i def noticed my social cachet lose some points on the other side of bottom surgery. no longer a chaser catch, but i Am a good target for resentment

people are extremely ready to put everyone but the sex offenders on the sex offender registry. we know who the predators are and some people will, consciously or unconsciously, project that onto anyone else instead, to create an external villain rather than one granted power in their communities.

like, not to try to make a bon mot out of it, but: as a queer person, my culture is >>surviving<<

ended up seeing Nobody - that was a great recommendation, thanks!

i’m kind of in love with how it presents Incredible Violence as the easy, satisfying out for Hutch that we’re all crossing our fingers alongside him he gets to enjoy. we’re thrilled when the bad guy ignores reason and comes after him