plopkin.bsky.social
@plopkin.bsky.social
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Yes they are – it’s surprising how rare it is that people ask what’s needed! I’ve been trying to explain ME to people I had thought were very intuitive for years but they aren’t really getting it and they don’t put in much effort or ask anything to learn. I’m going to keep trying for now because…1/2
September 3, 2025 at 12:14 AM
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… I know it’s not from malice and they are good people, but it does hurt when someone you’ve known almost all your life or that you thought you were close to doesn’t seem to give you much thought when you need them. Really makes you appreciate the people who make the effort – they’re real gems!
September 3, 2025 at 12:14 AM
And some don't realise they're not listening and processing critically.

They're following their own scripts that they made to manage themselves.

#audhd
September 2, 2025 at 8:45 PM
Some especially good friends welcome being 'trained' a little.

Like
'How do you prefer to be asked?'

Self training friends are extraordinarily rare.

No one KNOWS until you tell them.

#audhd
September 2, 2025 at 8:44 PM