Dill Werner (they/them) 🌈
@dillwerner.bsky.social
Indeed, like the pickle.
I write queer, kinky sff stuff. Diversity reader, copyeditor/proofreader, & TTRPG gamer. Seizures suck, but my trans wife is amazing.
Genderqueer wheelchair user, #disabled & #actuallyautistic
Definitely a mermaid with AuADHD
I write queer, kinky sff stuff. Diversity reader, copyeditor/proofreader, & TTRPG gamer. Seizures suck, but my trans wife is amazing.
Genderqueer wheelchair user, #disabled & #actuallyautistic
Definitely a mermaid with AuADHD
Pinned
A little TL;DR for what's happened with me:
-I'm an ambulatory wheelchair user now!
-I'm two years post top surgery and loving it
-I have seizures still
-I'm an ambulatory wheelchair user now!
-I'm two years post top surgery and loving it
-I have seizures still
I was doing some research on gender roles in queer long-term relationships.
One peer reviewed source said that partners in a same-sex marriage will align with the roles of husband and wife.
What queer couples are YOU talking to?
That's like asking "So who's the guy?"
One peer reviewed source said that partners in a same-sex marriage will align with the roles of husband and wife.
What queer couples are YOU talking to?
That's like asking "So who's the guy?"
November 9, 2025 at 5:36 PM
I was doing some research on gender roles in queer long-term relationships.
One peer reviewed source said that partners in a same-sex marriage will align with the roles of husband and wife.
What queer couples are YOU talking to?
That's like asking "So who's the guy?"
One peer reviewed source said that partners in a same-sex marriage will align with the roles of husband and wife.
What queer couples are YOU talking to?
That's like asking "So who's the guy?"
Okay, so you have the Starbucks teddy bear cup.
But do you have a collection of $300 hospital mugs?
😭
But do you have a collection of $300 hospital mugs?
😭
November 8, 2025 at 2:15 AM
Okay, so you have the Starbucks teddy bear cup.
But do you have a collection of $300 hospital mugs?
😭
But do you have a collection of $300 hospital mugs?
😭
The majority of SNAP recipients are white.
More than 62% of households that utilize SNAP have children.
37% of participants have an elderly or disabled person within their household.
The main age range is around 18-59 years old.
These people are at high risk of food insecurity.
More than 62% of households that utilize SNAP have children.
37% of participants have an elderly or disabled person within their household.
The main age range is around 18-59 years old.
These people are at high risk of food insecurity.
November 5, 2025 at 7:21 PM
The majority of SNAP recipients are white.
More than 62% of households that utilize SNAP have children.
37% of participants have an elderly or disabled person within their household.
The main age range is around 18-59 years old.
These people are at high risk of food insecurity.
More than 62% of households that utilize SNAP have children.
37% of participants have an elderly or disabled person within their household.
The main age range is around 18-59 years old.
These people are at high risk of food insecurity.
The weirdest thing about going back to uni after 15 years is the new requirements for each class.
My undergrad liberal arts school had a 'well-rounded' educational models.
They wanted you to take a little of everything.
It's why that uni was my first pick!
My undergrad liberal arts school had a 'well-rounded' educational models.
They wanted you to take a little of everything.
It's why that uni was my first pick!
November 4, 2025 at 2:34 PM
The weirdest thing about going back to uni after 15 years is the new requirements for each class.
My undergrad liberal arts school had a 'well-rounded' educational models.
They wanted you to take a little of everything.
It's why that uni was my first pick!
My undergrad liberal arts school had a 'well-rounded' educational models.
They wanted you to take a little of everything.
It's why that uni was my first pick!
In one psychology course, we're reading dense academic papers about gender.
Every single paper mixes up gender with sex!
Jegaysus tapdancing Christie. Stop with the binary! And they have all have PhDs.
Every single paper mixes up gender with sex!
Jegaysus tapdancing Christie. Stop with the binary! And they have all have PhDs.
October 31, 2025 at 4:46 AM
In one psychology course, we're reading dense academic papers about gender.
Every single paper mixes up gender with sex!
Jegaysus tapdancing Christie. Stop with the binary! And they have all have PhDs.
Every single paper mixes up gender with sex!
Jegaysus tapdancing Christie. Stop with the binary! And they have all have PhDs.
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YES!!
You wanna get mad, get mad at the transit companies for making transit that doesnt account for more than one mobility disabled person at a time, or anyone ever having anything they'd like to set down.
Yes it should be better, stop punching sideways!
You wanna get mad, get mad at the transit companies for making transit that doesnt account for more than one mobility disabled person at a time, or anyone ever having anything they'd like to set down.
Yes it should be better, stop punching sideways!
The number of people who get mad that there’s a wheelchair user on the accessible train car is something.
October 28, 2025 at 4:40 PM
YES!!
You wanna get mad, get mad at the transit companies for making transit that doesnt account for more than one mobility disabled person at a time, or anyone ever having anything they'd like to set down.
Yes it should be better, stop punching sideways!
You wanna get mad, get mad at the transit companies for making transit that doesnt account for more than one mobility disabled person at a time, or anyone ever having anything they'd like to set down.
