Krissy
@rightkindofme.bsky.social
I'm just trying to keep moving forward.
When I complain about anything my 7 year old has started to pat me on the shoulder and say, "I know how you feel, buddy. I know how you feel."
It's both weirdly comforting and also highly annoying. She fits in so very well in our bizarre little clan.
Also: hell flu is hellish. All bad. No good.
It's both weirdly comforting and also highly annoying. She fits in so very well in our bizarre little clan.
Also: hell flu is hellish. All bad. No good.
January 7, 2026 at 7:46 PM
When I complain about anything my 7 year old has started to pat me on the shoulder and say, "I know how you feel, buddy. I know how you feel."
It's both weirdly comforting and also highly annoying. She fits in so very well in our bizarre little clan.
Also: hell flu is hellish. All bad. No good.
It's both weirdly comforting and also highly annoying. She fits in so very well in our bizarre little clan.
Also: hell flu is hellish. All bad. No good.
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This is why they want us talking about day care centers and $500 boots.
January 2, 2026 at 7:37 PM
This is why they want us talking about day care centers and $500 boots.
It's really wonderful to work with a therapist who continues to look at ongoing research. I appreciate learning about everything that is being studied right this minute because our understanding of brains and bodies is constantly evolving.
It makes me feel like I still have potential.
It makes me feel like I still have potential.
January 2, 2026 at 12:33 PM
It's really wonderful to work with a therapist who continues to look at ongoing research. I appreciate learning about everything that is being studied right this minute because our understanding of brains and bodies is constantly evolving.
It makes me feel like I still have potential.
It makes me feel like I still have potential.
Watching the show Vikings is making me have serious braid envy.
December 28, 2025 at 2:15 PM
Watching the show Vikings is making me have serious braid envy.
It's kind of wild that the internet is at the stage where you need 2 factor approval to order loo roll.
December 26, 2025 at 1:37 PM
It's kind of wild that the internet is at the stage where you need 2 factor approval to order loo roll.
First Solstice as a family without a father. It was lower key than usual but there's been no fighting or complaining. We are leaning into each other and being loving. We'll continue on.
I miss Noah so much I feel like my soul will explode from pain. Instead I'll smile at my babies and keep going.
I miss Noah so much I feel like my soul will explode from pain. Instead I'll smile at my babies and keep going.
December 21, 2025 at 3:46 PM
First Solstice as a family without a father. It was lower key than usual but there's been no fighting or complaining. We are leaning into each other and being loving. We'll continue on.
I miss Noah so much I feel like my soul will explode from pain. Instead I'll smile at my babies and keep going.
I miss Noah so much I feel like my soul will explode from pain. Instead I'll smile at my babies and keep going.
I find myself struggling to know the best way to handle the car drivers that honk and scream that I need to get off the fucking road. I was going 17mph in a 20 zone. It'd be very inappropriate to do that on a narrow residential pedestrian pathway.
So far I flip them off even though it's unwise.
So far I flip them off even though it's unwise.
December 18, 2025 at 5:16 PM
I find myself struggling to know the best way to handle the car drivers that honk and scream that I need to get off the fucking road. I was going 17mph in a 20 zone. It'd be very inappropriate to do that on a narrow residential pedestrian pathway.
So far I flip them off even though it's unwise.
So far I flip them off even though it's unwise.
I need to summon the will to get up and leave my house. I have to drop off paperwork at my dentist's office so he can verify that we are people who have been living in the UK for over 6 years now.
Thank you, Noah, for getting us out of the US and getting ILR. Now I can apply for citizenship.
Thank you, Noah, for getting us out of the US and getting ILR. Now I can apply for citizenship.
December 18, 2025 at 12:38 PM
I need to summon the will to get up and leave my house. I have to drop off paperwork at my dentist's office so he can verify that we are people who have been living in the UK for over 6 years now.
Thank you, Noah, for getting us out of the US and getting ILR. Now I can apply for citizenship.
Thank you, Noah, for getting us out of the US and getting ILR. Now I can apply for citizenship.
The only reason I regret home educating my son for all but 2 years of his life is because he only has a handful of hilarious stories about torturing teachers. He could have had dozens or hundreds of stories.
Oh well. Instead he has less trauma from education. I guess that's better.
Oh well. Instead he has less trauma from education. I guess that's better.
December 16, 2025 at 11:28 AM
The only reason I regret home educating my son for all but 2 years of his life is because he only has a handful of hilarious stories about torturing teachers. He could have had dozens or hundreds of stories.
Oh well. Instead he has less trauma from education. I guess that's better.
Oh well. Instead he has less trauma from education. I guess that's better.
