And yes, I’m aware that objecting/refusing a nomination is likely to be moot, that the GOP can force it through, but it’s not moot. It’s refusing to be a party to corruption. It’s registering disapproval and opposition. And that’s necessary. It has WORTH. Those gestures matter. They show leadership.

One of the biggest reasons people develop both perfectionism as an avoidance tactic and other forms of avoidant tactics is a history of not being allowed to fail, or being criticized for beginner efforts as if they’re not a beginner.

Failing is good. Confusion is the default state of learning.