Me, every time the “Try Again” appears:

We’re not allowed to use actual descriptive words anymore

By keeping it in the category of The Most Horrible Thing That Could Ever Happen And Can Only Be Avenged With Bloody Violence, this type of fiction prevents rape from being anything that can be thoughtfully and effectively dealt with in the real world.

It allows a male hero to experience horrific trauma without actually being physically harmed or even touched, and then serves him up a perfect means to heal that trauma, all while totally ignoring the person who it actually happened to, how they feel, and what they want.

I hear they’re throwing in a free mousepad with purchase. Can NEVER have enough of those.