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exactly
when a chameleon changes color to blend in with its surroundings do you accuse it of secretly being a tree branch?
December 11, 2025 at 3:48 AM
shoutouts to the guys' bible study crew for being such a rancid little boys club it repelled me from christianity altogether lol, def shaved like 5 years off the repression
December 11, 2025 at 3:32 AM
when a chameleon changes color to blend in with its surroundings do you accuse it of secretly being a tree branch?
December 11, 2025 at 3:29 AM
my "male socialization" was being surrounded by cackling, stinking hyenas while simultaneously fooling myself into thinking i was one and also praying they wouldn't eat me next
December 11, 2025 at 3:28 AM
need to pull a Death of the Outsider again and get hired into Owlcat for the Inquisitor DLCs
December 10, 2025 at 10:29 PM
spare me the "i'm not touching youuuu" 2014 forum debate behavior please god
December 10, 2025 at 9:27 PM
spare me the "i'm not touching youuuu" 2014 forum debate behavior please god
December 10, 2025 at 9:00 PM
this is a tiresome dodge
December 10, 2025 at 8:59 PM
i identify as transsexual because the word transgender does not accurately reflect my transition. i didn't change my gender identity, i stopped repressing the one i had. the only thing ive "changed" is my sex
December 10, 2025 at 8:52 PM
you are not just wrong, you are arrogantly and stubbornly wrong and have the gall to think you can speak for everyone else and the ego to whine when everyone objects
December 10, 2025 at 8:48 PM
this doesn't really work as a burn when you are transparently addicted to making the people in your phone mad at you
December 10, 2025 at 8:26 PM
found more nuance
That’s one way to take what I said, another is that I have talked and listened to many many queer people and none of them have ever expressed these views so it makes me feel confident that this is a product of your neurosis and not a genuine critique
December 10, 2025 at 8:13 PM
no im hungry
December 10, 2025 at 8:11 PM
December 10, 2025 at 8:07 PM
ALMOST LIKE AN INNATE FEELING THAT THE SOCIALIZATION YOU ARE RECEIVING IS WRONG AND DOESNT FIT
December 10, 2025 at 8:06 PM
you're all but insisting "no everyone is definitely addicted to the useless program in task manager that eats up 80% of your memory and makes your PC shit itself" ????? no we aren't???? it's why we transitioned???????????
December 10, 2025 at 7:53 PM
if i *could have just been a boy* i absolutely wouldve bc i spent a decade convinced that i would be miserable trying to live as a trans girl. i spent that decade *trying so hard* to just pretend i was a guy.

do you think someone with "bone deep" socialization needs to *fake* being a man?????
December 10, 2025 at 7:51 PM
if we weren't we wouldn't be fucking trans! that's kind of the whole fucking problem!!!
December 10, 2025 at 7:50 PM
oh sorry is it THIS nuance? where you insist that trans women youve never met have "male behaviors" they should be working to unlearn?
That’s actually not the point at all, but that you should be working to unlearn those behaviors
December 10, 2025 at 7:44 PM
you rode in to defend someone accusing trans women in tech of being male socialized, declaratively insisting that their socialization was bone deep and difficult to overcome despite knowing nothing about them, and also tossed in that any objections to the contrary being foolish

what fucking nuance?
December 10, 2025 at 7:33 PM
are there trans women who struggle with a lifetime of socialization? sure. there are gay people who struggle with a lifetime of internalized homophobia. but insisting all trans women are "male socialized" is just straight up transmisogyny. it's giving "we're all actually still men"
December 10, 2025 at 7:18 PM