zolmes.bsky.social
@zolmes.bsky.social
While this is different in the modern era, historically gay spaces were less segregated by race and class than straight spaces which feels important to understand where things come from getting muddied
December 10, 2025 at 4:17 PM
White gay men use black culture but so does your favorite white enby barista because it’s a white American issue, but acknowledging that would mean owning complicity and not being able to deflect the idea that gay men experience homophobia
December 10, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Ironically, the way white queer people deploy “this was stolen from black people” specifically at white gay men does feel like stealing a critique from black people without thinking deeply about it
December 10, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Working with people who have been reminding me of the value of moving slow to move fast, something I’m trying to use more in my approach to work / tech generally
December 8, 2025 at 8:06 PM
They’re a really smart kid (19!) who has been working in a tech since their early teens and that largely makes them an interesting person except man it’s obvious they’ve picked up some of the worst arguing tendencies as a result
December 5, 2025 at 5:00 AM
a friend did it about 10 years ago, super easy class / test (there’s a legal limit to how much you can charge which is good in terms of equity)
November 16, 2025 at 8:47 PM
That does, unfortunately, mean I will probably need to remain subscribed to his newsletter
November 5, 2025 at 6:12 PM
There are many good reasons to learn outside of that, but if nothing else having more modalities available to you is just going to be better
November 4, 2025 at 3:51 PM
Most people are resistant because they think their friends and family won’t so why bother (and they are usually correct), but it also opens up more access options for you! VRS, live interpreting, etc etc
November 4, 2025 at 3:49 PM
That said, having lived in a satmar neighborhood and worked elections there, they’re a strong, consistent voting bloc so good get!
November 2, 2025 at 7:49 PM
I don’t love concessions around yeshiva standards, but his ass better reinstate bike lanes on Bedford Avenue
November 2, 2025 at 7:42 PM
There’s also stuff like why the fuck is it even up to a vote on digitizing maps, I’m sure it’s for budget reasons or whatever, but that absolutely shouldn’t be my call!
October 26, 2025 at 5:43 PM
Not in the top five changes I would make tomorrow, but man I miss those bus bike racks
October 25, 2025 at 2:11 PM
Subway stations in Berlin have safe, covered places to lock up you bike so you can bike to a station and take a train part of the way, busses in Minneapolis had the ability to put a bike on the front, etc etc
October 25, 2025 at 2:07 PM
I know I shouldn’t expect much from the “openly jealous of HIV criminalization crowd” but man
October 23, 2025 at 4:25 AM