Jean-Luc Picard
@spacedadsupport.bsky.social
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Captain Picard says the supportive things you wish your father would say. Inspired by SpaceDad Stories by @writercrafter.bsky.social (manager of this page) along with @spacedocmom.bsky.social. He/him. https://kimberlychapman.com/spacedad/read-the-stories/
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When you tell me your name/pronouns, that's what I'll call you. If you previously used a different name/pronoun, that's in the past. If your name/pronouns change in the future, I'll adjust immediately. I'd be quite annoyed to be called Ensign Picard. Respect is easy when we care.
When you tell me your name/pronouns, that's what I'll call you. If you previously used a different name/pronoun, that's in the past. If your name/pronouns change in the future, I'll adjust immediately. I'd be quite annoyed to be called Ensign Picard. Respect is easy when we care.
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The onus is on the privileged to prove through actions that they care about the vulnerable, not on the vulnerable to accept the word of the privileged on faith.
08/10/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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The onus is on the privileged to prove through actions that they care about the vulnerable, not on the vulnerable to accept the word of the privileged on faith.
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Using your privileged voice towards social justice while also amplifying less privileged voices above your own is how to build a legacy of change.
07/10/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Using your privileged voice towards social justice while also amplifying less privileged voices above your own is how to build a legacy of change.
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When you are accustomed to being kept down, being confident and assertive feels terrible because you are stepping over that which kept you down. I am here to tell you that it's all right for you to take those steps.
06/10/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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When you are accustomed to being kept down, being confident and assertive feels terrible because you are stepping over that which kept you down. I am here to tell you that it's all right for you to take those steps.
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Apologies for pre-emptively closing comments but I won't allow this space to be turned into hate against trans folks.
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Transphobia is horseshit. (Apologies to actual horses.)
05/10/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Transphobia is horseshit. (Apologies to actual horses.)
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I'm always proud of you and glad that you're here.
04/10/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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I'm always proud of you and glad that you're here.
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You don't know everything. None of us do. There's no shame in not knowing something, only in pretending you do when you don't. Be more honest about when you don't know in order to increase your learning opportunities.
03/10/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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You don't know everything. None of us do. There's no shame in not knowing something, only in pretending you do when you don't. Be more honest about when you don't know in order to increase your learning opportunities.
spacedadsupport.bsky.social
If you openly state your boundaries and someone says they don't wish to be friends with you because of any part of that, congratulations, your boundaries have become an excellent filter towards better friendships.
02/10/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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If you openly state your boundaries and someone says they don't wish to be friends with you because of any part of that, congratulations, your boundaries have become an excellent filter towards better friendships.
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I sincerely hope you make a new best friend soon.
spacedadsupport.bsky.social
Accept that social groups shift over time. Friends drift apart in distance, values, and needs. New friendships form instead. Learn to see this as a natural and welcome ebb and flow instead of something to be clung to until it is crushed and breaks apart unpleasantly.
01/10/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Accept that social groups shift over time. Friends drift apart in distance, values, and needs. New friendships form instead. Learn to see this as a natural and welcome ebb and flow instead of something to be clung to until it is crushed and breaks apart unpleasantly.
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You are not obligated to attend every battle to which you are invited.
30/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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You are not obligated to attend every battle to which you are invited.
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Striving for greatness and accepting yourself as you are in any given moment are not mutually exclusive endeavours.
29/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Striving for greatness and accepting yourself as you are in any given moment are not mutually exclusive endeavours.
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Be wary of those who insist on "debate" or "discussion" when someone's civil rights are on the table. There's no debate to be had; trans women are women, trans men are men, anyone with a uterus gets to decide what grows in it or not, and the state has no place in the bedrooms of consenting adults.
28/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Be wary of those who insist on "debate" or "discussion" when someone's civil rights are on the table. There's no debate to be had; trans women are women, trans men are men, anyone with a uterus gets to decide what grows in it or not, and the state has no place in the bedrooms of consenting adults.
