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@youralaskanbf.bsky.social
36, they/he, yup’ik/sugpiaq, recovering internet user. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🪶🍉♑️🧩🎵🎮🚗 sober words, high thoughts, and filtered selfies. 🔞
how about i make it clap 👏
January 7, 2026 at 4:10 AM
i’m about 10 minutes into episode 2 and i’m already like, of course it doesn’t look good for shane. bottoms famously want too much out of tops. and that’s coming from me, a bottom
January 7, 2026 at 3:10 AM
i’m usually contrarian as fuck because i don’t like when people are right and hold it over my head. but mindfulness and being present have helped immensely with whatever i was going through the last few months
January 5, 2026 at 10:39 PM
discovery plus is almost exclusively for trixie motel, i can tell you that much. shudder, for dragula. hbo max for heated rivalry. hulu probably won’t be used for much more than the golden girls
January 2, 2026 at 2:12 AM
(pointing at self in mirror) this is your fault. i’d leave marks on your face if your party wasn’t still happening
December 28, 2025 at 10:13 PM
2021 ➡️ 2022 ➡️ 2023 ➡️ 2024

the one way you can tell that it’s getting longer is how much smaller my barrette looks each year
December 26, 2025 at 11:47 PM
i’m taking on every negative quality that anyone can come up with, like a goddamn sponge. once i’m moved back out, no one will ever hear from me again. because attachment is evil.
December 24, 2025 at 11:24 PM
my therapist said that my RSD keeping me from sending the first message, putting the onus on the other person to message me first so i know i’m not bothering them, is a form of manipulation.

what the fuck do i do with this information. what the fuck did she mean by saying that.
December 24, 2025 at 11:24 PM