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Let’s Talk About Gossip: Why Not All Workplace Gossip Is Bad

In this episode, Valdet challenges the common belief that all workplace gossip is toxic. Drawing from research and real-world consulting experience, he breaks down the difference between harmful g 𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗶𝘁 𝘂𝘀 𝗮𝘁 https://www.rfr.bz/bc843ca
December 24, 2025 at 1:02 PM
The Proven Whole-Person Framework: How to Build High-Performing Teams That Actually Thrive

I'll be straight with you: most team-building approaches I see in the corporate world are missing the mark. Companies invest thousands in personality assessments, trust falls, and strategic planning…
The Proven Whole-Person Framework: How to Build High-Performing Teams That Actually Thrive
I'll be straight with you: most team-building approaches I see in the corporate world are missing the mark. Companies invest thousands in personality assessments, trust falls, and strategic planning retreats, then wonder why their teams still struggle with collaboration, burnout, and turnover six months later. After working with hundreds of leaders and teams over the past decade, I've discovered something that changed how I approach organizational development entirely: …
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December 23, 2025 at 2:01 PM
We’ve been taught that workplace gossip is always toxic.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth:

Not all gossip is harmful—and trying to eliminate it entirely might be hurting your culture.

In this episode, I break down:
December 23, 2025 at 1:00 PM
Misery Loves Miserable Company: Why Negative People Try to Bring You Down (and How to Rise Above)

We've all heard the saying "misery loves company," but let me share something I've learned through years of working with people and navigating my own challenging relationships: misery doesn't just…
Misery Loves Miserable Company: Why Negative People Try to Bring You Down (and How to Rise Above)
We've all heard the saying "misery loves company," but let me share something I've learned through years of working with people and navigating my own challenging relationships: misery doesn't just love any company: it specifically seeks out and tries to create miserable company. I've witnessed this pattern countless times in my work as a consultant and in my personal life. There's a profound difference between someone who's temporarily going through a rough patch and someone who has made negativity their permanent residence.
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December 20, 2025 at 5:30 PM
Why Gossiping at Work Isn't Always Bad: The Surprising Benefits of Good Gossip vs. Bad Gossip

Let's be honest, when you hear "workplace gossip," your first thought probably isn't positive. Most of us have been taught that gossip is unprofessional, toxic, and something to avoid at all costs. But…
Why Gossiping at Work Isn't Always Bad: The Surprising Benefits of Good Gossip vs. Bad Gossip
Let's be honest, when you hear "workplace gossip," your first thought probably isn't positive. Most of us have been taught that gossip is unprofessional, toxic, and something to avoid at all costs. But what if I told you that this black-and-white thinking is actually holding back your team's potential? After years of working with organizations and observing workplace dynamics, I've discovered something that might surprise you: not all gossip is created equal.
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December 19, 2025 at 7:04 PM
Let's get real: Not all workplace gossip is the villain it's made out to be.

Healthy gossip? It's how we bond, build trust, and share the "unofficial manual" that keeps teams running.
December 19, 2025 at 6:14 PM
Competency to Better Your Life

I've been reflecting lately on what it truly means to have competency in life: not just the technical skills we learn in school or at work, but the deeper, more fundamental abilities that help us navigate our daily existence with purpose and joy. Do you have the…
Competency to Better Your Life
I've been reflecting lately on what it truly means to have competency in life: not just the technical skills we learn in school or at work, but the deeper, more fundamental abilities that help us navigate our daily existence with purpose and joy. Do you have the competency to better your daily living and overall human experience, or do you feel like you're still figuring it out?
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December 19, 2025 at 2:00 PM
Your Human Rights at Work: What You Need to Know

When you clock in each day, you don’t stop being human — but too many workplaces act like you do.
December 18, 2025 at 5:49 PM
Your Human Rights at Work: What You Need to Know

When you clock in each day, you don’t stop being human — but too many workplaces act like you do.In this episode of Built to Grow, host Valdet Selimaj breaks down the human rights every employee is entitled t 𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗶𝘁 𝘂𝘀 𝗮𝘁 https://www.rfr.bz/b4e62e6
December 17, 2025 at 7:02 PM
Your Human Rights at Work: What You Need to Know

When you clock in each day, you don’t stop being human — but too many workplaces act like you do.In this episode of Built to Grow, host Valdet Selimaj breaks down the human rights every employee is entitled t 𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗶𝘁 𝘂𝘀 𝗮𝘁 https://www.rfr.bz/bd90614
December 17, 2025 at 1:01 PM
You don’t stop being human when you clock in.