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Be the kind of person you'd want to be friends with.
27/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Be the kind of person you'd want to be friends with.
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I am always immensely proud of you when you put your social justice values above your own convenience. Well done. Keep it up. The world needs you.
26/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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I am always immensely proud of you when you put your social justice values above your own convenience. Well done. Keep it up. The world needs you.
spacedadsupport.bsky.social
It is your duty to be a good, kind, compassionate person within your community and the wider world. It is not your duty to single-handedly fix every problem nor every problematic person. Be part of wonderful things but do not weigh yourself down with burdens that are not yours.
25/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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It is your duty to be a good, kind, compassionate person within your community and the wider world. It is not your duty to single-handedly fix every problem nor every problematic person. Be part of wonderful things but do not weigh yourself down with burdens that are not yours.
spacedadsupport.bsky.social
If you had to be independent as a child due to any unpleasant circumstances, you are correct to be proud of what you accomplished all on your own while simultaneously understanding you should not have been left all on your own.
24/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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If you had to be independent as a child due to any unpleasant circumstances, you are correct to be proud of what you accomplished all on your own while simultaneously understanding you should not have been left all on your own.
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Unchecked cruelty can spread like wildfire, but the good news is so can unfettered kindness.
23/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Unchecked cruelty can spread like wildfire, but the good news is so can unfettered kindness.
spacedadsupport.bsky.social
Shields exist for a good reason. If someone detects you putting up your shields and takes offense instead of worrying that they've frightened you, chances are you were right to put up those shields.
22/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Shields exist for a good reason. If someone detects you putting up your shields and takes offense instead of worrying that they've frightened you, chances are you were right to put up those shields.
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Forgive your past self for ignorant mistakes as you improve your current self on your path to being an even better self in the future.
21/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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Forgive your past self for ignorant mistakes as you improve your current self on your path to being an even better self in the future.
spacedadsupport.bsky.social
You don't always tell people you value that you value them because it can be difficult to find the right way to say it. That works the other way too: you are valued by people who haven't ever told you. Never imagine you are not valued simply because it hasn't been said.
20/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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You don't always tell people you value that you value them because it can be difficult to find the right way to say it. That works the other way too: you are valued by people who haven't ever told you. Never imagine you are not valued simply because it hasn't been said.
spacedadsupport.bsky.social
If you’re avoiding activism because you’re afraid people in your life won’t like you anymore when you speak out for social justice, I have some terrible news about the people in your life.
19/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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If you’re avoiding activism because you’re afraid people in your life won’t like you anymore when you speak out for social justice, I have some terrible news about the people in your life.
spacedadsupport.bsky.social
If something in your life breaks because you've become better at protecting yourself, that broken thing didn't belong in your life in the first place.
18/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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If something in your life breaks because you've become better at protecting yourself, that broken thing didn't belong in your life in the first place.
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It is a particularly unfair irony that when we persevere through our weakest moments, we are actually at our strongest, and yet all we feel is our weakness. We need others around us to remind us how strong we really are and that our weaknesses are not failings.
17/09/2025
Jean-Luc Picard
@SpaceDadSupport
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It is a particularly unfair irony that when we persevere through our weakest moments, we are actually at our strongest, and yet all we feel is our weakness. We need others around us to remind us how strong we really are and that our weaknesses are not failings.
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spacedocmom.bsky.social
Good job with everything you did yesterday to get yourself through the day, and extra love and lollipops for the good job I know you're going to do again today. I'm so proud of you! 🖤💙😷🥄🍭🍭🍭🍭🍭
16/09/2025
Doctor Beverly Crusher
@SpaceDocMom
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Good job with everything you did yesterday to get yourself through the day, and extra love and lollipops for the good job I know you're going to do again today. I'm so proud of you!  emojis: black heart, blue heart, masked, spoon, lollipop x5