I very much feel like I need to read this, so you just got a new subscriber!

I wouldn't expect this at all of someone in their early 30s tbh but that could be my own cognitive biases, also being in my early 30s and being well aware of In Utero; I feel like plenty of people my age know who Nirvana are

It's totally normal to be deeply suspicious of anything anyone says, especially things that sound completely innocuous, such that people have to hedge the shit out of even uncontroversial opinions. Yes, this is Healthy