A Winking Woman
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A Winking Woman
@nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app
36. GA peach. Burlesque performer. #1920 #1925 Queer. Polyam. she/her/shawty. 🌈✨🍑
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Um. I was not expecting so many of you to have so many favorite jazz songs. BUT since so many did, I decided to make a playlist of them.

Here you go! "Bluesky Loves Jazz" open.spotify.com/playlist/3gw...
"You'll be visited by three spirits."

The three spirits:
November 25, 2025 at 1:44 PM
Today is BEAUTY daaaayy
November 25, 2025 at 1:04 PM
Today is a beautiful day.
November 25, 2025 at 1:03 PM
CINEMA
“We’re MEN

MANLY MEN

And we’re in tiiiiights

YAAASSS”
November 25, 2025 at 1:03 PM
I will ho-ho-ho indeed
November 25, 2025 at 1:00 PM
who lap i gotta sit on??
November 25, 2025 at 12:56 PM
o_o
November 25, 2025 at 12:29 PM
i'm sorry.

FAKE MEAT
He agrees with you. I don't like the headline
November 25, 2025 at 11:41 AM
They soup mid anyway so.
November 25, 2025 at 11:29 AM
I need to fill in the dates I am booked for already....there's like 7. There will be more.
November 25, 2025 at 11:23 AM
Yesterday I got all my spreadsheets set up for 2026, as well as my contract template. Finished another part of my corset.

Might dye this other one.
November 25, 2025 at 11:21 AM
Duke Ellington morning, I guess.
November 25, 2025 at 11:17 AM
aggressively.
chalking.
November 25, 2025 at 11:03 AM
All I can picture is a child being like "YOU LIED MS. JOHNSON" at the petting zoo
November 25, 2025 at 11:01 AM
And if you find that you're always initiating before you're invested, let them go.
November 25, 2025 at 10:57 AM
If you're invested, talk to them about it. Be honest about being afraid of annoying them.

If they can't handle it, they'll be out and you can move forward.
November 25, 2025 at 10:54 AM
Y'all want so much from people and you file it under "if they wanted..."

Don't you want them? So let yourself want them. Let them notice. Rejection sucks and vulnerability is scary but then at least you'll know.

If you find that you're always initiating, it IS game playing to test ppl like that.
November 25, 2025 at 10:54 AM
That's....a shame.

I don't think that's an issue of "if they wanted to...", especially avoiding them in public.

That's being afraid.
November 25, 2025 at 10:51 AM
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SAME. I also do that too or if I see em in person I'll kinda avoid them until they come and talk to me first. It's not playin games but it's like- if you really wanted to come talk then youd just do it. I'm tired of always texting first or walking up first. I'm not tryna come off annoying
ayyy attachment issue homie, hi, I'm that but also a compulsive ghoster operating on the mentality of "if they wanted to talk to me, they'd message first and the fact other people don't is proof they hate me" type shit
November 25, 2025 at 9:11 AM
Girl. I went to bed so early. Even for me.

But now I'm up again because I thought of a bar we gotta hit when y'all get here.
November 25, 2025 at 9:41 AM
I read the OP and assumed this was a youth. FIFTY? She was too old for this in her teens
In my mind I was like “see this why I never cared to meet you” I think they been together a couple years at this point. I just can’t believe a woman in her 50’s would feel this way
November 25, 2025 at 1:57 AM
The Holiday is PEAK Jude Law.
November 25, 2025 at 1:23 AM
THE RESERVATIONS
What’s gonna be yall contribution to Thanksgiving this year though
November 25, 2025 at 12:00 AM
It's almost time to watch The Holiday. Might watch it tonight while I rhinestone.
November 25, 2025 at 12:00 AM
I'm going out to shake my ass Wednesday and Saturday.
I'm rehearsing my acts tomorrow.

That shit gonna be cardio.
Thanksgiving week is such an easy time to skip Monday/Tuesday workouts but don’t do it! Get a good sweat in today/tomorrow and you’ll thank your past self on Friday.
November 24, 2025 at 11:53 PM