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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺
@positivelad.me
Gay guy living with HIV - working in HIV & Sexual Health. 🧬

Often seen on TV, radio & print.

Husband to @jimmyavenger.me 👬
Dog dad 🐾
Often found aboard a cruise ship 🛳️
Love a wine and a good sit down 🍷

Proud sponsor of @deck.blue

📍London, UK
Oh, excellent.
I needed a good laugh.
January 18, 2026 at 4:35 PM
Tonight’s banishment…

#TheTraitors #TraitorsUK
January 14, 2026 at 8:58 PM
Ah, who said romance was dead?
January 13, 2026 at 9:28 AM
January 10, 2026 at 1:33 AM
CANNOT WAIT for tonights @thetraitors.bsky.social.

"What. The. Fuck?"

*nervous laughter*
January 9, 2026 at 2:15 PM
Me in 2024: Store brands skin care is just as good as name brands.

Me in 2025: Name brand skin care is just as good as high end skin care.

Me in 2026: If anyone tries to steal my six-stage Elemis skin care regimen from me I *will* stab them.
January 5, 2026 at 10:59 PM
My #ADHD husband got locked out of one of our joint accounts… again.

Using a three word password generator (easier to remember than gobbledygook- and more secure) to create a new one and it, apropos of nothing, gave me this one:

YUUUUUUUP.

👀 @jimmyavenger.me
January 4, 2026 at 6:12 PM
I was at Helgen.
December 30, 2025 at 11:33 AM
Merry Christmas 🎅🏻 🎄
December 25, 2025 at 11:15 AM
I love this stuff. I’ve never felt smoother, or smelt more like a wealthy Victorian ghost.

Don’t tell my family.
December 22, 2025 at 12:01 AM
Ho ho ho. Merry Tuesday.
December 16, 2025 at 1:39 PM
Gwen Stefani can get in the fucking sea.
December 14, 2025 at 11:07 PM
Beautiful warm sunny day in Brighton.

Bit odd to be eating outside in mid-December - but nice all the same.
December 13, 2025 at 1:54 PM
Just let me staple the vicar.

We’re making love in a femidon.
December 12, 2025 at 5:34 PM
I asked Siri for a cartoon emoji of a laughing brain.

Instead, she gave me this cursed nightmare.
December 11, 2025 at 10:52 AM
Only thing keeping me sane lately.
December 10, 2025 at 1:07 AM
My special boy 🥺
December 10, 2025 at 1:04 AM
Yes, I’m a homosexual in his forties. What of it?

#AppleMusicReplay
December 4, 2025 at 1:11 PM
Words cannot fully convey how much I detest this snivelling piece of shit.
December 4, 2025 at 11:35 AM
As everyone seems to be putting their trees up today…
December 1, 2025 at 9:51 PM
November 26, 2025 at 1:08 PM
My only faithfuls.

God help anyone who comes for them.
November 23, 2025 at 4:34 AM
Ken Leeeeee
If Libidindauchoooo
Ken Leeeeeeee
Ken Leeeeeeee anymore
November 23, 2025 at 4:29 AM
Well then… 👀
November 18, 2025 at 10:28 PM
November 7, 2025 at 7:13 PM