When one is heading in for permanent sterilization it is good to dress in ways that make your heart soar. The factory is closing. This calls for a dinosaur dress. I need joy to distract from the discomfort I will feel.
I promised Noah I will only ever have his children.
I will keep my promise.
I promised Noah I will only ever have his children.
I will keep my promise.
December 11, 2025 at 7:58 AM
When one is heading in for permanent sterilization it is good to dress in ways that make your heart soar. The factory is closing. This calls for a dinosaur dress. I need joy to distract from the discomfort I will feel.
I promised Noah I will only ever have his children.
I will keep my promise.
I promised Noah I will only ever have his children.
I will keep my promise.
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Now this is the kind of carrying on I needed
November 26, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Now this is the kind of carrying on I needed
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Sometimes I think it’s going to be the librarians who will save us all.
November 25, 2025 at 1:47 AM
Sometimes I think it’s going to be the librarians who will save us all.
I've been booted from Facebook. Fetlife is the only social media I use on a regular basis & I use it for LJ style brain dumps where I talk about whatever the heck is on my mind.
Tomorrow's 11 months since Noah died.
I move forward a little bit at a time. I miss him and it hurts. I will survive.
Tomorrow's 11 months since Noah died.
I move forward a little bit at a time. I miss him and it hurts. I will survive.
November 23, 2025 at 2:58 PM
I've been booted from Facebook. Fetlife is the only social media I use on a regular basis & I use it for LJ style brain dumps where I talk about whatever the heck is on my mind.
Tomorrow's 11 months since Noah died.
I move forward a little bit at a time. I miss him and it hurts. I will survive.
Tomorrow's 11 months since Noah died.
I move forward a little bit at a time. I miss him and it hurts. I will survive.
Facebook has blocked my access. I don't think I did anything wrong, it just wanted proof that I'm a human. Now it won't accept any proof. Maybe this is a sign.
October 8, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Facebook has blocked my access. I don't think I did anything wrong, it just wanted proof that I'm a human. Now it won't accept any proof. Maybe this is a sign.
Maybe instead of NaNoWriMo I will use November to cross post all the years of stuff from Fetlife and Facebook onto my personalnpage. I will piss off all my email subscribers. Or delight them? Who knows. When I finish that I will delete everything from Facebook. Not ready to abandon Fet yet. Someday.
September 1, 2025 at 12:40 PM
Maybe instead of NaNoWriMo I will use November to cross post all the years of stuff from Fetlife and Facebook onto my personalnpage. I will piss off all my email subscribers. Or delight them? Who knows. When I finish that I will delete everything from Facebook. Not ready to abandon Fet yet. Someday.
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Japan Post just announced they will no longer deliver mail to the United States, joining Germany, Austria, Denmark, Italy, France, and Sweden.
August 25, 2025 at 11:53 PM
Japan Post just announced they will no longer deliver mail to the United States, joining Germany, Austria, Denmark, Italy, France, and Sweden.
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I support the What The Fet organised campaign. Building better digital spaces is no different to building better spaces in real life.
You can read more here: deviantsdomain.substack.com/p/what-the-f...
#WhatTheFet #CaretakerCallout #FetCareFail #UncensorBlackKink
You can read more here: deviantsdomain.substack.com/p/what-the-f...
#WhatTheFet #CaretakerCallout #FetCareFail #UncensorBlackKink
What the Fet Is Going On?
When Silence Is the Only Safety Feature
deviantsdomain.substack.com
August 26, 2025 at 5:39 AM
I support the What The Fet organised campaign. Building better digital spaces is no different to building better spaces in real life.
You can read more here: deviantsdomain.substack.com/p/what-the-f...
#WhatTheFet #CaretakerCallout #FetCareFail #UncensorBlackKink
You can read more here: deviantsdomain.substack.com/p/what-the-f...
#WhatTheFet #CaretakerCallout #FetCareFail #UncensorBlackKink
I've always known that I have strong addictive tendencies. I tend to go in binge cycles with which forum online is my favourite. Thanks to #WhatTheFet I'm noticing that I use Fetlife probably a lot too much these days. It's funny how different places feel safe for different reasons.
No Fetlife today
No Fetlife today
August 26, 2025 at 6:01 AM
I've always known that I have strong addictive tendencies. I tend to go in binge cycles with which forum online is my favourite. Thanks to #WhatTheFet I'm noticing that I use Fetlife probably a lot too much these days. It's funny how different places feel safe for different reasons.
No Fetlife today
No Fetlife today
My bluesky is wall to wall politics and depression. woof.
My life is hard but there are joyful moments every day.
I feel a lot of sadness but also the need for hope and happiness.
I am seeking out opportunities to be soft and share reciprocal care giving. It is good for my soul. I am very lucky.
My life is hard but there are joyful moments every day.
