Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
📚 Author KateWritesAboutSex.com
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
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Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
· Nov 19
li’l introductory thread since a bunch of you folks just followed me (hi!):
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
November 28, 2025 at 2:50 AM
finally gonna watch the Margaret Qualley dominatrix movie tonight methinks
(largely cuz my chronic illness is flared up too bad for me to go out, but still)
(largely cuz my chronic illness is flared up too bad for me to go out, but still)
November 27, 2025 at 10:41 PM
finally gonna watch the Margaret Qualley dominatrix movie tonight methinks
(largely cuz my chronic illness is flared up too bad for me to go out, but still)
(largely cuz my chronic illness is flared up too bad for me to go out, but still)
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Thieves have stolen €90,000 worth of fine French snails destined for some of the country’s most prestigious restaurants
Thieves take €90,000 of snails meant for Michelin-starred restaurants
French police are on the trail of ‘experienced’ criminals who stole a whole year’s worth of produce from Jean-Mathieu Dauvergne’s L’Escargot des Grands Crus
www.thetimes.com
November 27, 2025 at 10:20 PM
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still thinking about the WAPtini (wet ass pear martini) at Civil Works
I think I’ve ordered it the last 3-4 times I’ve been to this bar and it is truly perfect
I think I’ve ordered it the last 3-4 times I’ve been to this bar and it is truly perfect
November 27, 2025 at 8:30 PM
still thinking about the WAPtini (wet ass pear martini) at Civil Works
I think I’ve ordered it the last 3-4 times I’ve been to this bar and it is truly perfect
I think I’ve ordered it the last 3-4 times I’ve been to this bar and it is truly perfect
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This is great, especially: "Dating people requires being interested in people. If you’re not interested in people, ask yourself why you want to date."
It's your first job to be interested in people, especially the kinds of people you might want to date, but also everyone else
It's your first job to be interested in people, especially the kinds of people you might want to date, but also everyone else
NEW on the blog:
An FAQ About the #1 Biggest Mistake Men Make on Dates with Women
girlyjuice.net/an-faq-about...
I got annoyed again about men who don't ask women questions on dates, so here's 3,300 words of helpful (& snarky) advice about that, for these men + the people who date them
An FAQ About the #1 Biggest Mistake Men Make on Dates with Women
girlyjuice.net/an-faq-about...
I got annoyed again about men who don't ask women questions on dates, so here's 3,300 words of helpful (& snarky) advice about that, for these men + the people who date them
An FAQ About the #1 Biggest Mistake Men Make on Dates with Women
Hey Kate, what’s the biggest mistake men make on dates with women? Not asking anywhere near enough questions. Or, in many cases, not asking any questions at all. Really? That’s the bigg…
girlyjuice.net
November 27, 2025 at 5:54 PM
This is great, especially: "Dating people requires being interested in people. If you’re not interested in people, ask yourself why you want to date."
It's your first job to be interested in people, especially the kinds of people you might want to date, but also everyone else
It's your first job to be interested in people, especially the kinds of people you might want to date, but also everyone else
think I'm gonna write a sexy thing about kissing this week for my katesloan.email subscribers, so go sign up ($5/month) if ya don't wanna miss it 😉💋
November 27, 2025 at 6:19 PM
think I'm gonna write a sexy thing about kissing this week for my katesloan.email subscribers, so go sign up ($5/month) if ya don't wanna miss it 😉💋
NEW on the blog:
An FAQ About the #1 Biggest Mistake Men Make on Dates with Women
girlyjuice.net/an-faq-about...
I got annoyed again about men who don't ask women questions on dates, so here's 3,300 words of helpful (& snarky) advice about that, for these men + the people who date them
An FAQ About the #1 Biggest Mistake Men Make on Dates with Women
girlyjuice.net/an-faq-about...
I got annoyed again about men who don't ask women questions on dates, so here's 3,300 words of helpful (& snarky) advice about that, for these men + the people who date them
An FAQ About the #1 Biggest Mistake Men Make on Dates with Women
Hey Kate, what’s the biggest mistake men make on dates with women? Not asking anywhere near enough questions. Or, in many cases, not asking any questions at all. Really? That’s the bigg…
girlyjuice.net
November 27, 2025 at 5:47 PM
NEW on the blog:
An FAQ About the #1 Biggest Mistake Men Make on Dates with Women
girlyjuice.net/an-faq-about...
