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Rey (he/him) 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿
@reydar.bsky.social
Mostly only post when feeling at my most unhinged. Queer, relationship anarchist, abolitionist. Cymro Cymraeg. He/him (ef/ei yng Gymraeg).
I literally found a love note I wrote them crumpled on the ground like trash :( I don't understand why I'm so weak to stay with someone who thinks of me and my love that way
December 21, 2025 at 1:48 PM
I thought I'd found my future but they just don't care about me and don't think about me and it's so painful. I don't think I'm strong enough to leave them and I don't understand why they're keeping someone around that they so clearly do not care about
December 21, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Please just admit you don't love me I know it will hurt but it will hurt so much less than this constant game
December 21, 2025 at 1:27 PM
I know I don't have the strength to leave them because I love them with every atom of my body and soul and I just don't understand why they keep stringing me along like this. It is so obvious to anyone with eyes that they don't even like me let alone love me and it hurts so much
December 21, 2025 at 1:27 PM
I think actually I deserve a partner who spontaneously thinks of me and wants to message me no just reply to 1 out of 4 of the messages I send them. I don't understand why they won't admit they've fallen out of love with me it's so obvious and so painful
December 21, 2025 at 1:27 PM
I just want to be loved and to matter to someone I don't think that's too much to ask but apparently it is
December 21, 2025 at 1:22 PM
I agree with you mostly but how would the car know the limit without your extremely precise location being tracked, even more precisely than most gps (Google maps often thinks I'm one street over from where I am, or gets confused by overpasses etc) and is that not a textbook example of surveillance?
December 14, 2025 at 12:22 PM
I do not think it is trying to appeal to both sides I think they genuinely think this is clever or possibly convincing. Liberals are obsessed with "subverting" stuff and "making statements". This is possibly also trying to highlight hypocrisy
December 13, 2025 at 11:52 AM
I don't even want to pass as cis or be stealth or anything I just want to look masculine enough that even one person would hesitate before she/her-ing me.
December 10, 2025 at 2:03 PM
Tbh I deluded myself I would pass even 1% after top surgery but NO ONE EVEN FUCKING NOTICED. and NO ONE thinks I'm not a woman so I fucking went through all that pain for apparently nothing. Turns out the tits weren't the problem it's my entire body I will never pass I should never have bothered
December 10, 2025 at 2:02 PM
Just don't say weird offensive shit to people and then get shitty when they are weirded out and offended
December 10, 2025 at 12:09 PM
Also to be clear there were 2 doctors in the appt one of which was being normal and I was happy to talk to her and answer her questions the whole time, it's not like I was refusing to speak to anyone and just appointment blocking
December 10, 2025 at 12:09 PM
Where was the question involved in "your biggest issue with your surgery results is good actually!" ?????

Why are doctors Like This™️?
December 10, 2025 at 11:19 AM
Dr: What are you unhappy with about your surgery results?
Me: X Y and Z
Dr: that's actually a good thing
Me: wtf?????? don't talk to me for a minute I am very angry and upset
Dr: right well go back to reception until you calm down. You can't get upset with me for asking questions

????????????
December 10, 2025 at 11:19 AM