Nikki
@nikkieneff.bsky.social
A little whimsical, a little odd, unapologetically me, a beautiful soul who appreciates what this earth has provided us. I love my cozy life, my spouse, kids, pets, home, and garden. 🌈 ally, 🔵 in Oklahoma.
If you are on the struggle bus like me during these tumultuous times—don’t forget to take care of yourself. It’s okay that it is hard to watch and process. Because if it were easy to see, you wouldn’t recognize yourself anymore. That’s not weakness—it’s the most precious strength.
June 11, 2025 at 11:43 PM
If you are on the struggle bus like me during these tumultuous times—don’t forget to take care of yourself. It’s okay that it is hard to watch and process. Because if it were easy to see, you wouldn’t recognize yourself anymore. That’s not weakness—it’s the most precious strength.
Representative Stephanie Bice is showing the fact that she can’t be bothered to read emails sent to her AND that she’s just a lil ol racist white lady. I plan to send this email to every single subject option she has. Daily. Until I get a satisfactory response.
April 2, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Representative Stephanie Bice is showing the fact that she can’t be bothered to read emails sent to her AND that she’s just a lil ol racist white lady. I plan to send this email to every single subject option she has. Daily. Until I get a satisfactory response.
Today marks one year without my soul cat, LucyFur. She took a piece of me with her a year ago. Losing her was harder than losing my parents (one to death and the other to going NC). She was there through all of it. Every now and again I catch a glimpse of her in the corner of my eye, though.
March 31, 2025 at 2:32 AM
Today marks one year without my soul cat, LucyFur. She took a piece of me with her a year ago. Losing her was harder than losing my parents (one to death and the other to going NC). She was there through all of it. Every now and again I catch a glimpse of her in the corner of my eye, though.
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If someone could explain to me how TikTok is a national security risk but cabinet heads and the VP talking war plans over signal on personal cell phones while accidentally adding a reporter and not noticing once isn’t that would be great.
March 26, 2025 at 3:14 PM
If someone could explain to me how TikTok is a national security risk but cabinet heads and the VP talking war plans over signal on personal cell phones while accidentally adding a reporter and not noticing once isn’t that would be great.
Knock on the door. Sales man starts in trying to sell me windows. In this economy 💀
Me: “I’m going to interrupt you and tell you no thank you”
Him: “Ma’am is the owner of the house in?”
Me: “You didn’t really think that would work did you”
Me: “I’m going to interrupt you and tell you no thank you”
Him: “Ma’am is the owner of the house in?”
Me: “You didn’t really think that would work did you”
March 14, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Knock on the door. Sales man starts in trying to sell me windows. In this economy 💀
Me: “I’m going to interrupt you and tell you no thank you”
Him: “Ma’am is the owner of the house in?”
Me: “You didn’t really think that would work did you”
Me: “I’m going to interrupt you and tell you no thank you”
Him: “Ma’am is the owner of the house in?”
Me: “You didn’t really think that would work did you”
Just drove past the high school in my conservative Oklahoma town (there is a church on literally every corner 🙄).
There is a group of 100+ students with signs in English & Spanish —did not have time to catch what they said—but I did hear them chanting “F*ck Donald Trump!”
I needed that today. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
There is a group of 100+ students with signs in English & Spanish —did not have time to catch what they said—but I did hear them chanting “F*ck Donald Trump!”
I needed that today. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
February 28, 2025 at 8:32 PM
Just drove past the high school in my conservative Oklahoma town (there is a church on literally every corner 🙄).
There is a group of 100+ students with signs in English & Spanish —did not have time to catch what they said—but I did hear them chanting “F*ck Donald Trump!”
I needed that today. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
There is a group of 100+ students with signs in English & Spanish —did not have time to catch what they said—but I did hear them chanting “F*ck Donald Trump!”
I needed that today. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Watching Trump’s and Vance’s narcissistic abuse of Zelensky was hard.
Zelensky is being punished for having the audacity to not bend to Trump’s will. Full stop.
We are about to punish Ukraine for wanting sovereignty over themselves.
My 10 year old has more emotional maturity than these guys.
Zelensky is being punished for having the audacity to not bend to Trump’s will. Full stop.
