V_of_Muffin
@vofmuffin.bsky.social
Disabled, queer, polysexual, polyamorous, and more!
BDSM, Politics, and Fun Tidbits.
Pronouns: They/Them
BDSM, Politics, and Fun Tidbits.
Pronouns: They/Them
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You won’t regret being kind.
Even if no one notices.
Even if it’s hard.
You’ll still know you did the right thing.
Even if no one notices.
Even if it’s hard.
You’ll still know you did the right thing.
August 3, 2025 at 11:46 AM
You won’t regret being kind.
Even if no one notices.
Even if it’s hard.
You’ll still know you did the right thing.
Even if no one notices.
Even if it’s hard.
You’ll still know you did the right thing.
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If you’d told me a decade ago that the NYT and WaPo would roll over for a Republican president going full fascist while the Murdoch-owned Wall Street Journal went on the attack — and that Bill Kristol was pressing the attack harder than Nancy Pelosi — well, I’d have had you committed.
July 17, 2025 at 11:07 PM
If you’d told me a decade ago that the NYT and WaPo would roll over for a Republican president going full fascist while the Murdoch-owned Wall Street Journal went on the attack — and that Bill Kristol was pressing the attack harder than Nancy Pelosi — well, I’d have had you committed.
Been thinking of ways to be gender euphoric more often, except each day is different in how I feel and wish to present.
June 16, 2025 at 8:02 PM
Been thinking of ways to be gender euphoric more often, except each day is different in how I feel and wish to present.
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There are so many ways to be Non-Binary✨
#Nonbinary is an umbrella term for gender identities that are outside of the gender binary. Enbies aren’t a watered down version of their agab!
Non-binary people aren’t a monolith and don’t owe you androgyny 💛🤍💜🖤
#enbypride #pride #queerartist #transpride
#Nonbinary is an umbrella term for gender identities that are outside of the gender binary. Enbies aren’t a watered down version of their agab!
Non-binary people aren’t a monolith and don’t owe you androgyny 💛🤍💜🖤
#enbypride #pride #queerartist #transpride
June 9, 2025 at 12:44 AM
There are so many ways to be Non-Binary✨
#Nonbinary is an umbrella term for gender identities that are outside of the gender binary. Enbies aren’t a watered down version of their agab!
Non-binary people aren’t a monolith and don’t owe you androgyny 💛🤍💜🖤
#enbypride #pride #queerartist #transpride
#Nonbinary is an umbrella term for gender identities that are outside of the gender binary. Enbies aren’t a watered down version of their agab!
Non-binary people aren’t a monolith and don’t owe you androgyny 💛🤍💜🖤
#enbypride #pride #queerartist #transpride
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More and more traditional media is calling it like it is...
The manufactured trans-panic is a scam.
USAToday's resoundingly laid it out 👇
Amplify this message widely.
#Silence=Erasure
The manufactured trans-panic is a scam.
USAToday's resoundingly laid it out 👇
Amplify this message widely.
#Silence=Erasure
They're lying to you about transgender women and girls in sports
The president, politicians and right-wing activists are lying to you about trans women in sports to get what they want.
ftw.usatoday.com
March 14, 2025 at 12:00 AM
More and more traditional media is calling it like it is...
The manufactured trans-panic is a scam.
USAToday's resoundingly laid it out 👇
Amplify this message widely.
#Silence=Erasure
The manufactured trans-panic is a scam.
USAToday's resoundingly laid it out 👇
Amplify this message widely.
#Silence=Erasure
Yesterday was my first time attending a protest and it felt overwhelming, but good.
April 6, 2025 at 7:46 PM
Yesterday was my first time attending a protest and it felt overwhelming, but good.
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While you can't yet pre-order my book, you can take a peek at it during the @dukepress.bsky.social flash sale:
My Studio Is a Dungeon Is the Studio
www.dukeupress.edu
March 25, 2025 at 6:01 PM
While you can't yet pre-order my book, you can take a peek at it during the @dukepress.bsky.social flash sale:
Newsletter is now going out a full two days ahead of Public Hearings, so people can form their thoughts for written testimony if they so choose.
March 2, 2025 at 10:56 PM
Newsletter is now going out a full two days ahead of Public Hearings, so people can form their thoughts for written testimony if they so choose.
New Hampshire friends, I have started a newsletter to help follow the goings on of government within our state. Currently my focus is on Public Hearings by the House of Representatives and the Senate. If you would like to be added to the list, message me your email.
February 27, 2025 at 7:04 AM
New Hampshire friends, I have started a newsletter to help follow the goings on of government within our state. Currently my focus is on Public Hearings by the House of Representatives and the Senate. If you would like to be added to the list, message me your email.
