Tseikkis
@tseikkis.bsky.social
All-around weird person!
Finnish, daddying two teen boys, rarely too serious because life's too short. Very bad at figuring out what to write in things like this so feel free to ask :)
Finnish, daddying two teen boys, rarely too serious because life's too short. Very bad at figuring out what to write in things like this so feel free to ask :)
I'll go buy some beer, I will take a look with no preconceptions. Can comment if you want but not pushing any agenda either.
December 5, 2025 at 3:14 PM
I'll go buy some beer, I will take a look with no preconceptions. Can comment if you want but not pushing any agenda either.
I can comprehend quite a bit. And yes, I would like to have proof of how that genetic difference turns into what you claim.
Except that's impossible but hey.
Except that's impossible but hey.
December 5, 2025 at 3:12 PM
I can comprehend quite a bit. And yes, I would like to have proof of how that genetic difference turns into what you claim.
Except that's impossible but hey.
Except that's impossible but hey.
I see a thousand reasons and a thousand consequences to every action. Every altruistic deed can be explained as selfish as you just satisfying a need you have. This just says the points of views are wrong.
December 5, 2025 at 3:07 PM
I see a thousand reasons and a thousand consequences to every action. Every altruistic deed can be explained as selfish as you just satisfying a need you have. This just says the points of views are wrong.
Well we make these stories of how people should be. I see those as stories. There's no good or evil, we are the way we are, and there are ALWAYS reasons. Sure I get all that, and last time today I framed my altruism as largely childhood trauma to a friend in private.
December 5, 2025 at 3:06 PM
Well we make these stories of how people should be. I see those as stories. There's no good or evil, we are the way we are, and there are ALWAYS reasons. Sure I get all that, and last time today I framed my altruism as largely childhood trauma to a friend in private.
(this is not how narcissism happens, that's generally requiring childhood shit, I'm using as an exaggerated term to describe the qualities of some behaviors)
December 5, 2025 at 2:57 PM
(this is not how narcissism happens, that's generally requiring childhood shit, I'm using as an exaggerated term to describe the qualities of some behaviors)
Most dangerous thing ever. Almost everyone, save for the psychopath who doesn't have the concept, thinks they're a good person. The difference is made with how self-critical you are; whether you develop your views, or make excuses for existing ones. Enough excuses and you're basically a narcissist.
December 5, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Most dangerous thing ever. Almost everyone, save for the psychopath who doesn't have the concept, thinks they're a good person. The difference is made with how self-critical you are; whether you develop your views, or make excuses for existing ones. Enough excuses and you're basically a narcissist.
She would consider it if she was. She doesn't. She has an ego, and a mission. Logic doesn't matter.
December 5, 2025 at 2:52 PM
She would consider it if she was. She doesn't. She has an ego, and a mission. Logic doesn't matter.
What pisses me off for reals is how she frames it. She's just doing good things. Completely ignoring my points, and immediately blocking when she realizes she can't argue.
Real good doer indeed?
Real good doer indeed?
December 5, 2025 at 2:51 PM
What pisses me off for reals is how she frames it. She's just doing good things. Completely ignoring my points, and immediately blocking when she realizes she can't argue.
Real good doer indeed?
Real good doer indeed?
I know, that's why it's fucked up to share it. I just had a few beers so I'm making it public. Which is the shame part. But leaving it up there, I don't think that article or her reasoning is fine.
I have almost no gender identity. You don't do this to any group, in my mind.
I have almost no gender identity. You don't do this to any group, in my mind.
December 5, 2025 at 2:45 PM
I know, that's why it's fucked up to share it. I just had a few beers so I'm making it public. Which is the shame part. But leaving it up there, I don't think that article or her reasoning is fine.
I have almost no gender identity. You don't do this to any group, in my mind.
I have almost no gender identity. You don't do this to any group, in my mind.
So that's how that works. I guess.
December 5, 2025 at 2:43 PM
So that's how that works. I guess.
How is making young women think narcissistic qualities are qualities of "men" somehow a good "warning" to them? That's fucked up.
December 5, 2025 at 2:40 PM
How is making young women think narcissistic qualities are qualities of "men" somehow a good "warning" to them? That's fucked up.
Do the good old switcharoonie test. Replace "men" with any other group. Black people? Gay people? And see if it's still okay. If not, you're basically biased. A bigot, if you will.
December 5, 2025 at 2:39 PM
Do the good old switcharoonie test. Replace "men" with any other group. Black people? Gay people? And see if it's still okay. If not, you're basically biased. A bigot, if you will.
I councel mostly young women. I present all these things to them. I don't make them about "men", I would be doing a huge disservice to them.
You don't seem to have much problem in making general negative qualities of people about one gender. Or any other group.
You don't seem to have much problem in making general negative qualities of people about one gender. Or any other group.
December 5, 2025 at 2:38 PM
I councel mostly young women. I present all these things to them. I don't make them about "men", I would be doing a huge disservice to them.
You don't seem to have much problem in making general negative qualities of people about one gender. Or any other group.
You don't seem to have much problem in making general negative qualities of people about one gender. Or any other group.
I'm a darn observed cishet male person and I'm not saying these things because I have an adopted stance or ulterior motive. Nor would I ever be defending a group I'm superficially perceived to belong to but that I dislike. But that will 99% be the expectations.
December 5, 2025 at 2:02 PM
I'm a darn observed cishet male person and I'm not saying these things because I have an adopted stance or ulterior motive. Nor would I ever be defending a group I'm superficially perceived to belong to but that I dislike. But that will 99% be the expectations.
Well I guess we can detach presentation of women from real life? I'm just so used to someone jumping me for no reason if I talk about anything like this with no ill will.
December 5, 2025 at 2:00 PM
Well I guess we can detach presentation of women from real life? I'm just so used to someone jumping me for no reason if I talk about anything like this with no ill will.
It's so hard to do any analogue or metaphor for this because almost everything would be insulting so skip 🤣
December 5, 2025 at 1:57 PM
It's so hard to do any analogue or metaphor for this because almost everything would be insulting so skip 🤣
What's aesthetic to me is proportion to everything else, I mean, maximizing something just makes it suck.
December 5, 2025 at 1:52 PM
What's aesthetic to me is proportion to everything else, I mean, maximizing something just makes it suck.
I hate the same thing. I mean, don't get me wrong, I like boobs. But everything is overdone and oversexualized. It does what it does to everything, makes it meaningless.
Gamewise I like to play girls, I do these redheads and usually min boob size... which is often still more than I see IRL
Gamewise I like to play girls, I do these redheads and usually min boob size... which is often still more than I see IRL
December 5, 2025 at 1:51 PM
I hate the same thing. I mean, don't get me wrong, I like boobs. But everything is overdone and oversexualized. It does what it does to everything, makes it meaningless.
Gamewise I like to play girls, I do these redheads and usually min boob size... which is often still more than I see IRL
Gamewise I like to play girls, I do these redheads and usually min boob size... which is often still more than I see IRL
Ohhh I can see how you're a professional writer now, that's just good. Or bad, really, depending on your viewpoint. 🤣
December 5, 2025 at 1:49 PM
Ohhh I can see how you're a professional writer now, that's just good. Or bad, really, depending on your viewpoint. 🤣
For a literary genius, read it, scifi boy. Also the guy is dead so he can't let me down anymore 😅
December 5, 2025 at 1:29 PM
For a literary genius, read it, scifi boy. Also the guy is dead so he can't let me down anymore 😅
There is a strong realization here about yourself and the stories you create for yourself.
December 5, 2025 at 1:26 PM
There is a strong realization here about yourself and the stories you create for yourself.