Your Favorite Osito
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Big sci-fi/fantasy/comic book media nerd. Fan of scones, coffee, pie, and breakfast. In the gym a lot. An actual teddy bear. Dabble in stories, narratives, and the social determinants of identity.
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boss-ideahouse.bsky.social
THIS SATURDAY. 💗

We’re doing it again: A queer brunch picnic & potluck. DJ Kurren$i setting the vibes. And the weather forecast looks perfect!

It’s all free. Because we deserve time for community, and “everybody eats!” is a community value.

Check the Saturday Love links: linktr.ee/boss.ideahouse
Flyer image shows a black and white cutout of people enjoying Lake Merritt and the Oakland skyline at sunset, with inserted shapes of a pink circle for a sun, rainbow colored rays spreading out from the sun, and an orange background as the sky. 

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SATURDAY LOVE

THE SECOND SERVING. SUNSET COVE, LAKE MERRITT.

October 18th. 12pm to 5pm.

A Queer Brunch Picnic & Potluck and Chosen Family Vibes.
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
The first one at Dolores Park was a hit! So we decided to do another one.

We’ll be there 12-5pm. Forecast shows 75-80 degree highs, and sunny skies. The menu, signup form to bring something, and directions are in the linktree below.

Hope to see you out there, Bay Area friends. 💚
boss-ideahouse.bsky.social
THIS SATURDAY. 💗

We’re doing it again: A queer brunch picnic & potluck. DJ Kurren$i setting the vibes. And the weather forecast looks perfect!

It’s all free. Because we deserve time for community, and “everybody eats!” is a community value.

Check the Saturday Love links: linktr.ee/boss.ideahouse
Flyer image shows a black and white cutout of people enjoying Lake Merritt and the Oakland skyline at sunset, with inserted shapes of a pink circle for a sun, rainbow colored rays spreading out from the sun, and an orange background as the sky. 

Text below reads:

SATURDAY LOVE

THE SECOND SERVING. SUNSET COVE, LAKE MERRITT.

October 18th. 12pm to 5pm.

A Queer Brunch Picnic & Potluck and Chosen Family Vibes.
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africanaupenn.bsky.social
106 years ago, one of the deadliest race massacres in American history took place in Elaine, Arkansas after Black farmers, seeking fair payment for their crops, organized through the Progressive Farmers and Household Union of America. #workersrights
106 years ago, one of the deadliest race massacres in American history took place in Elaine, Arkansas. Black farmers, seeking fair payment for their crops, organized through the Progressive Farmers and Household Union of America. When their meeting was attacked by a group of white men, the confrontation left one white man dead. In response, white mobs, joined by federal troops, launched a days-long assault on the Black community, killing well over 100 Black men and women. The headlines below show the cost to Black families and how a disinformation campaign was used to justify the violence against Black Americans. The claim, all too familiar, was that the Black organizers were trying to start a socialist revolution.
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
Not part of the story but that’s where the nude beach is in SF
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Once a ticket to visa-free travel across the world, the US passport’s potency has dwindled in recent times. https://cnn.it/4hfYvKu
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carnegro.bsky.social
D’Angelo and Angie Stone passing in the same year feels like a cruel joke. Peace to their son. Fam I can’t even imagine.
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Pizza, Peacemaker, and tequila. Pajamas, blankets, and cuddles on a rainy day.
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inchargeofthegirls.bsky.social
julia said ayo is her neo. no one would be able to speak to me again.
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4/

Guess what being bad at one means for the others?

Relationships exist, but if we are bad at friendships we are likely also bad at relationships. But since relationships are a social norm/goal, we stay in them while failing at them.

Tell that man.
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Those assumptions work in tandem: he suggests relationships are better (more moral?) than polyamory while also implying relationships are solid & healthy just because they exist (?!).

Relationship style stems from friendship style stems from approach to self and family style…
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These assumptions undermine the argument. For one, what “problem” with polyamory? Pathologizing sex is wild. Two, assuming relationships are somehow “better” because we “focus” on them is faulty when (for example) the data on life expectancy for married men & women is not so inequitable.
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Let’s say he got it backwards. Society places more emphasis on marriage/romance, which means little else gets attention / development (we don’t cultivate the same support for single people, including support / education / norms on friendships). And tbh, relationships aren’t nurturing either.
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boss-ideahouse.bsky.social
TOMORROW.

Thee queer R&B throwback party comes to the Castro — it’s how Sunday’s supposed to be.

Come share a funday with us as we vibe to La Femme Papi and Lady Char at the top of The Café stairs.

Party goes 4pm til 9pm (or later if it’s a good time!), and tix are just $5 til 6pm.
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
Would love to see you if you’re in the Bay tmrw.

Look. In SF/LA you can ur close eyes, spin in a circle 12 times, and throw a bottle of poppers and you’ll hit an EDM, house, or disco party.

