@violiav.bsky.social
That’s 100% true. If you got the time show up at all the things.
December 5, 2025 at 2:46 PM
That’s 100% true. If you got the time show up at all the things.
I’ve been trying to find local perspectives about it and it’s really hard.
December 5, 2025 at 2:29 PM
I’ve been trying to find local perspectives about it and it’s really hard.
For me. I’m pretty sure HR just used it to come up with new job titles
December 5, 2025 at 2:59 AM
For me. I’m pretty sure HR just used it to come up with new job titles
It hasn’t been helpful in any work related stuff at all.
December 5, 2025 at 2:58 AM
It hasn’t been helpful in any work related stuff at all.
I get accused of ruining everything. I start to spiral because I can’t control how people perceive me. I eventually send two texts.
Thanks for sticking with this if you have, my therapist is on maternity leave.
Thanks for sticking with this if you have, my therapist is on maternity leave.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
I get accused of ruining everything. I start to spiral because I can’t control how people perceive me. I eventually send two texts.
Thanks for sticking with this if you have, my therapist is on maternity leave.
Thanks for sticking with this if you have, my therapist is on maternity leave.
Stepson then (supposedly it’s him) texts his dad that I need to stay out of his business, that he doesn’t need outside perspective or a therapist. He also mentioned that I hadn’t replied to the text his girlfriend sent. But why wouldn’t he just reply to me directly?
Anyway, a fight ensues
Anyway, a fight ensues
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
Stepson then (supposedly it’s him) texts his dad that I need to stay out of his business, that he doesn’t need outside perspective or a therapist. He also mentioned that I hadn’t replied to the text his girlfriend sent. But why wouldn’t he just reply to me directly?
Anyway, a fight ensues
Anyway, a fight ensues
Meanwhile my husband is freaking out that his son will never speak to him again.
This is what I sent to just my stepson. A few months back he’d actually asked me for therapist information so as far as I’m concerned this is just follow up.
This is what I sent to just my stepson. A few months back he’d actually asked me for therapist information so as far as I’m concerned this is just follow up.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
Meanwhile my husband is freaking out that his son will never speak to him again.
This is what I sent to just my stepson. A few months back he’d actually asked me for therapist information so as far as I’m concerned this is just follow up.
This is what I sent to just my stepson. A few months back he’d actually asked me for therapist information so as far as I’m concerned this is just follow up.
But it caused us to get into a fight because he straight up told me I needed to fix it to which I said “fucking excuse me”. Like I don’t hang out with her. She only comes over to smoke and is high before she gets here. I swear some of the THC vape juice makes you extra paranoid
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
But it caused us to get into a fight because he straight up told me I needed to fix it to which I said “fucking excuse me”. Like I don’t hang out with her. She only comes over to smoke and is high before she gets here. I swear some of the THC vape juice makes you extra paranoid
Here’s what I get: plus her accusing me of being in more car accidents than reality.
Like I NEVER talked to her about her beef with my stepdaughter. In June my HUSBAND told her I resented her (why, I don’t know, I think he just got his words and feelings mixed up)
Like I NEVER talked to her about her beef with my stepdaughter. In June my HUSBAND told her I resented her (why, I don’t know, I think he just got his words and feelings mixed up)
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
Here’s what I get: plus her accusing me of being in more car accidents than reality.
Like I NEVER talked to her about her beef with my stepdaughter. In June my HUSBAND told her I resented her (why, I don’t know, I think he just got his words and feelings mixed up)
Like I NEVER talked to her about her beef with my stepdaughter. In June my HUSBAND told her I resented her (why, I don’t know, I think he just got his words and feelings mixed up)
So they get upset at us and ghost us. We have our Halloween party, they don’t show. I send a text that we missed them and should probably have a conversation at some point about why they ghosted .
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
So they get upset at us and ghost us. We have our Halloween party, they don’t show. I send a text that we missed them and should probably have a conversation at some point about why they ghosted .
About a month later some stupid car issue popped up. We have one car and didn’t let them borrow it for a bridal shower or something of one of her friends. I wasn’t given a lot of details. Par for course actually. It’s where we get to the family’s Achilles heel: avoidance.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
About a month later some stupid car issue popped up. We have one car and didn’t let them borrow it for a bridal shower or something of one of her friends. I wasn’t given a lot of details. Par for course actually. It’s where we get to the family’s Achilles heel: avoidance.
At that same party she told my kid (who was staying with us briefly before going to Canada) and my husband that she’d recently stopped talking to one of her guy friends because she thought he was trying to sleep with him.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
At that same party she told my kid (who was staying with us briefly before going to Canada) and my husband that she’d recently stopped talking to one of her guy friends because she thought he was trying to sleep with him.
This summer she finally got him to ask her to marry her.