I feel a lot of sadness but also the need for hope and happiness.
I am seeking out opportunities to be soft and share reciprocal care giving. It is good for my soul. I am very lucky.
June 17, 2025 at 11:43 AM
My bluesky is wall to wall politics and depression. woof.
My life is hard but there are joyful moments every day.
I feel a lot of sadness but also the need for hope and happiness.
I am seeking out opportunities to be soft and share reciprocal care giving. It is good for my soul. I am very lucky.
My life is hard but there are joyful moments every day.
I feel a lot of sadness but also the need for hope and happiness.
I am seeking out opportunities to be soft and share reciprocal care giving. It is good for my soul. I am very lucky.
Once on a plane from San Francisco to LA a bunch of men in fancy suits asked me what I thought of Scream 3. I explained how only someone who was monumentally stupid would think it was a good idea to make a 3rd version of a mediocre movie.
Turns out the head of the studio was on that plane. Whoops.
Turns out the head of the studio was on that plane. Whoops.
Right folks. Feeling rather down at the moment so bringing back an oldie
Please Quote this with your most minor celebrity interaction
Please Quote this with your most minor celebrity interaction
June 13, 2025 at 2:33 PM
Once on a plane from San Francisco to LA a bunch of men in fancy suits asked me what I thought of Scream 3. I explained how only someone who was monumentally stupid would think it was a good idea to make a 3rd version of a mediocre movie.
Turns out the head of the studio was on that plane. Whoops.
Turns out the head of the studio was on that plane. Whoops.
A bunch of lovely folks in my local community made a really sweet video. Yay for love. Yay for being human beings together.
Massive thank you to @heatherherbert.uk @sarahjanebaker.bsky.social
and many other amazing trans and enby people for taking part in this.
Trans People are not a threat.
We are just human beings.
Please share! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
and many other amazing trans and enby people for taking part in this.
Trans People are not a threat.
We are just human beings.
Please share! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
June 10, 2025 at 7:56 PM
A bunch of lovely folks in my local community made a really sweet video. Yay for love. Yay for being human beings together.
I'm going to need 2 people who are not related to Noah who are willing to sign an affidavit that his signature on his will is really his. I need these people because the wet-signed copy is in Scotland and not having a wet-signed copy for the US means extra paperwork.
Anyone willing to help?
Anyone willing to help?
April 6, 2025 at 11:00 PM
I'm going to need 2 people who are not related to Noah who are willing to sign an affidavit that his signature on his will is really his. I need these people because the wet-signed copy is in Scotland and not having a wet-signed copy for the US means extra paperwork.
Anyone willing to help?
Anyone willing to help?
I've been working as hard as I can to stay in the closet since I moved to Scotland. I've dramatically limited my writing and the forums in which I am fully disclosing stuff about my private life because I worry about backlash. As if I could ever be quiet enough to escape backlash.
It's not working.
It's not working.
March 26, 2025 at 12:19 PM
I've been working as hard as I can to stay in the closet since I moved to Scotland. I've dramatically limited my writing and the forums in which I am fully disclosing stuff about my private life because I worry about backlash. As if I could ever be quiet enough to escape backlash.
It's not working.
It's not working.
It's hard to summon up my normal work ethic. I do a lot of sitting and staring out windows. What will my future look like without him?
I know I won't be alone. I collect people like shiny trophies. I am exceedingly blessed in my friendships. I know.
I shaped myself around Noah for almost 20 years
I know I won't be alone. I collect people like shiny trophies. I am exceedingly blessed in my friendships. I know.
I shaped myself around Noah for almost 20 years
March 25, 2025 at 6:47 AM
It's hard to summon up my normal work ethic. I do a lot of sitting and staring out windows. What will my future look like without him?
I know I won't be alone. I collect people like shiny trophies. I am exceedingly blessed in my friendships. I know.
I shaped myself around Noah for almost 20 years
I know I won't be alone. I collect people like shiny trophies. I am exceedingly blessed in my friendships. I know.
I shaped myself around Noah for almost 20 years
I’m coping through a combination of leaning on friends and distractions. I still feel like I don’t have any idea what my future will be like. I’m scared a lot of the time but I can’t slow down.
I’m struggling with feeling like I can’t say a lot of things in most spaces. That is hard for me.
I’m struggling with feeling like I can’t say a lot of things in most spaces. That is hard for me.
March 23, 2025 at 11:39 AM
I’m coping through a combination of leaning on friends and distractions. I still feel like I don’t have any idea what my future will be like. I’m scared a lot of the time but I can’t slow down.
I’m struggling with feeling like I can’t say a lot of things in most spaces. That is hard for me.
I’m struggling with feeling like I can’t say a lot of things in most spaces. That is hard for me.