Yes it should be better, stop punching sideways!
I have two wheelchair ramps outside my front door for my power wheelchair.
The way some people act— You'd think I was advertising poisoned apples or something.
The way some people act— You'd think I was advertising poisoned apples or something.
The number of people who get mad that there’s a wheelchair user on the accessible train car is something.
October 28, 2025 at 4:44 PM
I have two wheelchair ramps outside my front door for my power wheelchair.
The way some people act— You'd think I was advertising poisoned apples or something.
The way some people act— You'd think I was advertising poisoned apples or something.
My application to graduate school went through!! Yes!
I'm doing 8-ish rounds of interviews after January, so cross your fingers, press your thumbs, idc!
Wish me luck on my adventure to becoming a LGBTQ+ and gender speciality therapist!
I'm doing 8-ish rounds of interviews after January, so cross your fingers, press your thumbs, idc!
Wish me luck on my adventure to becoming a LGBTQ+ and gender speciality therapist!
October 27, 2025 at 5:21 PM
My application to graduate school went through!! Yes!
I'm doing 8-ish rounds of interviews after January, so cross your fingers, press your thumbs, idc!
Wish me luck on my adventure to becoming a LGBTQ+ and gender speciality therapist!
I'm doing 8-ish rounds of interviews after January, so cross your fingers, press your thumbs, idc!
Wish me luck on my adventure to becoming a LGBTQ+ and gender speciality therapist!
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popping tylenol to activate super-autism
September 22, 2025 at 8:52 PM
popping tylenol to activate super-autism
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Would you be willing to take a short survey to rate your Rapture experience with us
September 23, 2025 at 6:10 PM
Would you be willing to take a short survey to rate your Rapture experience with us
"He or She"
They. Just say they.
They. Just say they.
September 18, 2025 at 8:19 PM
"He or She"
They. Just say they.
They. Just say they.
Not androgyny as in "I want to cut off my hair and go on T."
Androgyny as in "I was to sound, dress, and have the general vibe of Felix from Stray Kids."
Androgyny as in "I was to sound, dress, and have the general vibe of Felix from Stray Kids."
September 14, 2025 at 9:44 PM
Not androgyny as in "I want to cut off my hair and go on T."
Androgyny as in "I was to sound, dress, and have the general vibe of Felix from Stray Kids."
Androgyny as in "I was to sound, dress, and have the general vibe of Felix from Stray Kids."
One of the weirdest conversations I've had with myself this week:
*reading*
...add access for authorized users—
No. No, I'm an adult. I don't want to be. But I'm an adult.
*reading*
...add access for authorized users—
No. No, I'm an adult. I don't want to be. But I'm an adult.
September 4, 2025 at 5:54 PM
One of the weirdest conversations I've had with myself this week:
*reading*
...add access for authorized users—
No. No, I'm an adult. I don't want to be. But I'm an adult.
*reading*
...add access for authorized users—
No. No, I'm an adult. I don't want to be. But I'm an adult.
What did you do this Labor Day weekend?
I tried to start a new mini kit and ended up in urgent care.
I'm not allowed sharp objects!! I also promised not to make fun of people who hunt and peck when they type.
I tried to start a new mini kit and ended up in urgent care.
I'm not allowed sharp objects!! I also promised not to make fun of people who hunt and peck when they type.
September 3, 2025 at 3:02 PM
What did you do this Labor Day weekend?
I tried to start a new mini kit and ended up in urgent care.
I'm not allowed sharp objects!! I also promised not to make fun of people who hunt and peck when they type.
I tried to start a new mini kit and ended up in urgent care.
I'm not allowed sharp objects!! I also promised not to make fun of people who hunt and peck when they type.
I'm looking for small business creators who offer a silly product:
a Goosestarion or Goostarion keychain.
I need a new keychain for my red emergency medicine bag (iykyk).
The zipper pull is too small to grab and rip open when you're having an asthma attack!
a Goosestarion or Goostarion keychain.
I need a new keychain for my red emergency medicine bag (iykyk).
The zipper pull is too small to grab and rip open when you're having an asthma attack!
September 2, 2025 at 6:48 PM
I'm looking for small business creators who offer a silly product:
a Goosestarion or Goostarion keychain.
I need a new keychain for my red emergency medicine bag (iykyk).
The zipper pull is too small to grab and rip open when you're having an asthma attack!
a Goosestarion or Goostarion keychain.
I need a new keychain for my red emergency medicine bag (iykyk).
The zipper pull is too small to grab and rip open when you're having an asthma attack!
CW: ED and fatphobia
I watched The Biggest Loser doc.
It's exercise bulimia. Pure and simple.
The "contestants" were all sent home with fucked up metabolisms stuck in starvation mode.
Starvation mode is impossible for some people to escape. Some bodies CAN'T recover from it.
👋🏻 That'd be me.
I watched The Biggest Loser doc.
It's exercise bulimia. Pure and simple.
The "contestants" were all sent home with fucked up metabolisms stuck in starvation mode.
Starvation mode is impossible for some people to escape. Some bodies CAN'T recover from it.
👋🏻 That'd be me.
