Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
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📚 Author KateWritesAboutSex.com 🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net 🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com 🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com 🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com 📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
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li’l introductory thread since a bunch of you folks just followed me (hi!):

I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.

I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
Kate, a queer femme white cis woman with short brown hair, smiles at the camera while wearing red lipstick, a blue floral-print one-shoulder dress and sparkly silver earrings; her arm tattoo of flowers with the text “do no harm but take no shit” is visible A mirror selfie in a grungy bathroom at Comedy Bar; Kate is smiling and wearing pink lipstick, a pink striped blouse, and blue jeans, with a black leather jacket hanging off one shoulder
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“I don’t think I’m a chaser…I think trans people are just hot.” — @katesloan.com
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outfit for omakase

call it Courtney Love meets Violet Beauregard, idk
Mirror selfies of Kate wearing a pale blue fit-and-flare tennis dress, blue metallic Doc Martens, and a blue cashmere cardigan, plus red lipstick
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there have always been people who like to write, and people who like to say they have written, and the latter really love the idea of AI and the former can not understand why you'd let a computer do the fun part.
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there’s this weird idea a lot of people seem to have about how all of us writers and artists must secretly want to use AI and are merely resisting temptation for ethical reasons, and like, no, it’s not hard for me to resist drinking the bowl of Piss With Glass In It actually
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Journalists: Save. Your. Work.

I use journoportfolio.com, and I've also liked the Fireshot browser extension, which makes quick PDF snapshots of websites.
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GameZone, a website dating back to 1994, has had its archives wiped:

aftermath.site/gamezone-video...
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I love Nick Jonas's song "Levels" because, as with many of Nick's songs, it SOUNDS like a slick fuckboy bop, but its lyrical content is about, like, the importance of intimacy & vulnerability www.youtube.com/watch?v=taVi...
Nick Jonas - Levels
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referenced this post in a Dildorks episode recently, so I went back to reread it, & uhhh... quite funny how many of these techniques are still my bread-&-butter, 8+ years later girlyjuice.net/5-ways-flirt...

also LOTS of vignettes about the hot dommy sex shop coworker I obviously had a crush on!!!
5 Ways I Flirt As a Submissive
1. Unprompted service. Three weeks ago, we went out to lunch and you ordered a Mill Street lager. Tonight, I show up for our scheduled fuckdate at your house, carrying a six-pack of Mill Street lag…
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"The Logoff generally steers away from covering Trump pronouncements until they translate into real-world impacts, because they often amount to false alarms. Trump is easily suggestible, so ... he’s more likely to say something than he is to follow through with it." www.vox.com/pages/logoff...
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so many lube companies pitching me coconut-based formulas in their press releases lately, but not one of them answers the most vital question: how do my partner + crushes feel about the taste of coconut 🤔
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things that will get you muted by me:
-unnecessary devil's advocate/NotAllMen-ing/etc.
-weird comments on my body/weight
-pitting women against each other for no reason
-unsolicited health advice
-unsolicited info about your genitals (I promise, if I cared about your genitals, you would know that)
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But happy for you that no cancer cells were found. Congrats!
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I’m not the person to ask about that, as we’re not sexual partners and I prefer not to receive unsolicited info about strangers’ genitals!
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“I’ll declare war on you if you don’t give me the peace prize” is an incredible bit
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I will follow Joshua Henry’s voice anywhere
A Playbill for the current Lincoln Centre production of Ragtime, behind which is visible the opening set of said show, which is big neon lights spelling out Ragtime
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have I ever looked gayer in my LIFE
Mirror selfies of Kate wearing a dark blue short-sleeved denim jumpsuit with black Doc Martens, a vintage red leather Coach Willis bag, silver hoop earrings, a black leather jacket, a smoky eye and a red lip
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ugh it’s annoying that RFK is right about “routine infant circumcision = bad” but wrong about just about everything else
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Gave a blowjob to a guy who had to fly back home to England later that day, and said out loud to him during the BJ, “This is farewellatio… you know, like fellatio, but…?” and he didn’t even laugh!!!
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Oh god. I was banging all these men who seemed so grown-up to me, like Real Adults, but they were all like 33-35. I’m that age now and I’m barely a real adult 😂
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My mom has often told me that when she reads her old journals, she feels overwhelmed by how much energy she had/how she had social plans every night of the week, usually w/ boys… and I feel the same reading my own journals… like, girl… yr an introvert… when are you resting… when are you jerking off…
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Reading my old journals from when I was 23-24 and it’s quite hilarious that I’d be like “I’m gonna take it slow with [new person I’m dating]” and would fuck them, like, later that same week lol
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classic queer poly household stuff:

“I got off with the Magic Wand Rechargeable last night”

“Oh, nice, me too! What setting?”

“2nd one”

“Same!”

“Great setting”

“GREAT setting”
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I am midway through this book and godDAMN it is so fucking funny

big recommend for any queers who have even a passing familiarity with Sex & the City