°C in Vancouver for us here right now.