We are about to punish Ukraine for wanting sovereignty over themselves.
My 10 year old has more emotional maturity than these guys.
February 28, 2025 at 7:56 PM
Watching Trump’s and Vance’s narcissistic abuse of Zelensky was hard.
Zelensky is being punished for having the audacity to not bend to Trump’s will. Full stop.
We are about to punish Ukraine for wanting sovereignty over themselves.
My 10 year old has more emotional maturity than these guys.
Zelensky is being punished for having the audacity to not bend to Trump’s will. Full stop.
We are about to punish Ukraine for wanting sovereignty over themselves.
My 10 year old has more emotional maturity than these guys.
Healing is messy. You will uncover things you thought long healed that need attention. It just means you are building trust with yourself to honor and walk through those things. Grieving is messy. Trauma is messy. There is no “right way”. There is just your way. You are worthy of this work.
February 25, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Healing is messy. You will uncover things you thought long healed that need attention. It just means you are building trust with yourself to honor and walk through those things. Grieving is messy. Trauma is messy. There is no “right way”. There is just your way. You are worthy of this work.
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What the actual fuck?! America, it’s time to rise. When tyranny becomes law, rebellion becomes duty!
February 19, 2025 at 9:24 PM
What the actual fuck?! America, it’s time to rise. When tyranny becomes law, rebellion becomes duty!
If you’re in a red state, call your reps. They are trying to pass through some shady 💩. Especially if you’re in OK. They are trying to end no-fault divorce & bring in covenant marriage 😵💫. Call today!!!
And also call and annoy your federal reps. Let them know you are informed and disapprove.
And also call and annoy your federal reps. Let them know you are informed and disapprove.
February 19, 2025 at 8:30 PM
If you’re in a red state, call your reps. They are trying to pass through some shady 💩. Especially if you’re in OK. They are trying to end no-fault divorce & bring in covenant marriage 😵💫. Call today!!!
And also call and annoy your federal reps. Let them know you are informed and disapprove.
And also call and annoy your federal reps. Let them know you are informed and disapprove.
While discussing dinner options my husband says, “We could work together to-”
🤣. Sir. I’m going to stop you right there. That sounds like way more effort than I’m willing to currently put in.
Great news is that there are pizzas in the freezer 😉
I did make homemade soup for lunch though.
🤣. Sir. I’m going to stop you right there. That sounds like way more effort than I’m willing to currently put in.
Great news is that there are pizzas in the freezer 😉
I did make homemade soup for lunch though.
February 19, 2025 at 1:49 AM
While discussing dinner options my husband says, “We could work together to-”
🤣. Sir. I’m going to stop you right there. That sounds like way more effort than I’m willing to currently put in.
Great news is that there are pizzas in the freezer 😉
I did make homemade soup for lunch though.
🤣. Sir. I’m going to stop you right there. That sounds like way more effort than I’m willing to currently put in.
Great news is that there are pizzas in the freezer 😉
I did make homemade soup for lunch though.
After a two year hiatus, gardening is back 💜. My mom passed in 2023 when garden prep would normally start & it just didn’t happen.
The year beyond that my dad went wack-a-doodle & after 8 months of that trauma, I didn’t have a 2024 garden season in me.
The garden is making a 2025 comeback 💜💜
The year beyond that my dad went wack-a-doodle & after 8 months of that trauma, I didn’t have a 2024 garden season in me.
The garden is making a 2025 comeback 💜💜
February 18, 2025 at 4:59 AM
After a two year hiatus, gardening is back 💜. My mom passed in 2023 when garden prep would normally start & it just didn’t happen.
The year beyond that my dad went wack-a-doodle & after 8 months of that trauma, I didn’t have a 2024 garden season in me.
The garden is making a 2025 comeback 💜💜
The year beyond that my dad went wack-a-doodle & after 8 months of that trauma, I didn’t have a 2024 garden season in me.
The garden is making a 2025 comeback 💜💜
When you value and honor yourself—there isn’t an argument in the world that could convince you that you aren’t worth the effort of being treated with dignity and respect.
It astounds me how quickly people revert to suggesting you just abandon yourself as a means to “fix a relationship”.