Good for them but that’s not my cultural affinity (unless it’s good but…)

We do R&B & hip-hop — for the 🚬’s
boss-ideahouse.bsky.social
TOMORROW.

Thee queer R&B throwback party comes to the Castro — it’s how Sunday’s supposed to be.

Come share a funday with us as we vibe to La Femme Papi and Lady Char at the top of The Café stairs.

Party goes 4pm til 9pm (or later if it’s a good time!), and tix are just $5 til 6pm.
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yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
Holidays are hard for a lot of queer people. Friendsgivings on other days are great, but there’s always something about Thanksgiving Day (and Xmas) that hits at our loneliness, hunger, and need for community.

So, we’re raising $1,500 for each of the two holidays, to make sure no one goes alone. 💚
boss-ideahouse.bsky.social
Let’s make it a tradition.

This year will be the 4th year (and 3rd in Oakland) we’ve hosted our holiday meal on that holiday. It’s not about celebrating the day — it’s about making sure our community has a safe, culturally affirming place to go.

To support: secure.actblue.com/donate/the.i...
The 4th Annual Community Meal

November 27h, Oakland, CA

These are free events. This tradition started in 2022. In 2023, we sponsored 3 events: in Santa Barbara, Oakland, and El Paso. In 2024, the catered meal was held in Oakland in a collaboration with Good VBZ.

BOSS IDEA HOUSE

[3 photos show groups of people eating meals in different venues over the years; people are situated like a community, and a chosen family.]
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chrisgeidner.bsky.social
This is it. Very glad to see this full-throated welcome to queer people — and recognition of trans people’s history — from Zohran Mamdani in the closing month of his campaign and on National Coming Out Day.
zohrankmamdani.bsky.social
UNTIL IT’S DONE, Ep. 4: Sylvia Rivera

In the 1970s, queer New Yorkers had been pushed to the margins of NYC. Our trans neighbors faced immense cruelty. But in Sylvia Rivera, they found a champion.

As we combat Trump’s politics of darkness, her legacy can light the path forward.
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boss-ideahouse.bsky.social
Let’s make it a tradition.

This year will be the 4th year (and 3rd in Oakland) we’ve hosted our holiday meal on that holiday. It’s not about celebrating the day — it’s about making sure our community has a safe, culturally affirming place to go.

To support: secure.actblue.com/donate/the.i...
The 4th Annual Community Meal

November 27h, Oakland, CA

These are free events. This tradition started in 2022. In 2023, we sponsored 3 events: in Santa Barbara, Oakland, and El Paso. In 2024, the catered meal was held in Oakland in a collaboration with Good VBZ.

BOSS IDEA HOUSE

[3 photos show groups of people eating meals in different venues over the years; people are situated like a community, and a chosen family.]
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
Holidays are hard for a lot of queer people. Friendsgivings on other days are great, but there’s always something about Thanksgiving Day (and Xmas) that hits at our loneliness, hunger, and need for community.

So, we’re raising $1,500 for each of the two holidays, to make sure no one goes alone. 💚
boss-ideahouse.bsky.social
Let’s make it a tradition.

This year will be the 4th year (and 3rd in Oakland) we’ve hosted our holiday meal on that holiday. It’s not about celebrating the day — it’s about making sure our community has a safe, culturally affirming place to go.

To support: secure.actblue.com/donate/the.i...
The 4th Annual Community Meal

November 27h, Oakland, CA

These are free events. This tradition started in 2022. In 2023, we sponsored 3 events: in Santa Barbara, Oakland, and El Paso. In 2024, the catered meal was held in Oakland in a collaboration with Good VBZ.

BOSS IDEA HOUSE

[3 photos show groups of people eating meals in different venues over the years; people are situated like a community, and a chosen family.]
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
Cracks do not allow you to make patterns with your path. If i step on a crack now I have to step on another one to balance the pattern between my feet. I mean I don’t have to but pattern n balance does feel nice on the brain. 😂👉🏽🧠🌶️
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Be honest:

How long did it take you to finally ignore the phrase, “Step on a crack, break your mama’s back,” and walk freely?

Or do you still actively avoid cracks while walking to this day?
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
*whispers*

(gay folk who chase a “reason” or “cause” to be “born this way” also contribute to the chase for a “prevention” or “cure” to our existence — “I exist” is enough of a “why” to deserve life, dignity, and care.)
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
“Cheryl Lynn” v. Anita Baker live was amazing.

90sRnBbiopics was chef’s kiss.
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
The universe of Bob’s Burgers has their own version of Bay to Breakers called “Bog to Beach”.

And Linda loves it.

They should bring it back in a Marshmallow-centric episode.
yourfavoriteosito.bsky.social
I could really go for a chicken philly, waffle fries, and something clear and alcoholic to wash it down. Perfect autumn meal.