And your rights don’t clock out.

#HumanRightsAtWork #WorkplaceCulture #BuiltToGrow
December 17, 2025 at 1:00 PM
Let’s be honest: Too many workplaces count on their employees not knowing their rights.
December 16, 2025 at 2:30 PM
Human Rights in the Workplace: What Every Employee Should Know

status: draft When you clock in each morning, you're not just an employee: you're a human being with fundamental rights that deserve protection. Yet too many of us don't fully understand what those rights are or how to advocate for…
Human Rights in the Workplace: What Every Employee Should Know
status: draft When you clock in each morning, you're not just an employee: you're a human being with fundamental rights that deserve protection. Yet too many of us don't fully understand what those rights are or how to advocate for them when they're violated. Your workplace shouldn't be a place where you compromise your dignity, safety, or basic human respect. Whether you're starting your first job or you've been in the workforce for decades, understanding your rights isn't just empowering: it's essential.
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December 16, 2025 at 2:01 PM
Donald Trump is the perfect case study of Dark Triad leadership — narcissism, manipulation, and ruthlessness in action.

🎙️ New Built to Grow episode out now.

https://youtu.be/8VhsUu8KHQs

#BuiltToGrowPodcast #DarkTriad #ToxicLeadership #DonaldTrump
Evil in the Corner Office: The Darkside of Leadership
Not every leader is a visionary — some are villains. In this episode of Built to Grow, Valdet Selimaj exposes the “Dark Triad” of leadership: narcissism, Mac...
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September 29, 2025 at 1:30 PM
I recently launched a new podcast that is focused on personal and professional development.

Part of that means discussing current events that impact us personally and professionally.

#Doxxing is a serious problem right now.

Check out my new episode and give me a follow!

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Doxxing: What Every Professional Needs to Know
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September 22, 2025 at 4:31 PM
This Pride Month, DevCore Consulting is giving back to the LGBTQ+ community with a free self-paced personal development course — because your confidence, resilience, and well-being matter.

Growth is powerful. And you deserve to thrive.

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#lgbtq #pride
June 17, 2025 at 3:50 AM
At DevCore Consulting, we help individuals and organizations unlock their potential through:

✔️ Leadership Development
✔️ Team Coaching
✔️ Executive Support
✔️ Self-Paced Courses
✔️ Culture Strategy

Let’s build something great — together.
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June 17, 2025 at 3:33 AM
In these dark political times, we have to band together against the tyranny and injustice that is being inflicted on us by these lunatic Co-Presidents, Trump and Musk.

As long as we unite and fight for this country, we can never be powerless.

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Hands Off! Detroit Fights Back · Hands Off
**Donald Trump and Elon Musk think this country belongs to them.** Detroit is fighting back! They're taking everything they can get their hands on—our health care, our data, our jobs, our services—an...
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April 1, 2025 at 1:58 AM
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Big update about Flashes and its future!

Full statement: https://github.com/birdsongapps/Flashes/discussions/122

TL;DR: Flashes will remain free. I’m launching a crowdfunding campaign to bring Flashes to Android! First beta in 3–4 weeks, full version in ~2 months if all goes well …
March 9, 2025 at 3:40 PM
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March 5, 2025 at 3:52 AM
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Exactly.
Jon Stewart Explains Why Trump's Cabinet Picks Are The Real 'DEI Hires' In Viral Rant
No lie detected.
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February 5, 2025 at 1:48 AM
Checkout the social media app “Collective”.

It’s like LGBTQ+ Instagram.

What a great way to connect with each other and also move away from Meta apps. #gay

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February 3, 2025 at 5:24 PM