August 23, 2025 at 5:41 PM
CW: ED and fatphobia
I watched The Biggest Loser doc.
It's exercise bulimia. Pure and simple.
The "contestants" were all sent home with fucked up metabolisms stuck in starvation mode.
Starvation mode is impossible for some people to escape. Some bodies CAN'T recover from it.
👋🏻 That'd be me.
I watched The Biggest Loser doc.
It's exercise bulimia. Pure and simple.
The "contestants" were all sent home with fucked up metabolisms stuck in starvation mode.
Starvation mode is impossible for some people to escape. Some bodies CAN'T recover from it.
👋🏻 That'd be me.
I was finally applying to a graduate program for mental health sciences when I noticed the essay questions were very odd and invasive.
We don't know each other like that. Not yet.
I showed the prompts to my therapist, and they even said "Wow, these questions are triggering."
We don't know each other like that. Not yet.
I showed the prompts to my therapist, and they even said "Wow, these questions are triggering."
August 11, 2025 at 6:18 PM
I was finally applying to a graduate program for mental health sciences when I noticed the essay questions were very odd and invasive.
We don't know each other like that. Not yet.
I showed the prompts to my therapist, and they even said "Wow, these questions are triggering."
We don't know each other like that. Not yet.
I showed the prompts to my therapist, and they even said "Wow, these questions are triggering."
TW: pet death
When you lose a 'pet', you don't get time off for grievance.
You don't get to shit Shiva or recite the mourner's kaddish.
You're expected to shake it off because 'it was just an animal'.
Fuck you. They're my babies, the only children I'll have.
And now all of them are gone.
When you lose a 'pet', you don't get time off for grievance.
You don't get to shit Shiva or recite the mourner's kaddish.
You're expected to shake it off because 'it was just an animal'.
Fuck you. They're my babies, the only children I'll have.
And now all of them are gone.
August 1, 2025 at 2:28 PM
TW: pet death
When you lose a 'pet', you don't get time off for grievance.
You don't get to shit Shiva or recite the mourner's kaddish.
You're expected to shake it off because 'it was just an animal'.
Fuck you. They're my babies, the only children I'll have.
And now all of them are gone.
When you lose a 'pet', you don't get time off for grievance.
You don't get to shit Shiva or recite the mourner's kaddish.
You're expected to shake it off because 'it was just an animal'.
Fuck you. They're my babies, the only children I'll have.
And now all of them are gone.
Did you know that—with certain immune system disorders—histamines can build up in your body to the point where you feel 'drunk' and black out?
Neither did I, but there I was on the floor.
Neither did I, but there I was on the floor.
July 18, 2025 at 4:37 PM
Did you know that—with certain immune system disorders—histamines can build up in your body to the point where you feel 'drunk' and black out?
Neither did I, but there I was on the floor.
Neither did I, but there I was on the floor.
I'm minding my own business, playing an open world game with literature.
Spouse asks, "Did you really read all 600 books in your inventory?"
Heck yes! Some of my friends write these in-game books.
They deserve our attention and praise!
Spouse asks, "Did you really read all 600 books in your inventory?"
Heck yes! Some of my friends write these in-game books.
They deserve our attention and praise!
July 18, 2025 at 4:24 PM
I'm minding my own business, playing an open world game with literature.
Spouse asks, "Did you really read all 600 books in your inventory?"
Heck yes! Some of my friends write these in-game books.
They deserve our attention and praise!
Spouse asks, "Did you really read all 600 books in your inventory?"
Heck yes! Some of my friends write these in-game books.
They deserve our attention and praise!
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whatever's going on with me is none of my business
July 17, 2025 at 5:42 AM
whatever's going on with me is none of my business
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I've started seriously writing again.
The twist is that I'm writing very, very spicy and kinky content.
I used to blush and clutch my pearls when writing kissing scenes!
Now, I don't care. Write what you know.
The twist is that I'm writing very, very spicy and kinky content.
I used to blush and clutch my pearls when writing kissing scenes!
Now, I don't care. Write what you know.
July 11, 2025 at 5:08 PM
I've started seriously writing again.
The twist is that I'm writing very, very spicy and kinky content.
I used to blush and clutch my pearls when writing kissing scenes!
Now, I don't care. Write what you know.
The twist is that I'm writing very, very spicy and kinky content.
I used to blush and clutch my pearls when writing kissing scenes!
Now, I don't care. Write what you know.
"It's so cheap to live in the South!"
Yeah, but our average salary is like half of what people make elsewhere.
That $75k job you had? Prepare to make $40-50k or less.
Don't even mention unions or benefit requirements. HA!
Yeah, but our average salary is like half of what people make elsewhere.
That $75k job you had? Prepare to make $40-50k or less.
Don't even mention unions or benefit requirements. HA!
July 11, 2025 at 4:23 PM
"It's so cheap to live in the South!"
Yeah, but our average salary is like half of what people make elsewhere.
That $75k job you had? Prepare to make $40-50k or less.
Don't even mention unions or benefit requirements. HA!
Yeah, but our average salary is like half of what people make elsewhere.
That $75k job you had? Prepare to make $40-50k or less.
Don't even mention unions or benefit requirements. HA!