Spankmehadr
@spankmehadr.bsky.social
20, He/Him, Bi
Don’t interact if your age ends in teen.
Don’t interact if your age ends in teen.
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Spankmehadr
@spankmehadr.bsky.social
· May 11
This will probably be a more SFW BDSM account but maybe not always.
I won't be sharing my full name but you can call me a shortened Harry or Haddy.
I’m 20, pronouns are He/Him
I tend to busy myself as much as possible and am very academically/ work focused so may not regularly be active.
I won't be sharing my full name but you can call me a shortened Harry or Haddy.
I’m 20, pronouns are He/Him
I tend to busy myself as much as possible and am very academically/ work focused so may not regularly be active.
Dentist-esk play sounds like great fun to me.
A dom making a show of stretching latex gloves over their hands, then massaging the subs jaw and face. Rubbing at their lip with a gloved thumb before it’s time to open up.
Ah-
#BDSM #Latexgloves
A dom making a show of stretching latex gloves over their hands, then massaging the subs jaw and face. Rubbing at their lip with a gloved thumb before it’s time to open up.
Ah-
#BDSM #Latexgloves
July 31, 2025 at 5:27 PM
Dentist-esk play sounds like great fun to me.
A dom making a show of stretching latex gloves over their hands, then massaging the subs jaw and face. Rubbing at their lip with a gloved thumb before it’s time to open up.
Ah-
#BDSM #Latexgloves
A dom making a show of stretching latex gloves over their hands, then massaging the subs jaw and face. Rubbing at their lip with a gloved thumb before it’s time to open up.
Ah-
#BDSM #Latexgloves
I was letting my co-worker whip me at work with a belt, and they were shocked I was handling it so well… I don’t think they want to know what I’ve been up to.
(My arm and thigh is all red now and I let them do it with the metal tip)
#Flagellation #painkink
(My arm and thigh is all red now and I let them do it with the metal tip)
#Flagellation #painkink
July 15, 2025 at 12:33 PM
I was letting my co-worker whip me at work with a belt, and they were shocked I was handling it so well… I don’t think they want to know what I’ve been up to.
(My arm and thigh is all red now and I let them do it with the metal tip)
#Flagellation #painkink
(My arm and thigh is all red now and I let them do it with the metal tip)
#Flagellation #painkink
I love research, and I love reading, but oh my. I’ve spent 6 hours today going through an essay submitted to me. I felt like a Dad correcting their struggling child’s homework. Bless. They’ll get it back in the morning my brains too busy melting right now.
July 14, 2025 at 11:42 PM
I love research, and I love reading, but oh my. I’ve spent 6 hours today going through an essay submitted to me. I felt like a Dad correcting their struggling child’s homework. Bless. They’ll get it back in the morning my brains too busy melting right now.
I think a lot of young men, especially, say they like BDSM and think they are into kink and fetish but are actually into the novelty of the experience while not understanding the commitment of something like BDSM past sexual interaction. And it’s something I see ALOT
#BDSM #Kink
#BDSM #Kink
June 24, 2025 at 9:16 PM
Forgot about bluesky lowkey
June 24, 2025 at 9:09 PM
Forgot about bluesky lowkey
Weekly rewatch of secretary (2002). I love this movie!
The way Lee is encouraged to find growth through her submissiveness, and not expected to be meek and idle. While Edward struggles between desire and conventionality freaked out by his own wants as a Dom. Perfect! Love it!
#secretary2002
The way Lee is encouraged to find growth through her submissiveness, and not expected to be meek and idle. While Edward struggles between desire and conventionality freaked out by his own wants as a Dom. Perfect! Love it!
#secretary2002
May 28, 2025 at 7:39 PM
Weekly rewatch of secretary (2002). I love this movie!
The way Lee is encouraged to find growth through her submissiveness, and not expected to be meek and idle. While Edward struggles between desire and conventionality freaked out by his own wants as a Dom. Perfect! Love it!
#secretary2002
The way Lee is encouraged to find growth through her submissiveness, and not expected to be meek and idle. While Edward struggles between desire and conventionality freaked out by his own wants as a Dom. Perfect! Love it!
#secretary2002
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I love nerds. I love freaked out nerds! put me in a room with James Spader and comic book Riddler (ginger especially). I’d suck the light out of their eyes.
May 19, 2025 at 8:16 PM
I love nerds. I love freaked out nerds! put me in a room with James Spader and comic book Riddler (ginger especially). I’d suck the light out of their eyes.
Damn this guy blocked me, but I stand by what I said.
May 19, 2025 at 7:45 PM
Damn this guy blocked me, but I stand by what I said.
