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We do trans-inclusive cozy feminism here. I dispell common misconceptions about the #4B Movement in my series #WarningHotChocolate #cats #4B+ #4BMovement #coffee #hotcocoa #feminism #cozy #BlueCrew 💙💙💙 #resist

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · Dec 4

Calling all the LGBTQ+ inclusive 4B people. Like (❤️) this post if you want to be included in a 4B starter pack. Yes, it will be called something neutral to account for all the name variations and naming concerns. #4BMovement #4B #4BAM #4N #4Y #BoycottCisHetMen #LetsGoGirls #LetsGoGiri

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Artologica aka Michele Banks @artologica.net · 14h

My life, by Matt Tarpley

Angry frog, cartoon and four panels. The frog says I am looking my best. I am working my hardest. I am expressing myself. I am trying my best

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Nikkolas Smith @4nikkolas.bsky.social · 8h

after millions of views and shares of my Portland Frog art. (thank you all🙏🏾) I got requests to highlight priests, and chickens, and Chicagoans, and T-Rexes, and more… all of us who refuse to bend the knee. so this is for US.
𝚂𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚃𝚊𝚕𝚕.
𝚆𝚎 𝚆𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚆𝚒𝚗.

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Municipal Fox @amunicipalfox.bsky.social · 2d

This frog is your FRIEND
He fights for FREEDOM

Person in a frog costume faces down ICE agents

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🕊️KatarinaKriz🕊️On the turning away~Pink Floyd @katarinakriz.bsky.social · 8h

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 11h

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Centering Yourself in Clothing.
1. Does it feel good?
2. Do you like how you look in it?
3. Do you feel comfortable and confident wearing it?

Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 14h

It has been about a year now and I think now is a great time to remind everyone that the overwhelming response from liberal and progressive men to women talking about abstaining from sex for their own safety was: This will make men more right wing. Please don't forget this happened. ☕💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 14h

Imagine for a moment if a woman said that she treats men poorly if they don't dress in their Sunday Best every day. That's how men sound when they say they don't respect women who don't dress modestly. ☕💜

Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 14h

A man who will treat a woman differently based on what she is wearing is not a good man. A good man treats everyone with basic human decency regardless of how they dress. A man who says otherwise has proven himself not to be a good man. ☕💜

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BurbNBougie @burbnbougie.bsky.social · 3d

Why American Men Are Failing and Flailing in the Workforce

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From Breadwinners to Bystanders: Why American Men Are Failing and Flailing

YouTube video by BurbNBougie: That Girl on the YouTubes

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 15h

When you excuse male behavior citing socialization, be sure to have the same grace for male-centered women. We have been told our whole lives that marriage and babies are the goal, a milestone, that you aren't an woman until you've obtained both. Help us break free. ☕💜

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Stop Blaming Women for Missing Red Flags We Were Trained to Ignore

YouTube video by BurbNBougie: That Girl on the YouTubes

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 15h

Develop a short attention span for misogyny. It saves SO much time and energy. When I read replies, and I notice a misogynistic phrase or saying, it is an insta-block. "Oh, this opinion can be discarded." Misogynistic opinions are not valid, and we need to stop treating them as if they are. ☕️💜

Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 16h

Art by brittanyfrostdesigns ☕️💜

Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 16h

You're a cis woman dating a cis man in a red state, and he isn't obsessively checking condoms, snipped or scheduling to get snipped, abstaining from sex, or offering alternatives to PIV sex? Sis, that ain't love. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 16h

It is 2025. If you live in a red state and your cis male partner is not ✨️terrified✨️ of impregnating you, that man does not love you. This is true for prolife women too. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 17h

Me watching a 4b woman start beef with childfree women who still date men. ☕️💜

a man in a black vest stands in front of a group of people and says we don 't do that here

ALT: a man in a black vest stands in front of a group of people and says we don 't do that here

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 1d

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The Cozy Cat Café is Undergoing Renovations to increase its Coziness levels. We appreciate your patronage!

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Gabrielle A. Perry, MPH @geauxgabrielle.bsky.social · 1d

- Rep. Hortman was killed
- Gov. Whitmer had to live under FBI protection for a year
- Speaker Pelosi’s home was invaded
- Judge Goodstein’s house burned to the ground as she watched her family jump from 2 floors to safety
- Rep. McIver was arrested
- AG James is being indicted

It’s a war on women

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 1d

The Cozy Cat Café is renovating to increase its coziness levels, which have been mysteriously out-of-whack since a certain someone took office in the U.S. ☕️💜

Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 1d

Art by Emysdiary ☕️💜

A beautiful white-haired ghost carrying a slightly steaming mug says: u can still have a beautiful life despite the lossses and grief you have faced.

Then she sips it in chibi form: Don't allow this life to drive u into thinking u deserve less.

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 1d

There is really nothing sadder than watching someone you admire make an easily debunked bigoted statement. ☕️💜

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Gabrielle A. Perry, MPH @geauxgabrielle.bsky.social · 1d

Someone told me recently that part of the writing process is THINKING about writing. Nobody sits and writes immediately at the computer. And I wish they had told me that 3 years ago when this all started and I was feeling anxious, lazy, and ashamed of NOT doing so

But its true. Let your mind THINK.

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 1d

Understandable. I'm not sure it helps, but the post is actually about girls being given more responsibility at an earlier age because people assume they can handle it. Not particularly about SA. I will be mindful that it comes across that way. ☕️💜

Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 1d

Not sure why you are shouting? My post right after this is about believing and supporting male abuse victims. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 1d

I have some new eyes on my page, so it bears repeating: I believe male victims. I believe them about both their male and female abusers. You will never catch me defending a female abuser. ☕️💜

Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 1d

The reason I know women are not as bad as men as a whole is because MGTOW did not succeed in getting men to stop dating or having sex with men, while many 4B women have been celibate for years now and say they will never go back. ☕️💜