Alexandra {👽2/11🎂}
banner
alexandragg.bsky.social
Alexandra {👽2/11🎂}
@alexandragg.bsky.social
wild. lover. attractive nuisance.

{labor lawyer, screenwriter, horse woman}

Chi | DC
a shared vision for the future. Where we live, what our days look like with our combined family, etc.
we’ve each designed individual versions…a shared version is needed, for me.
February 3, 2026 at 7:07 PM
so you’re hearing it as the person himself needs building, as opposed to the two of you building a life together?
February 3, 2026 at 6:56 PM
so, it’s not a red flag for me just because a man says he wants someone to build with, it just lets me know I need immediate clarification because….what do you mean by that and what are you bringing to the building?
February 3, 2026 at 6:53 PM
nuance though.
wealthy men don’t say that.

AND

although I want someone with their own resources, I actually do—in a committed relationship—want to build something with someone.

I’m not interested in being plopped into the middle a life I didn’t co-design.
February 3, 2026 at 6:53 PM
Reposted by Alexandra {👽2/11🎂}
Men with money don’t say stuff like this.
🚩New Dating Red Flag 🚩

Men that are looking for someone to build with.

Cuz what exactly are YOU trying to build?!?
a man in a white shirt and tie is making a funny face .
ALT: a man in a white shirt and tie is making a funny face .
media.tenor.com
February 3, 2026 at 6:21 PM
you have to wrap your mind around the fact that Billie and Finneas released Ocean Eyes when they were about 15 and 18.

and just…listen to her fucking voice.
I love her bad.
February 3, 2026 at 6:48 PM
Reposted by Alexandra {👽2/11🎂}
Changing your mind when presented with new information or context is a sign of intelligence and sound critical thinking skills!
February 3, 2026 at 5:27 PM
I definitely stopped talking to a man who told me he was an unvaccinated “pure blood.” Because why…I don’t know, it just gave me the ick.
February 3, 2026 at 5:00 PM
Lmaooo why is this SO important to him?
February 3, 2026 at 4:58 PM
I want to share my family church, but not until I go home and take pictures.
so maybe later.
February 3, 2026 at 4:50 PM
Reposted by Alexandra {👽2/11🎂}
What's your favorite LOCAL Black History fact, y'all...?

Here's just one of mine...

St. Benedict the Moor Church was the first Black Catholic Church above the Mason-Dixon line, "dedicated on November 18th, 1883 at 210 Bleecker Street." (Formerly the Little Africa neighborhood):

#BlackHistory
February 3, 2026 at 4:42 PM
LMAO
February 3, 2026 at 3:46 PM
lol I see why you were confused. Chicago is 312. Just one digit off.
February 3, 2026 at 3:31 PM
in general, if you just ask the specific question you want answered…you’ll get the answer. Generally. Typically. In my experience.
February 3, 2026 at 3:28 PM
(At work)

Person: We’re doing xyz. If that DOES NOT work, please reach out .

Everyone in the chat: *thumbs up*

Person: Well, no one responded, so I’m not sure if this works for you, please let me know.

Me: You asked us to respond if it didn’t work. So we didn’t respond because it does work.
February 3, 2026 at 3:27 PM
I remain fascinated by how people do not know how to communicate.
To this day.
It blows my mind.
February 3, 2026 at 3:27 PM
THE WAY GOD INTENDED🥰
Damn February just walked in and Valentines’s Day is already next week!!
February 3, 2026 at 3:09 PM
whewwwwww that healed something in me, just watching that.

threee more months.
February 3, 2026 at 2:57 PM
Reposted by Alexandra {👽2/11🎂}
In DC we call it "beating your feet" or "choppin"

We have a hand work version we call "cookin".

bsky.app/profile/pixi...
February 3, 2026 at 2:23 PM
well, that is my intent, i cannot lie lol
February 3, 2026 at 2:56 PM
I am good for a, “I think I’m pissed off, but I’m not sure why…gimme a few minutes to sort it out and I’ll share.”

cuz my brain regularly does THE MOST and I can’t always sort it out on the spot.
February 3, 2026 at 2:43 PM
Reposted by Alexandra {👽2/11🎂}
I’m hate being on men’s side. I hate this shit too.
Me: “You mad?”

Her: “Nope..”

***48 hours later***

Her: “I just think it's funny how..”

Me:
February 3, 2026 at 12:07 PM
Reposted by Alexandra {👽2/11🎂}
I hold my peace in the highest esteem. That dictates what is allowed in my space. I'll cut a nigga off for any violation. Politics or family.
Question for the skyline.. What do you hold in higher esteem? Personal politics or family/personal relationships?
February 3, 2026 at 7:09 AM
Lmao okay this is not the legacy I intended to leave behind
February 3, 2026 at 2:40 PM
I love my ability to shed,
as quietly or violently as I desire,
an old identity.
Exposing the raw, slick form of the one I’ll inhabit next.
February 2, 2026 at 11:36 PM