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Joanna
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So, this is a thing I'm doing now! www.ask.events
ASK Events
www.ask.events
My entire friend group tbh
December 9, 2025 at 10:13 PM
There’s something really satisfying about being the cuntiest looking person in the coffee shop at 9am on a Monday morning
December 8, 2025 at 5:22 PM
God my friends are incredible. What a night!
December 7, 2025 at 10:25 PM
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Every time I see a urinal I’m like “challenge accepted”
December 7, 2025 at 12:09 AM
Sometimes you feel like shit about yourself and then you take a shower and put on a dress and look at yourself in the mirror and think holy shit, I’m a girl! And then suddenly everything feels more manageable.
December 5, 2025 at 10:39 PM
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you cannot just take estradiol and rot in your room alone gaming, boymoding whenever you do go out. you do have to actively, socially, create yourself as a woman
Therapy isn't a solution, it's a process. In a way the same goes for transition. You have to engage with it purposefully, and in many cases run toward, sit with, & work through the pain instead of dramatically inflicting it on yourself to justify isolation. 4/4
December 5, 2025 at 12:23 PM
Hell yeah
December 5, 2025 at 3:05 AM
idk girl getting a trans girl to do your transition for you rarely works out well
December 4, 2025 at 11:33 PM
Public Service Broadcasting were most excellent. The race for space:
December 4, 2025 at 6:57 AM
Yes, I did spend the day writing yearning sapphic love songs rather than doing the job I am paid to do, how could you tell?
December 4, 2025 at 2:30 AM
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Hi other tech folks! Does anyone have recommendations for trans-friendly recruiters on the West Coast?

I’m a lead product manager with around a decade of experience. Looking to shift back to a salaried position after consulting the last couple years.

Reposts appreciated, thanks!
December 4, 2025 at 12:12 AM
This hitting real hard rn youtu.be/1K_ovRI10Y4?...
DAMAG3 - HUNTR_SHAFR (visualizer)
YouTube video by DAMAG3
youtu.be
December 3, 2025 at 8:33 PM
Hmmm
December 2, 2025 at 8:57 PM
Sleep Token's Even In Arcadia is easily my album of the year. Zero skips, epic production, pure genre-blending madness. V grateful to my friend who made me listen to their entire discography on a road trip into the desert and got me completely hooked.
December 1, 2025 at 1:35 AM
The Ten Years Apart thing is giving me some feels because, 10 years ago I was just some dude, but that was also the case 3 years ago? When I have 10 years of progress under my belt I’ll be ready to show it off.
November 27, 2025 at 6:52 PM
Throwing a Thanksgiving dinner/play party and most people are showing up after dinner because they're less interested in my turkey and more interested in getting stuffed 🙃
November 27, 2025 at 6:10 PM
Earthquake?
November 26, 2025 at 2:17 PM
On Transgender Day of Remembrance, I’m remembering not just those who died due to transphobic violence, but also those who fought against transphobia until their final breath. Rest in peace, Chayna.
November 21, 2025 at 4:50 AM
So, this is a thing I'm doing now! www.ask.events
ASK Events
www.ask.events
November 20, 2025 at 8:54 AM
Love it when you’re talking to a guy on Tinder and he wants to meet but not in public, and refuses to tell you why
November 19, 2025 at 12:43 AM
One of the weirdest parts of a very weird weekend was trying to vibe code an LLM that responds to emails in the style of Jeffrey Epstein at 5am whilst in a very altered state.

That, and watching someone self-destruct on stage over the state of trans rights at the moment. Powerful stuff.
November 18, 2025 at 4:42 AM
Important to remember that everyone can fuck up consent, no matter how experienced you are. That includes me.

The important thing is to be accountable. Own your mistakes, do your best to repair, and make sure you don't do it again.
November 18, 2025 at 4:38 AM
I know it's cliché to say this, but if you're thinking about transitioning, just fucking do it already. You can always stop if you don't like it, but if you wait years and years and then do it and realize it was the best decision you ever made, you'll bitterly regret not having done it sooner.
November 12, 2025 at 1:16 AM
On a whim I bought a cheap(ish) rear view ticket to Queens of the Stone Age at the SF Symphony and this is my goddamn view. This is gonna be sick!
November 11, 2025 at 3:47 AM
Golden hour in the desert 🌅
November 9, 2025 at 9:56 AM