Jody Day (Gateway Women)
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Jody Day (Gateway Women)
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'That childless woman.' Psychotherapist, author, Substacker, TEDxer, cat staff, apprentice crone. Founder of Gateway Women and Gateway Elderwomen #Childless #Childfree #WestCork #AgeingWithoutChildren https://linktr.ee/gatewaywomen
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With 100+ comments, my essay on what a small group of us in a rural Irish location are doing to support each other as people ageing without children is getting a LOT of attention! jodyday.substack.com/p/whos-going...
Who's going to be there for me when I'm old?
Introducing Alterkin (Alternative Kinship Circles)
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What is your relationship to the concept of 'legacy' as someone without children? Mine is complex, and it's changed RADICALLY over time. Free to read: jodyday.substack.com/p/leaving-no...
Leaving nothing behind
The liberation of no legacy
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This podcast interview with me dropped today. I listened to it in the bath this morning- it's a goodie!
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‘Eldering in a Time of Collapse’, Sat 29 March 2025, 8pm GMT (Free, live & recorded). Looking forward to this conversation very much this Saturday - thx for inviting me back @gatewaywomen.bsky.social More info and registration below:

gateway-women.com/collapse/
"As our world's natural and social structures continue to unravel, steady hearts, minds and souls will be needed to hold us. This has always been one of the roles of Elders. But in a society that lionises youth and demonises aging, what does it mean...?"
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Eldering is a verb
Surviving your own bullshit
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“In Finland, the number of homeless people has fallen sharply. Those affected receive a small apartment & counselling with no preconditions. 4 out of 5 people affected make their way back into a stable life. And all this is CHEAPER than accepting homelessness.”
Finland ends homelessness and provides shelter for all in need - scoop.me
In Finland, the number of homeless people has fallen sharply. Why? The country applies the "Housing First" concept agains homelessness.
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Winston Churchill visiting the White House in 1942. Not wearing a suit. #SlavaUkraïni 🇺🇦
Will review for you! I know how much of a difference they make x
Did my bit. Lovely mental & emotional holiday, thank you. Great characters and cracking plot .
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In praise of complexity and beauty and all the times they're the same thing.

Gate's poem is here. www.davidgatepoet.com/store/p/0vcw...
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I COULD get in the top ten... if a few more people bought my lovely escapist book for 99p...That would be your good deed for the day, AND you'll get a really good read!
🙏 ❤️ 🙏 ❤️
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Don't think single people get enough credit for doing life alone. Rent/mortgage is double, household responsibility and life admin is down to one person, you're your own emotional support, holidays are more expensive, you've to trap and transport human sacrifices for the solstice bonfire solo, etc.
For Valentine's Day, let's remember that LOVE is a liberatory energy. "Let’s liberate love, and each other, any and every way we can." Free to read at jodyday.substack.com/p/lets-flood...
So looking forward to my hard copy arriving in a few weeks. So much of this book has stayed with me, like a soft moss growing on my heart!
Additional thanks to wise women and fellow authors Jody Day @gatewaywomen.bsky.social , Laura Pritchett, Sarri Gilman, and Iris Graville for having my back (cover). It takes a village to launch a memoir.
Indeed! Ireland can be a very tough crowd for single (and non-mother) women!
I'm away from Ireland right now, but would love to have heard the jaws dropping the floor for this segment!
Brilliant to chat to @newstalkfm.bsky.social about research showing single women are happier, healthier, have more friends, better relationships with their families, more fun, more orgasms, & aren’t looking for partners

Whereas single men report being unhappy & hate being single

#NTBK
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Have you had coaching at work around a 'CSI' - 'concealable stigmatised identity' such as sexual orientation, illness, disability, neurodiversity, hidden ethnicity, class, parental status, gender identity, religion, etc?

Interviewees needed for PhD research.

Email Sophia [email protected]
What a lovely surprise to see my book popping up here! You have cheered me no end!
Choose 20 books that have stayed with you or influenced you. One book per day for 20 days, in no particular order. No explanations, no reviews, just covers.

11/20

#BookSky #BookChallenge
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