Ripping a safe word from a sub is never a goal! it is there for safety or comfort when a hard limit is reached. Hard limits are established and not pushed. A first time sub should not be jumping into scenes, especially if they have no proper knowledge. This is a very poor example of a ‘dom’.
#BDSM
#BDSM
May 18, 2025 at 9:14 PM
Ripping a safe word from a sub is never a goal! it is there for safety or comfort when a hard limit is reached. Hard limits are established and not pushed. A first time sub should not be jumping into scenes, especially if they have no proper knowledge. This is a very poor example of a ‘dom’.
#BDSM
#BDSM
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Maybe not the cutest but delicious. My friend gave me a cookie recipe, they’re like soft cinnamon sugar cookie and I’ve got focaccia in the oven I’m hoping turns out well 🤞
May 18, 2025 at 1:53 PM
Maybe not the cutest but delicious. My friend gave me a cookie recipe, they’re like soft cinnamon sugar cookie and I’ve got focaccia in the oven I’m hoping turns out well 🤞
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It's the year of 2025 and it blows my mind how some of you still use "bottom" and "sub" as derogatory terms and "top" and "dom" as something to be praised. But if I start suddenly calling everyone an annoying fa🐐 I'm the villain.
May 9, 2025 at 7:42 PM
It's the year of 2025 and it blows my mind how some of you still use "bottom" and "sub" as derogatory terms and "top" and "dom" as something to be praised. But if I start suddenly calling everyone an annoying fa🐐 I'm the villain.
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Hah you fool you believed me when I said that I could be trusted with your penis, I lied I can't I'm going to rub my whole face against it and kiss and lick every inch and guzzle your cum and there's NOTHING you can do about it
Yeah you can pet my head while I do it of course yay love you
Yeah you can pet my head while I do it of course yay love you
May 17, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Hah you fool you believed me when I said that I could be trusted with your penis, I lied I can't I'm going to rub my whole face against it and kiss and lick every inch and guzzle your cum and there's NOTHING you can do about it
Yeah you can pet my head while I do it of course yay love you
Yeah you can pet my head while I do it of course yay love you
I just want to come home and cook for someone, sometimes. Fuss over them and take care of them
May 17, 2025 at 8:55 PM
I just want to come home and cook for someone, sometimes. Fuss over them and take care of them
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A thing that always tickles my brain just right - clothed dom, naked sub.
I want to see how wet I make you on my jeans.
I want your pathetic cum lines up my shirt.
I want lube mark trophies to admire when I do laundry.
I want my clothes to smell like you for a while.
I want to see how wet I make you on my jeans.
I want your pathetic cum lines up my shirt.
I want lube mark trophies to admire when I do laundry.
I want my clothes to smell like you for a while.
May 14, 2025 at 6:10 PM
A thing that always tickles my brain just right - clothed dom, naked sub.
I want to see how wet I make you on my jeans.
I want your pathetic cum lines up my shirt.
I want lube mark trophies to admire when I do laundry.
I want my clothes to smell like you for a while.
I want to see how wet I make you on my jeans.
I want your pathetic cum lines up my shirt.
I want lube mark trophies to admire when I do laundry.
I want my clothes to smell like you for a while.
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I see so many people join servers and their first message is "looking for a sub" like bro stop being so desperate. A dom/sub relationship is built off a mutual trust.
May 15, 2025 at 10:13 PM
I see so many people join servers and their first message is "looking for a sub" like bro stop being so desperate. A dom/sub relationship is built off a mutual trust.
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Hypnokink is so funny sometimes like yeah man swing that pretty shiny object in front of my eyes until I drool and can't think on my own even if I try and I'll cum in the panties I think I'm still wearing even though you told me to strip like ten minutes ago
May 15, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Hypnokink is so funny sometimes like yeah man swing that pretty shiny object in front of my eyes until I drool and can't think on my own even if I try and I'll cum in the panties I think I'm still wearing even though you told me to strip like ten minutes ago
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Scandinavian older doms are the best! Had a lunch date at J’s house. Just me naked, head on his lap, being asked to take in the smell of his cock and balls, while he caressed my hair and explained how this would strengthen our bond and my submission…
November 20, 2024 at 10:32 AM
Scandinavian older doms are the best! Had a lunch date at J’s house. Just me naked, head on his lap, being asked to take in the smell of his cock and balls, while he caressed my hair and explained how this would strengthen our bond and my submission…
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your room is sooooo cute the only thing its missing is a little dollhouse on your desk and i live in it like your little pet i think that would help round out the decor
March 18, 2025 at 8:07 PM
your room is sooooo cute the only thing its missing is a little dollhouse on your desk and i live in it like your little pet i think that would help round out the decor