I wrote to the New Hampshire Senate Judiciary Committee about Senate Bill 268 that is blatantly and purposefully discriminatory. I received a response from one of the members of the committee. I am formulating my rebuttal. gc.nh.gov/bill_status/...
gc.nh.gov
February 16, 2025 at 8:23 PM
I wrote to the New Hampshire Senate Judiciary Committee about Senate Bill 268 that is blatantly and purposefully discriminatory. I received a response from one of the members of the committee. I am formulating my rebuttal. gc.nh.gov/bill_status/...
Tomorrow I’m going to the State House to speak against this bill. legiscan.com/NH/text/HB28...
February 9, 2025 at 9:07 PM
Tomorrow I’m going to the State House to speak against this bill. legiscan.com/NH/text/HB28...
I went to a High Protocol Experience at an event this past weekend. I came to
conclusions about myself and what I desire from those on the right side of the slash. I am taking these bits and pieces with me on my journey of discovery and growth as I dip my toes into the waters.
conclusions about myself and what I desire from those on the right side of the slash. I am taking these bits and pieces with me on my journey of discovery and growth as I dip my toes into the waters.
January 28, 2025 at 12:53 AM
I went to a High Protocol Experience at an event this past weekend. I came to
conclusions about myself and what I desire from those on the right side of the slash. I am taking these bits and pieces with me on my journey of discovery and growth as I dip my toes into the waters.
conclusions about myself and what I desire from those on the right side of the slash. I am taking these bits and pieces with me on my journey of discovery and growth as I dip my toes into the waters.
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I know smut may seem like a frivolous thing to be upset about, but crushing it is part of fascism. Controlling all forms of sexual expression is fascism. Only allowing certain kinds is fascism. Smut peddlers are always canaries in the coal mines.
June 29, 2024 at 6:56 PM
I know smut may seem like a frivolous thing to be upset about, but crushing it is part of fascism. Controlling all forms of sexual expression is fascism. Only allowing certain kinds is fascism. Smut peddlers are always canaries in the coal mines.
Was asked to ponder the following by my therapist, “ What does it mean to pass (versus fail) at life?” I’ll be rattling this one around until next week.
March 7, 2024 at 6:34 AM
Was asked to ponder the following by my therapist, “ What does it mean to pass (versus fail) at life?” I’ll be rattling this one around until next week.
Today was the only time in 6 months that I forgot my person’s collar for our time together. They say it’s fine, but I know it’s not.
February 25, 2024 at 10:10 PM
Today was the only time in 6 months that I forgot my person’s collar for our time together. They say it’s fine, but I know it’s not.
This week I made the affirming decision to only go by they/them for my pronouns. She/her or even she/they hadn’t seemed to fit for a while, causing more dysporia than I realized until this past weekend when I was seen for who I am in a space I call home.
February 4, 2024 at 3:00 PM
This week I made the affirming decision to only go by they/them for my pronouns. She/her or even she/they hadn’t seemed to fit for a while, causing more dysporia than I realized until this past weekend when I was seen for who I am in a space I call home.
I got my first supporter on Ko-Fi!
January 13, 2024 at 10:44 PM
I got my first supporter on Ko-Fi!
Santa always brings me a gift that is something my wife would never in a million years get for me. Santa is stumped this year. Years past have included a giant stuffed animal, a gummy bear maker, and a label printer. What do you think Santa should bring?
December 19, 2023 at 5:34 PM
Santa always brings me a gift that is something my wife would never in a million years get for me. Santa is stumped this year. Years past have included a giant stuffed animal, a gummy bear maker, and a label printer. What do you think Santa should bring?
Solution to yesterday’s gender dysphoria: remember I have binders and actually put one on to wear.
December 16, 2023 at 7:32 PM
Solution to yesterday’s gender dysphoria: remember I have binders and actually put one on to wear.
Feeling very uncomfortable in my skin today. Not sure what to do about it, but know it is unpleasant.
December 15, 2023 at 4:58 PM
Feeling very uncomfortable in my skin today. Not sure what to do about it, but know it is unpleasant.
Changing up my fetlife profile and taking suggestions on what to write, because writing about yourself can be hard.
December 7, 2023 at 9:21 PM
Changing up my fetlife profile and taking suggestions on what to write, because writing about yourself can be hard.
I told my partner that I wasn’t expecting anything from them for the holidays and then proceeded to buy them one of their most sought after squishmallows for the holidays. Guess I have to retract my statement.
December 6, 2023 at 6:43 PM
I told my partner that I wasn’t expecting anything from them for the holidays and then proceeded to buy them one of their most sought after squishmallows for the holidays. Guess I have to retract my statement.
My bruises have bloomed wonderfully from that years in the making play date.
December 3, 2023 at 7:58 PM
My bruises have bloomed wonderfully from that years in the making play date.
I’m shortening my long game. Two years is short, right?
December 3, 2023 at 12:52 AM
I’m shortening my long game. Two years is short, right?
As a service person in consideration of a service person the satisfaction I receive when service is done for me is exponential.
November 9, 2023 at 1:59 PM
As a service person in consideration of a service person the satisfaction I receive when service is done for me is exponential.