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smurfpie.bsky.social
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@smurfpie.bsky.social
just a normal anarchist
ohh yes i remember the neo-nazi connection. that all checks with my rapidly fading memory
December 20, 2025 at 4:08 AM
it’s really disquieting isn’t it
December 20, 2025 at 1:00 AM
good for her!
December 19, 2025 at 9:52 PM
i’d lines the hot goss plz
December 19, 2025 at 9:42 PM
what’s she saying?? is she demoralized? betrayed? angry? 👀👀
December 19, 2025 at 9:41 PM
oh yeah im going to talk about dyads any chance i get
December 19, 2025 at 7:42 PM
“you sure know how to enjoy your downtime! you were in the top 5% of users who put in their notes 2 or more weeks late. keep it up!”
December 19, 2025 at 7:40 PM
i appreciate everyone’s suggestions so thank you very much but i talked to my supervisor and she suggested “extradyadic person” or “extradyadic relationship” which i just think is perfect
December 19, 2025 at 7:33 PM
there should just be a style guide for note writing ffs
December 19, 2025 at 7:26 PM
i’ve done fake initials in the past, which is good unless i confuse myself lol
December 19, 2025 at 7:25 PM
gdi i liked it for the way the connection it describes remains undefined and it would be a nice firefly/serenity callback 😤
December 19, 2025 at 7:22 PM
it’s great for persian food but the car culture is out of control
December 19, 2025 at 5:02 AM
that’s a good question! unfortunately i think he usually describes her by her first name which is something i generally try to avoid unless it’s necessary. if my notes ever get subpoenaed, i’d rather they didn’t contain a bunch of names or other identifying details
December 19, 2025 at 5:00 AM
i think this would probably work in most contexts depending on the level of emotional involvement. in this case however, given the limited scope and time of their relationship, it feels inaccurate to call them partners
December 19, 2025 at 4:54 AM
i think this might be how i’ll write my notes going forward. it’s descriptive, not gender specific, and not pejorative
December 19, 2025 at 4:44 AM
always appreciate the effort node 🙏🏻
December 19, 2025 at 1:17 AM
i didn’t know what to do with this but i googled it and apparently it comes from “par amour” or though love. i like that
December 19, 2025 at 1:06 AM
i like this. it feels almost respectable?
December 19, 2025 at 1:03 AM
i like how this conveys that she was not only a friend but she was also special
December 19, 2025 at 1:00 AM
affair partner????
December 19, 2025 at 12:38 AM