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believersneverdie.bsky.social
banned from r/butchlesbians lol
October 29, 2025 at 4:58 PM
compostwitch.bsky.social
this makes me sad so here is something related that made me happy: buying men's boxer briefs and in the "how did you hear about us?" box, putting "/r/ButchLesbians"
August 17, 2024 at 6:44 PM
thearktikcircle.bsky.social
I love butch lesbians so much.

#butchlesbians
#lesbian
#sapphic
January 22, 2025 at 5:10 AM
bongoad.bsky.social
Hey so R/Butchlesbians is transphobic and policies identities. Glad to be banned, real butches are never transphobic.
July 23, 2025 at 11:04 PM
whitecedar.bsky.social
It's okay if you change your mind again, too! I flip-flopped back and forth a lot in the past, and I recommend reading through r/butchlesbians to see if any trans (or detrans) experiences on there align with your own. Masculinity is a spectrum 💙
February 25, 2025 at 2:50 AM
smoochkook.bsky.social
All I can say today is I, once again, read up on Femme/Butch history and dear god I feel so seen and connected to butches. Y’all are MY PEOPLE as a femme lesbian. The ones who make me feel protected and safe and my knees weak. You do so much for us. Thank you #butchlesbians
November 12, 2025 at 3:33 PM
briewoodfiction.bsky.social
got banned from r/butchlesbians in under an hour. don't expect you to do anything about it just shithole website
February 16, 2024 at 9:45 AM
donidoninha.lesbian.cat
r/butchlesbians foi onde deus morreu, o mundo acabou e a humanidade se perdeu
July 3, 2025 at 6:47 PM
reallynik.bsky.social
I don’t think people understand how much staring can affect people. Staring at gender non-conforming people, at black people or people of colour. It makes the exclusionary feeling very evident. It’s usually very obvious and sometimes even with pointing and laughing.

#Queer #LGBTQ
Post from r/ButchLesbians How do you deal with staring  So l'm very obviously masculine - I'm non-binary, tall, wide shoulders, skin fade etc. I get misgendered with Sir a lot which doesn't bother me that much. But on public transport at the moment people are constantly staring at me. I'm based in London and it seems to always be on the tube and 99% of the time cis men. It's really starting to bother me - I guess because it's a close space and occasionally it feels threatening. Usually I stare back so they know l've clocked them and sometimes will even say something which I know isn't always the best approach and has gotten me in confronting situations before. But I'm just so sick of it. How do any of you folks deal with this? Even if it's just internally? I guess just looking for some solidarity as l know I'm definitely not the only person this happens to but I don't have that many butch or transmasc friends
August 18, 2025 at 1:01 PM
marimatch.is.energetic.fyi
Un comentario que me ha gustado mucho sobre les butches en las Magical Girls, sí, es del reddit de butchlesbians.

Si os interesa el tema os dejo el enlace en el siguiente comentario ⬇️
I don't know enough about magical girl genres to speak to anything else you mention here, but I would challenge the assertion that "Hollywood prefers masculine girls and butches over cutesy feminine girls". The vast majority of lesbian representation I've seen in any medium, be it movies, TV shows, books, video games, etc. tends to be very feminine women. When butches are portrayed, they tend to be extremely stereotypical-- and often their masculinity is portrayed as either a joke or some sign of inner, hidden insecurity that doesn't actually reflect how and why butches display their own masculinity. Everyone I've ever met who says that Hollywood prefers butches over other kinds of lesbians always ends up pointing to a character I would never consider butch, they're just a woman who wears pants instead of dresses and maybe has a gun, or the character is supposed to be butch but the representation doesn't actually reflect any lived, meaningful butch experiences. 1- Butch masculinity does not center the same type of things traditional patriarchal masculinity does. It's different for every butch, but as I've summarized before, a butch's masculinity makes them more vulnerable in society, not less-- unlike a cishet man's masculinity. 2- As a result, butch masculinity does NOT inherently supersede or degrade femininity, especially non-cishet femininity. A butch does not cancel out or degrade a feminine character in media. 3- Hollywood, by and large, does not understand butches with a few exceptions. People who claim that Hollywood prefers butches, by and large, do not understand butches either. 4- I can't speak to issues feminine lesbians face, so I won't, but I will say that I've met just as many people who say that butch4butch isn't "true" feminism or that butches aren't "real" lesbians (IE, butch4butch is basically just being gay, butches are actually just wannabe fagg… I have personal experience with people actively degrading my butchness and butch representation in media using the exact arguments you detailed here, OP, which is why I jumped on this post. To be blunt: I think the people who are telling you these arguments are doing so in bad faith, with a very poor understanding of Butches and lesbian cultural dynamics as a whole. They are parroting a lot of very bigoted language and ideas. That said, I know all butches aren't perfect and some internalize toxic masculinity and are poor partners to feminine people. I also know not all feminine people and feminine lesbians think this way about butches. I'm simply addressing the broad misconceptions here.
September 2, 2025 at 7:19 AM
theblnb.bsky.social
Not enough butch lesbians in media. Call me Bob the Builder cuz I'm fixing this shit.
#butchlesbians #loveyouguys<3<3<3
January 13, 2025 at 4:35 PM
mooniewolfy.bsky.social
Art fight attack update! featuring Arlo

#sketch #lesbian #butchlesbians #artfight #attack #AFAttack #artfightattack #teamfossil
July 7, 2025 at 2:08 AM
hangrylesbian.bsky.social
the only subreddit i trust is r/butchlesbians because they are so welcoming of all trans people and ive learned so much about transmasculinity there
July 12, 2025 at 10:27 PM
thearktikcircle.bsky.social
I have this idea in my head that dating/being with a Nonbinary Butch Lesbian on T would make me less of a Lesbian. I would have to ID as Bi. I need to unpack this and work through it.
#Lesbian
#ButchLesbians
#Femme4Butch
April 27, 2025 at 6:45 PM
drawntoit.bsky.social
…youth & femme. Don’t try to deny it, you know it’s true, so where does that leave masc-presenting ppl who come out later in life? The bi/gay guys in their 30s+? The transman who braves it in their 50s?

No support, that’s where.

#Queer #LGBTQ #GayMen #masc #ButchLesbians #OldGays #OldQueers #enby
January 9, 2026 at 6:20 PM
xianlu2.bsky.social
lesbians woaw....

happy #pridemonth2024!

#lesbian #butchlesbians #transwoman #transbian

(ALSO LEONA IS TRANS YES)
June 2, 2025 at 1:32 AM
cuntmoney.bsky.social
Platinum star trans woman: has NEVER experienced transmisogyny.

She is a mod on r/butchlesbians

Credit to @briewoodfiction.bsky.social for sharing this rare sighting in the wild.
Reddit moderator PinkWhiteAndBlue, Butch Female, who is a trans woman, comments "Agab was mentioned 4 times in this post. And no, I've never experienced transmisogyny thanks though.
February 16, 2024 at 11:53 AM
marinestjean.bsky.social
Or for butch blacksmiths with nuns in medieval France
#butchfemme #butchlesbians

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January 5, 2026 at 1:38 PM