The Flying Child
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📣Leading Conversations About #CSA Through Survivor-Led Training, Campaigning & Support 🌸Sophie Olson: Founder/activist/writer 📖Author of The Flying Child - A Cautionary Fairy Tale For Adults 🌸(ZunTold) #TheFlyingChildStory #CSASurvivorSky
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My name is Sophie.

I’m a survivor of intrafamilial child sexual abuse. I’m a writer, activist and founder of The Flying Child CIC. I don’t show my face on social media for safety reasons as the perpetrator is still a risk to me.

Lovely to see familiar faces finding this account!

#CSASurvivorSky
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Some lovely feedback shared on LinkedIn by Sally Benson, Director of U.K. Counselling Network, following my talk to counsellors. ♥️🌸

#CSA #Survivor #counselling #therapy
Some of the comments following the session:

“Incredible session, very moving. Like someone said in the session, I don’t think I’ll ever forget it”

“It was absolutely inspiring and informative. Thought-provoking”

“Very powerful and helpful, thank you”

“What a powerful presentation— Sophie’s courage and passion was impressive to witness.”

“I have clients who are survivors of CSA and Sophie’s call to offer more than compassion sits so well — systemic silencing feeds CSA and needs a collective response — thanks to Sophie for reminding us that.”

Thank you Sophie and we will look forward to working with you again in the near future. Sally Benson - Director
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Some lovely feedback shared on LinkedIn by Sally Benson, Director of U.K. Counselling Network, following my talk to counsellors. ♥️🌸

#CSA #Survivor #counselling #therapy
Some of the comments following the session:

“Incredible session, very moving. Like someone said in the session, I don’t think I’ll ever forget it”

“It was absolutely inspiring and informative. Thought-provoking”

“Very powerful and helpful, thank you”

“What a powerful presentation— Sophie’s courage and passion was impressive to witness.”

“I have clients who are survivors of CSA and Sophie’s call to offer more than compassion sits so well — systemic silencing feeds CSA and needs a collective response — thanks to Sophie for reminding us that.”

Thank you Sophie and we will look forward to working with you again in the near future. Sally Benson - Director
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I shared a more hopeful alternative - my incredible journey with Patricia Walsh - therapist and co-author of The Flying Child - A Cautionary Fairy Tale For Adults. Someone called our journey ‘radical’ - and I agree. Yes it is. Radical, within the framework of safety & containment, saves lives. 🌸 3/
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I shared ‘Door Handle Moment’ - a visual poem detailing my experience. (This poem I first performed at @dropthedisorder
poetry night, and the film is produced and spoken by the very wonderful @sur5vor.bsky.social

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Last night I presented to U.K. Counselling Network. The aim of my talk was to explore systemic challenges in responding to victims and survivors of CSA - from my perspective as a survivor not adequately supported by the mental health system, to live alongside trauma. 1/
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This word count feels like an important milestone. Thank you to those who have offered to read and feedback on my first draft.

Few more chapters to write, but there is a clear direction now and I’m loving the process. Writing is the Best. Thing. Ever.

#secondbook
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Finally remembered my password to log back in to @bsky.app
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A very moving read. Perfectly captures the Child trying to disclose the worst of horrors inflicted on their soul
Listen to the Child's Voice

To be read by every professional who comes into contact with child survivors of #CSA
Children should be seen as #DomesticAbuse victims in their own right
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Thank you so much 🌸🙏🏼
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The Flying Child - A Cautionary Fairy Tale For Adults remains our strongest resource, and opens the door to both survivors and professionals seeking a deeper understanding, and a kinder, more empathic way forward.

#CSA #TheFlyingChildStory

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A heartfelt thank you as well to #ZunTold publishing for standing by us during this next stage and helping us bring this book to a wider audience.
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I am grateful to be alive and part of this journey alongside Pat, and want to thank Antonia Grove (creative director), Will (sound engineer), and the team at Lark Studios for their support.
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5. How many survivors are still dismissed and misunderstood, when they disclose child sexual abuse, and how many die too young.
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4. How the disproved ‘chemical imbalance of the brain’ narrative is still fed to survivors in place of a trauma responsive understanding of the creative ways in which people survive unimaginable abuse.

joannamoncrieff.com/2022/07/24/how…
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3. How child sexual abuse is one of the biggest public health crises of our time, and how few people are willing to talk about it, let alone address it.

napac.org.uk/blog-complicat…
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2. How perpetrators like ‘The Evil King’ get away with crimes against humanity on a mass scale, and escape accountability.

rapecrisis.org.uk/news/stark-dro…
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1.The impact of professionals like Pat (my therapist and co-author) who change lives, and by change I mean restoring hope, joy, and a purpose for living.
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Today was a recording day for The Flying Child audiobook. It’s an important process, but far from easy. (Today I was reading in a recording studio about CSA that took place in a recording studio - that was most likely part of a far wider distribution of CSAM (#TACSA)

I am reflecting on:
Sophie with blurred face, in recording studio Toni and Will in studio
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Thank you for inviting me. I really enjoyed being part of this event.