Then they had a weird poorly attended engagement party/dual birthday at our house. Had anyone actually told me it was supposed to ALSO be an engagement party I would have made sure our family showed up.
Then they had a weird poorly attended engagement party/dual birthday at our house. Had anyone actually told me it was supposed to ALSO be an engagement party I would have made sure our family showed up.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
This summer she finally got him to ask her to marry her.
Then they had a weird poorly attended engagement party/dual birthday at our house. Had anyone actually told me it was supposed to ALSO be an engagement party I would have made sure our family showed up.
Then they had a weird poorly attended engagement party/dual birthday at our house. Had anyone actually told me it was supposed to ALSO be an engagement party I would have made sure our family showed up.
I only had cross words with her about Blake Lively, because I was sick of hearing about it. And because she didn’t understand that poor people frequently actually spent more than middle class people. I had to explain class disparity to her because she didn’t understood and was being offensive.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
I only had cross words with her about Blake Lively, because I was sick of hearing about it. And because she didn’t understand that poor people frequently actually spent more than middle class people. I had to explain class disparity to her because she didn’t understood and was being offensive.
Like those cats. From Cats.
She felt left out when they were yammering. But it’s a family of yammering people. It’s actually really beautiful when they all yammer and are all on the same wavelength.
no way I’m I talking to her about this stuff. I told both my husband and stepdaughter that.
She felt left out when they were yammering. But it’s a family of yammering people. It’s actually really beautiful when they all yammer and are all on the same wavelength.
no way I’m I talking to her about this stuff. I told both my husband and stepdaughter that.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
Like those cats. From Cats.
She felt left out when they were yammering. But it’s a family of yammering people. It’s actually really beautiful when they all yammer and are all on the same wavelength.
no way I’m I talking to her about this stuff. I told both my husband and stepdaughter that.
She felt left out when they were yammering. But it’s a family of yammering people. It’s actually really beautiful when they all yammer and are all on the same wavelength.
no way I’m I talking to her about this stuff. I told both my husband and stepdaughter that.
She got paranoid that his SISTER had amorous intentions towards him. Because she took pictures of our family dancing at the cruise ship nightclub.
She literally made him stop being friends with his sister.
That did piss me off. I’ve known these kids since they were 5&6. Partners in crime.
She literally made him stop being friends with his sister.
That did piss me off. I’ve known these kids since they were 5&6. Partners in crime.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
She got paranoid that his SISTER had amorous intentions towards him. Because she took pictures of our family dancing at the cruise ship nightclub.
She literally made him stop being friends with his sister.
That did piss me off. I’ve known these kids since they were 5&6. Partners in crime.
She literally made him stop being friends with his sister.
That did piss me off. I’ve known these kids since they were 5&6. Partners in crime.
But then before he had another job (she didn’t have one either), she started talking about marriage. She got paranoid about those sexy bots that follow you on instagram and made him block them. He barely uses social media.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
But then before he had another job (she didn’t have one either), she started talking about marriage. She got paranoid about those sexy bots that follow you on instagram and made him block them. He barely uses social media.
This situation was practically inevitable considering the chain of events.
Kid is a go along to get along people pleaser. The g/f made him buy all new wardrobe. She burned through her 60k inheritance in a few months.
Impulsivity of youth, so whatever. I wrote it off.
Kid is a go along to get along people pleaser. The g/f made him buy all new wardrobe. She burned through her 60k inheritance in a few months.
Impulsivity of youth, so whatever. I wrote it off.
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
This situation was practically inevitable considering the chain of events.
Kid is a go along to get along people pleaser. The g/f made him buy all new wardrobe. She burned through her 60k inheritance in a few months.
Impulsivity of youth, so whatever. I wrote it off.
Kid is a go along to get along people pleaser. The g/f made him buy all new wardrobe. She burned through her 60k inheritance in a few months.
Impulsivity of youth, so whatever. I wrote it off.
She’s straight up doing the same shit his mom did. I can see it so fucking clearly. She got him to no call no show to a job because she wanted more time with him.
Him mom got him to quit high school so he could work shitty jobs and pay her bills.
Don’t get me wrong, my husband had many missteps
Him mom got him to quit high school so he could work shitty jobs and pay her bills.
Don’t get me wrong, my husband had many missteps
December 4, 2025 at 6:14 AM
She’s straight up doing the same shit his mom did. I can see it so fucking clearly. She got him to no call no show to a job because she wanted more time with him.
Him mom got him to quit high school so he could work shitty jobs and pay her bills.
Don’t get me wrong, my husband had many missteps
Him mom got him to quit high school so he could work shitty jobs and pay her bills.
Don’t get me wrong, my husband had many missteps
Y’all these people were/are probably high AF half the time.
December 3, 2025 at 6:40 PM
Y’all these people were/are probably high AF half the time.