I got annoyed again about men who don't ask women questions on dates, so here's 3,300 words of helpful (& snarky) advice about that, for these men + the people who date them
An FAQ About the #1 Biggest Mistake Men Make on Dates with Women
girlyjuice.net/an-faq-about...
I got annoyed again about men who don't ask women questions on dates, so here's 3,300 words of helpful (& snarky) advice about that, for these men + the people who date them
Saw a personal ad that specified being “D&D-free” (i.e. they have no STIs and don’t use hard drugs) and my first thought was “Why would I fuck someone who’s vehemently against Dungeons & Dragons”
November 27, 2025 at 2:35 PM
Saw a personal ad that specified being “D&D-free” (i.e. they have no STIs and don’t use hard drugs) and my first thought was “Why would I fuck someone who’s vehemently against Dungeons & Dragons”
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
"a single person of this demographic may have committed a crime, therefore we must punish the entire demographic" is a policy response you may recognize from fascist governments dedicated to ethnic cleansing elsewhere.
November 27, 2025 at 5:52 AM
"a single person of this demographic may have committed a crime, therefore we must punish the entire demographic" is a policy response you may recognize from fascist governments dedicated to ethnic cleansing elsewhere.
this is the goal
sucks your penis so good that you get memory wiped like the memory wipe flash in men in black when u cum
November 27, 2025 at 4:14 AM
this is the goal
The fibro medication I’m on has mostly taken away the fun parts of being drunk, due to how it works
Today I had to skip it bc I ran out; had a couple of beers and can ABSOLUTELY feel the difference, in that I suddenly want to write romantic fanfiction for the first time since starting this med lol
Today I had to skip it bc I ran out; had a couple of beers and can ABSOLUTELY feel the difference, in that I suddenly want to write romantic fanfiction for the first time since starting this med lol
November 27, 2025 at 3:49 AM
The fibro medication I’m on has mostly taken away the fun parts of being drunk, due to how it works
Today I had to skip it bc I ran out; had a couple of beers and can ABSOLUTELY feel the difference, in that I suddenly want to write romantic fanfiction for the first time since starting this med lol
Today I had to skip it bc I ran out; had a couple of beers and can ABSOLUTELY feel the difference, in that I suddenly want to write romantic fanfiction for the first time since starting this med lol
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
So now we need to figure out the ideal band name for Kate Sloan and Lili. And of course, the album.
would be a perfect album cover if me and Lili ever started a band together
November 26, 2025 at 8:57 PM
So now we need to figure out the ideal band name for Kate Sloan and Lili. And of course, the album.
got a compliment on my voice sounding sexy in this one and it’s fully just cuz I moaned a whole bunch the night before while getting up to the long-distance shenanigans discussed herein
NEW for our $12+ patrons:
Bonus Episode 49: Infatuation & Representation
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Topics include: Lovense sex, Kate’s new partner(!!), The Duke of Burgundy, Why We Love, whether it’s possible to love two people at once, kink representation in film, a really good sext, & more.
Bonus Episode 49: Infatuation & Representation
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Topics include: Lovense sex, Kate’s new partner(!!), The Duke of Burgundy, Why We Love, whether it’s possible to love two people at once, kink representation in film, a really good sext, & more.
Bonus Episode 49: Infatuation & Representation | The Dildorks
Get more from The Dildorks on Patreon
www.patreon.com
November 26, 2025 at 8:31 PM
got a compliment on my voice sounding sexy in this one and it’s fully just cuz I moaned a whole bunch the night before while getting up to the long-distance shenanigans discussed herein
see also:
frolic / woe / dread / malice
frolic / woe / dread / malice
November 26, 2025 at 8:28 PM
see also:
frolic / woe / dread / malice
frolic / woe / dread / malice
NEW for our $12+ patrons:
Bonus Episode 49: Infatuation & Representation
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Topics include: Lovense sex, Kate’s new partner(!!), The Duke of Burgundy, Why We Love, whether it’s possible to love two people at once, kink representation in film, a really good sext, & more.
Bonus Episode 49: Infatuation & Representation
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Topics include: Lovense sex, Kate’s new partner(!!), The Duke of Burgundy, Why We Love, whether it’s possible to love two people at once, kink representation in film, a really good sext, & more.
