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AnnaLouise
@sisteralien.bsky.social
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Sister from another dimension
Collector of vintage stuff
Owner of a "shabby" "cluttered" home
Operator of an imperfect body with some creaky, stiff joints
Happily avoiding retirement for the next couple of years
Music lover
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sisteralien.bsky.social
You broke her heart. She let you in, believing your interest was genuine, but you treated her as a placeholder. You lied, you cheated, you gaslighted - things your exes did that broke you, but you thought it was OK to do those things to someone else, someone you professed to love.
Somebody is with your ex right now thinking they found the one.
August 16, 2025 at 3:27 AM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Gotta remember this. Narcissists who lie, cheat, and gaslight will spin stories that sound reasonable on the surface in order to cover up their lying, cheating, and gaslighting. Then you find out it was all lies, and they lie some more to make what they did OK in their damaged little heads.
Shitty people with shitty beliefs tell you shitty stories to justify their shitty actions.
May 12, 2025 at 5:56 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Why didn't you just leave?

The excuses I got:
I hoped my feelings would change (yeah, bullcrap)
I never broke up with anyone before (coward!)
I just figured it out just now (after lying and cheating for months?)
We were just friends (yeah, for the first 10 seconds)
Don't cheat in a relationship. If you are not happy, then just leave.
November 14, 2024 at 7:26 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Truth.
If you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that person is a fool. Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.
November 14, 2024 at 7:21 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Where have I heard this before?
Cartoon of a man with two phones to his right ear and three phones to his left ear; the dialogue bubble reads "Baby, you're the only one!"
October 24, 2024 at 4:35 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Picture of a male mallard duck with the text: If they cheat on someone else to be with you they'll cheat on you to be with someone else.
October 24, 2024 at 4:31 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
One more ... because I'm angry. It wasn't me. It was him. He lied. He cheated. He gaslighted. He disrespected me.

And if posting all this helps me channel my anger, so be it. This is my own little therapy tool.
No offense, but fuck you for using me to make you happy until you felt that you didn't need me anymore and left me wondering where I went wrong.
October 23, 2024 at 7:26 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Unstable men feed their ego with attention from multiple girls. I said what I said.
October 23, 2024 at 7:01 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Normal people don't lie.
Normal people don't gaslight.
Normal people aren't disrespectful.
Normal people aren't cruel.
Normal people aren't petty.
Normal people aren't callous.
Normal people don't cheat.
If someone treats you bad, just remember that there is something wrong with them, not you. Normal people don't go around destroying other people.
October 23, 2024 at 7:00 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Cheating doesn't start with sex, it starts with sneaky conversations.
October 23, 2024 at 6:56 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Cheating isn't always flirting, touching or kissing. If you're having text or chat conversations you wouldn't want your partner to see because they'd misunderstand, you are cheating.
October 22, 2024 at 6:45 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
For instance:
Saying 'I love you' when you don't.
Planning to build a life together when you have no intention of doing so
Image of a man in a coat and hat beneath a streetlight, with the caption: Lying to someone about reality is gaslighting.
October 22, 2024 at 6:40 PM
sisteralien.bsky.social
Description of gaslighting red flags You apologize without knowing what you did wrong There is an imbalance of power They give you affection then abruptly yank it away When you try to explain how you feel, they're dismissive You find yourself questioning your beliefs an opinions. If your point of view doesn't match theirs, it's wrong. They assign motives to your actions that are the opposite of your intentions Most interactions leave you feeling small or ashamed You edit every word before you speak it, changing any thought they could possible misconstrue.
October 22, 2024 at 6:36 PM