Shawndra Ivins
@charmingkobold.bsky.social
Newly hatched lesbian trans woman still figuring everything out. Monogamously married.
Mostly, I post about games, hobbies, and comics. And I guess now probably a lot of trans stuff.
She/her.
Mostly, I post about games, hobbies, and comics. And I guess now probably a lot of trans stuff.
She/her.
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Hey! So, some keen-eyes observers who have been following me a while may have noticed a few differences in my profile. And my name.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
Update! I am now out publicly. If you know me in real life, you probably already know this, but there is no longer any need to use my old name/pronouns. The rest of this thread is still fairly relevant from a "how did I get here" perspective, so I'm keeping it up.
Valentine's Day vibes. 💜
February 14, 2026 at 8:43 PM
Valentine's Day vibes. 💜
I have the best Valentine. Sorry to everyone else who missed out, but she's amazing.
February 14, 2026 at 5:50 PM
I have the best Valentine. Sorry to everyone else who missed out, but she's amazing.
Every trans woman should have a bisexual wife who was already buying her flowers even before she transitioned. 💜
February 14, 2026 at 2:04 PM
Every trans woman should have a bisexual wife who was already buying her flowers even before she transitioned. 💜
Rewatching Avengers: Endgame and this line really hit different this time.
February 13, 2026 at 3:05 AM
Rewatching Avengers: Endgame and this line really hit different this time.
"Please ask me about Gay" would be a pretty great t-shirt, tbh.
Or maybe a sticker on my water bottle or something, since I don't wear t-shirts anymore...
Or maybe a sticker on my water bottle or something, since I don't wear t-shirts anymore...
always so funny to me when people are like “how am I supposed to explain Gay to my kids?” my kid asks me way harder shit all the time. “why did they build the road this way? why are some people bad?” I don’t know. please ask me about Gay
February 10, 2026 at 12:34 PM
"Please ask me about Gay" would be a pretty great t-shirt, tbh.
Or maybe a sticker on my water bottle or something, since I don't wear t-shirts anymore...
Or maybe a sticker on my water bottle or something, since I don't wear t-shirts anymore...
My sister sent me a care package of makeup; got me all the products she uses. 😊 It definitely suits my skintone more than what I was using before (my wife is much more pale than I am, and I was using hers before).
February 6, 2026 at 8:33 PM
My sister sent me a care package of makeup; got me all the products she uses. 😊 It definitely suits my skintone more than what I was using before (my wife is much more pale than I am, and I was using hers before).
I'll have what its having.
February 1, 2026 at 3:28 AM
I'll have what its having.
I know I'm old because most of this doesn't seem old enough to have nostalgia for, lol.
That said, I made some fun AMVs on Movie Maker, so I guess that?
Also, Google+ might actually stand a chance in a post-Twitter world.
That said, I made some fun AMVs on Movie Maker, so I guess that?
Also, Google+ might actually stand a chance in a post-Twitter world.
January 31, 2026 at 2:14 PM
I know I'm old because most of this doesn't seem old enough to have nostalgia for, lol.
That said, I made some fun AMVs on Movie Maker, so I guess that?
Also, Google+ might actually stand a chance in a post-Twitter world.
That said, I made some fun AMVs on Movie Maker, so I guess that?
Also, Google+ might actually stand a chance in a post-Twitter world.
He was played by Tim Curry, so it's hard to imagine he's straight.
January 26, 2026 at 3:58 AM
He was played by Tim Curry, so it's hard to imagine he's straight.
The Matrix Reloaded
Name a bad movie with a good soundtrack.
January 25, 2026 at 1:47 PM
The Matrix Reloaded
I am actually my profile picture. Like literally I took it yesterday. Every time I do my makeup and it looks significantly better than the previous photo, I will keep updating it.
i'm not actually eyebags emoji with a little smile that makes it look a little high and/or lobotomized
January 25, 2026 at 4:54 AM
I am actually my profile picture. Like literally I took it yesterday. Every time I do my makeup and it looks significantly better than the previous photo, I will keep updating it.
This glass holds the correct amount of wine (half a bottle).
January 25, 2026 at 12:23 AM
This glass holds the correct amount of wine (half a bottle).
Jesus seems like he was a pretty cool dude, tbh. Too bad his fandom is so toxic.
January 24, 2026 at 4:59 PM
Jesus seems like he was a pretty cool dude, tbh. Too bad his fandom is so toxic.
Weirdly gender-affirming to be welcomed to a "squad" of people who cover their nipples in rubber so they don't show through particularly clingy tops.
