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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺
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Gay guy living with HIV - working in HIV & Sexual Health. 🧬

Often seen on TV, radio & print.

Husband to @jimmyavenger.me 👬
Dog dad 🐾
Often found aboard a cruise ship 🛳️
Love a wine and a good sit down 🍷

Proud sponsor of @deck.blue

📍London, UK
Pinned
Fab to see more #HIV organisations joining Bluesky

Shout-out to @appghiv.bsky.social, @hiv-i-base.bsky.social, @positiveeast.bsky.social & @positivelyuk.bsky.social

I've added these & more to my two HIV & Sexual Health #StarterPacks

Pack 1: go.bsky.app/FgETwkU
Pack 2: go.bsky.app/Aewd8QP

#HIVsky
Tonight’s banishment…

#TheTraitors #TraitorsUK
January 14, 2026 at 8:58 PM
I really dislike Harriet. She’s good at the game, but deeply unpleasant. #TheTraitors #TraitorsUK
January 14, 2026 at 8:19 PM
Just got a spam/marketing email

SUBJECT: TOM, DON’T READ THIS EMAIL.

Ok, shan’t.

*sends to junk*
January 14, 2026 at 7:01 PM
Change one letter, ruin a show.

Fash in the attic
Change one letter, ruin a show

Homos Under the Hammer
Change one letter, ruin a show.

The Motel Inspector.
January 14, 2026 at 3:28 PM
Ah, who said romance was dead?
January 13, 2026 at 9:28 AM
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Wanda Sykes: “Bill Maher, you give us so much, but I would love a little less, try less”

Bill Maher with a sh!t face for that jab. lol. First Dave Chapelle and now Wanda Sykes. Dude really found a way to be the most hated comedian in Hollywood. Love it 😂
January 12, 2026 at 12:06 PM
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🔥 @markruffalo.bsky.social : “I gotta be honest, I’m not feeling so great. Renee Good was murdered... stormtroopers running around terrorizing. As much as I love all this, I can’t pretend all this crazy stuff isn’t happening. We have a president who says laws don’t apply to him- this is crazy.”
January 12, 2026 at 2:00 PM
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DON'T MISS OUT! 🚨

The abstract deadline for the BHIVA BASHH joint conference is 08.00hrs Monday 19 January 2026!

For submission details see bhiva.org/event/bhiva-...

📍 BHIVA BASHH 2026 Joint Conference: 27 - 29 April, ACC Liverpool

🤝 @bashhuk.bsky.social
January 12, 2026 at 12:49 PM
Remember, don’t copy that floppy.
January 11, 2026 at 9:28 PM
The bathroom cupboard door keeps flying off its hinges and onto the floor.

Either out ghost, Fanny, isn’t a fan of the warm - or it’s an invisible @deathbybadger.bsky.social truffling for left over bacon.
January 10, 2026 at 1:14 AM
CANNOT WAIT for tonights @thetraitors.bsky.social.

"What. The. Fuck?"

*nervous laughter*
January 9, 2026 at 2:15 PM
Me in 2024: Store brands skin care is just as good as name brands.

Me in 2025: Name brand skin care is just as good as high end skin care.

Me in 2026: If anyone tries to steal my six-stage Elemis skin care regimen from me I *will* stab them.
January 5, 2026 at 10:59 PM
Prawn cocktail sandwiches are underrated.

Look at me, getting all controversial up on main for the new work year.
January 5, 2026 at 12:53 PM
My #ADHD husband got locked out of one of our joint accounts… again.

Using a three word password generator (easier to remember than gobbledygook- and more secure) to create a new one and it, apropos of nothing, gave me this one:

YUUUUUUUP.

👀 @jimmyavenger.me
January 4, 2026 at 6:12 PM
That cliffhanger! Argh! #TheTraitors
January 3, 2026 at 9:00 PM
So very cold out there tonight.

Making a mahoosive pot of Minestrone Soup
January 3, 2026 at 6:50 PM
Trump must be stopped.
January 3, 2026 at 10:22 AM
War, war never changes.
January 1, 2026 at 3:19 PM
I was at Helgen.
December 30, 2025 at 11:33 AM
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Man who bought up 33,000 acres of farmland to avoid tax and moved his business to Singapore after the Brexit he voted for wants your sympathy.
December 28, 2025 at 8:28 AM
Merry Christmas 🎅🏻 🎄
December 25, 2025 at 11:15 AM
I love this stuff. I’ve never felt smoother, or smelt more like a wealthy Victorian ghost.

Don’t tell my family.
December 22, 2025 at 12:01 AM
Ho ho ho. Merry Tuesday.
December 16, 2025 at 1:39 PM
Gwen Stefani can get in the fucking sea.
December 14, 2025 at 11:07 PM