Bonus Episode 49: Infatuation & Representation | The Dildorks
Get more from The Dildorks on Patreon
www.patreon.com
November 26, 2025 at 6:34 PM
NEW for our $12+ patrons:
Bonus Episode 49: Infatuation & Representation
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Topics include: Lovense sex, Kate’s new partner(!!), The Duke of Burgundy, Why We Love, whether it’s possible to love two people at once, kink representation in film, a really good sext, & more.
Bonus Episode 49: Infatuation & Representation
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Topics include: Lovense sex, Kate’s new partner(!!), The Duke of Burgundy, Why We Love, whether it’s possible to love two people at once, kink representation in film, a really good sext, & more.
would be a perfect album cover if me and Lili ever started a band together
November 26, 2025 at 4:32 PM
would be a perfect album cover if me and Lili ever started a band together
another day, another thread on Reddit where women are like “is it normal that when I go on dates with men, they never ask me any questions?”
answer: normal? unfortunately yes. acceptable? fuck no
answer: normal? unfortunately yes. acceptable? fuck no
November 26, 2025 at 4:13 PM
another day, another thread on Reddit where women are like “is it normal that when I go on dates with men, they never ask me any questions?”
answer: normal? unfortunately yes. acceptable? fuck no
answer: normal? unfortunately yes. acceptable? fuck no
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
Next week the House E&C Committee is looking to run something of a shock and awe campaign, debating at least 19 bills that they say are related to "protecting kids online." Most of which are actually about censorship and control. Don't buy the framing. It's always the same damn thing.
November 26, 2025 at 12:50 AM
Next week the House E&C Committee is looking to run something of a shock and awe campaign, debating at least 19 bills that they say are related to "protecting kids online." Most of which are actually about censorship and control. Don't buy the framing. It's always the same damn thing.
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
November 26, 2025 at 12:04 AM
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
Kink is very definitely romantic. The beauty of it comes from the intimacy and trust involved in negotiating and performing a scene. Kate Sloan is just the person to help you dive deep into the romance of kink.
NEW Dildorks episode:
#459 Bewitched, Bruised, & Bewildered
thedildorks.com/episodes/bew...
Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, @billylore.bsky.social interviews me about how my submissiveness is deeply entangled with my romantic desires.
#459 Bewitched, Bruised, & Bewildered
thedildorks.com/episodes/bew...
Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, @billylore.bsky.social interviews me about how my submissiveness is deeply entangled with my romantic desires.
Bewitched, Bruised, & Bewildered | The Dildorks
Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, Billy interviews Kate about how her submissiveness is deeply entangled with her romantic desires.
thedildorks.com
November 25, 2025 at 6:56 PM
Kink is very definitely romantic. The beauty of it comes from the intimacy and trust involved in negotiating and performing a scene. Kate Sloan is just the person to help you dive deep into the romance of kink.
editing a really good Dildorks episode
November 25, 2025 at 4:45 PM
editing a really good Dildorks episode
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
Sometimes I think it’s going to be the librarians who will save us all.
November 25, 2025 at 1:47 AM
Sometimes I think it’s going to be the librarians who will save us all.
🎶 I guess it doesn't make a ton of sense to me/ that anybody would be into me for me🎶
November 24, 2025 at 9:45 PM
🎶 I guess it doesn't make a ton of sense to me/ that anybody would be into me for me🎶
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
#SaveSpeech
The call campaign is having an effect! The pressure right now is integral, if you are making calls, PLEASE KEEP CALLING. If you havent called yet or took a break, now is a GREAT time to hop on and add to the pressure!
The call campaign is having an effect! The pressure right now is integral, if you are making calls, PLEASE KEEP CALLING. If you havent called yet or took a break, now is a GREAT time to hop on and add to the pressure!
November 24, 2025 at 6:50 PM
#SaveSpeech
The call campaign is having an effect! The pressure right now is integral, if you are making calls, PLEASE KEEP CALLING. If you havent called yet or took a break, now is a GREAT time to hop on and add to the pressure!
The call campaign is having an effect! The pressure right now is integral, if you are making calls, PLEASE KEEP CALLING. If you havent called yet or took a break, now is a GREAT time to hop on and add to the pressure!