oooo i didn't realize that bleeding edge trans care could be a bad way to put it lol. it's just like actually getting the meds you need to prevent genital atrophy and basic bodily autonomy. which sadly is bleeding edge trans healthcare in the US at least. it's a sad state of things lol

as someone who has lived in NY 95% of my life, lived in CT, CA. It wasn't until I moved to Massachusetts that I felt at home. idk what it is, I just haven't felt even remotely as at home and comfortable as mass it's the best. it also helps that they have transhealth and bleeding edge trans care

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that being said these days I'm thankfully (and so luckily) insulated from that bc my wonderful girlfriend helps with stuff but like. I just want to work genuinely I want to make money so it can be easier on both of us. And i swear like I've applied everywhere they just are NOT hiring it sucks so bad

and like she was just a great fit? they've kept on terrible fits for the show that do a lot of nothing and stay on like 5 seasons but Jenny Slate wasn't a good fit? cmon. Season 35 is pretty peak SNL though I have to say like Jenny also included

thanks i appreciate hearing what has worked for you
wish you the best :)

that's what I've been incorporating that does seem to help i guess the problem for me is regularity(?) the bad adhd doesn't help but ive been getting in a good routine. Also it seems like having ehlor danlos stuff and pelvic floor weakness doesn't help so I've been trying to address that too

hmm good to know. Tbh idk if stuff worked that well before HRT too lol
do you have any specific kegel exercises+a reference you use? I have also realized being sedentary for years didn't help so I've been exercising again thank god. cialis and tgel dont do enough for me sometimes tbh

if they can find a way for your dick to work better using estrogen or something I swear I'd be soooo happy. And like most trans healthcare breakthroughs it would benefit a lot more people than just trans people. It's honestly an exciting area of healthcare innovation

like I love that they're vague about where you need to go next, I do. But the amount of stupid ass battles you have to have just to get across the giant ass map just to realize you're not in the right place is infuriating. It sucks ass tbh like genuinely got me to really not like the game much

this also goes for people who use lesbian exclusively, fuck that 10000% and I'm a high grade lesbian crushing on girls in 1st grade saying I love you. Like if you think lesbianism is a gated community I'm not about you fuck that. Be nice and welcoming to others!!!! it's so fucking important

also this is random but fuck anyone who uses women in a non inclusive sense. fuck queer people who want to exclude others for no reason being queer is about being loving and inclusive. The whole reason we fight is to be together and be safe and welcome in the world. So for me it's always inclusive