January 24, 2026 at 3:58 PM
Weirdly gender-affirming to be welcomed to a "squad" of people who cover their nipples in rubber so they don't show through particularly clingy tops.
Update! I am now out publicly. If you know me in real life, you probably already know this, but there is no longer any need to use my old name/pronouns. The rest of this thread is still fairly relevant from a "how did I get here" perspective, so I'm keeping it up.
Hey! So, some keen-eyes observers who have been following me a while may have noticed a few differences in my profile. And my name.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
January 24, 2026 at 3:17 AM
Update! I am now out publicly. If you know me in real life, you probably already know this, but there is no longer any need to use my old name/pronouns. The rest of this thread is still fairly relevant from a "how did I get here" perspective, so I'm keeping it up.
Every time I do my makeup I get better at it.
My power grows.
Soon* I will be unstoppable.
*It may be a while yet tbh
My power grows.
Soon* I will be unstoppable.
*It may be a while yet tbh
January 24, 2026 at 3:13 AM
Every time I do my makeup I get better at it.
My power grows.
Soon* I will be unstoppable.
*It may be a while yet tbh
My power grows.
Soon* I will be unstoppable.
*It may be a while yet tbh
Things the internet prepared me for about being a trans woman:
- Gender euphoria
- Body changes
- Mood changes
- Undereducated doctors
- Bigotry
Things it didn't prepare me for:
- Lipstick getting on every surface my mouth touches all day and still somehow magically having plenty on my lips.
- Gender euphoria
- Body changes
- Mood changes
- Undereducated doctors
- Bigotry
Things it didn't prepare me for:
- Lipstick getting on every surface my mouth touches all day and still somehow magically having plenty on my lips.
January 21, 2026 at 6:28 PM
Things the internet prepared me for about being a trans woman:
- Gender euphoria
- Body changes
- Mood changes
- Undereducated doctors
- Bigotry
Things it didn't prepare me for:
- Lipstick getting on every surface my mouth touches all day and still somehow magically having plenty on my lips.
- Gender euphoria
- Body changes
- Mood changes
- Undereducated doctors
- Bigotry
Things it didn't prepare me for:
- Lipstick getting on every surface my mouth touches all day and still somehow magically having plenty on my lips.
Maybe I actually have enough followers to get some likes on a thing like this now. 😅
January 19, 2026 at 10:07 PM
Maybe I actually have enough followers to get some likes on a thing like this now. 😅
Boozy hot chocolate on an empty stomach? It's more likely than you think.
January 19, 2026 at 1:31 AM
Boozy hot chocolate on an empty stomach? It's more likely than you think.
My first time actually applying makeup myself. ☺️
January 17, 2026 at 10:33 PM
My first time actually applying makeup myself. ☺️
These lyrics from Phil Collins, a baby boomer, really have not aged well. 😅
January 17, 2026 at 6:33 PM
These lyrics from Phil Collins, a baby boomer, really have not aged well. 😅
"Abolish ICE" is already a compromise position. What I really want to abolish is countries.
Take away the concept of the "nation" and you also get rid of borders, nationalism, immigrants (legal or illegal), etc.
Take away the concept of the "nation" and you also get rid of borders, nationalism, immigrants (legal or illegal), etc.
January 17, 2026 at 6:23 PM
"Abolish ICE" is already a compromise position. What I really want to abolish is countries.
Take away the concept of the "nation" and you also get rid of borders, nationalism, immigrants (legal or illegal), etc.
Take away the concept of the "nation" and you also get rid of borders, nationalism, immigrants (legal or illegal), etc.
I'm a cuddle elf married to a goth elf.
here are some types of elf:
* high elf
* wood elf
* dark elf
* slutty elf
* bitchy elf
* hater elf
* skater elf
* greater elf
* swamp elf
* double elf
* miniature elf
* mental elf
* power elf
* melodic death elf
* cuddle elf
* puddle elf
* mischief elf
* nuisance elf
* baseball elf
* orb elf
* elmo
* high elf
* wood elf
* dark elf
* slutty elf
* bitchy elf
* hater elf
* skater elf
* greater elf
* swamp elf
* double elf
* miniature elf
* mental elf
* power elf
* melodic death elf
* cuddle elf
* puddle elf
* mischief elf
* nuisance elf
* baseball elf
* orb elf
* elmo
January 17, 2026 at 6:16 PM
I'm a cuddle elf married to a goth elf.
No new pictures. Where are you at mentally?
January 17, 2026 at 5:34 AM
No new pictures. Where are you at mentally?