It astounds me how quickly people revert to suggesting you just abandon yourself as a means to “fix a relationship”.
February 17, 2025 at 12:12 AM
When you value and honor yourself—there isn’t an argument in the world that could convince you that you aren’t worth the effort of being treated with dignity and respect.
It astounds me how quickly people revert to suggesting you just abandon yourself as a means to “fix a relationship”.
It astounds me how quickly people revert to suggesting you just abandon yourself as a means to “fix a relationship”.
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He really is going page by page through Hitlers playbook
February 15, 2025 at 9:32 PM
He really is going page by page through Hitlers playbook
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The community note 🤌😘
February 15, 2025 at 10:33 PM
The community note 🤌😘
Lil update: Y’all, this Yule inspired cleaner smells AMAZING!!! Slight vinegar on the tail end but mostly tree and orange. This lil potion brewed around 4 weeks. Diluted with moon water from the first full moon of the year. Looking forward to infusing my home with her magick. #WitchSky
February 12, 2025 at 7:13 PM
Lil update: Y’all, this Yule inspired cleaner smells AMAZING!!! Slight vinegar on the tail end but mostly tree and orange. This lil potion brewed around 4 weeks. Diluted with moon water from the first full moon of the year. Looking forward to infusing my home with her magick. #WitchSky
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Ooo this is a good one ☺️
February 8, 2025 at 1:49 PM
Ooo this is a good one ☺️
We cannot stand in our own strength and power if we are disconnected from ourselves.
Breathe. Rest. Go outside. Feel the sun, bask in the moonlight. Let your toes touch the yellow, crunchy, cold grass.
Today, I was met this cardinal couple. You are seen and loved and important.
#WitchSky
Breathe. Rest. Go outside. Feel the sun, bask in the moonlight. Let your toes touch the yellow, crunchy, cold grass.
Today, I was met this cardinal couple. You are seen and loved and important.
#WitchSky
February 7, 2025 at 7:53 PM
We cannot stand in our own strength and power if we are disconnected from ourselves.
Breathe. Rest. Go outside. Feel the sun, bask in the moonlight. Let your toes touch the yellow, crunchy, cold grass.
Today, I was met this cardinal couple. You are seen and loved and important.
#WitchSky
Breathe. Rest. Go outside. Feel the sun, bask in the moonlight. Let your toes touch the yellow, crunchy, cold grass.
Today, I was met this cardinal couple. You are seen and loved and important.
#WitchSky
I was conditioned to believe self-respect was rude—because self-respect threatened my dad’s fragility.
I know better now. I know boundaries are not rude. Not giving someone access to my attention or energy might be construed as rude by those who want access—but it’s just a boundary 🫶🏻
I know better now. I know boundaries are not rude. Not giving someone access to my attention or energy might be construed as rude by those who want access—but it’s just a boundary 🫶🏻
February 6, 2025 at 10:49 PM
I was conditioned to believe self-respect was rude—because self-respect threatened my dad’s fragility.
I know better now. I know boundaries are not rude. Not giving someone access to my attention or energy might be construed as rude by those who want access—but it’s just a boundary 🫶🏻
I know better now. I know boundaries are not rude. Not giving someone access to my attention or energy might be construed as rude by those who want access—but it’s just a boundary 🫶🏻
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We need to hold our communities accountable and call out hatred. We need to be the whole problem.
AND we need safe spaces of people we can trust and cry with and fight with and celebrate with.
You have space here. I know the cost of standing up. I’ve paid it my whole life. Do it anyway. 🫶🏻
AND we need safe spaces of people we can trust and cry with and fight with and celebrate with.
You have space here. I know the cost of standing up. I’ve paid it my whole life. Do it anyway. 🫶🏻
February 5, 2025 at 5:23 PM
We need to hold our communities accountable and call out hatred. We need to be the whole problem.
AND we need safe spaces of people we can trust and cry with and fight with and celebrate with.
You have space here. I know the cost of standing up. I’ve paid it my whole life. Do it anyway. 🫶🏻
AND we need safe spaces of people we can trust and cry with and fight with and celebrate with.
You have space here. I know the cost of standing up. I’ve paid it my whole life. Do it anyway. 🫶🏻
Today was a hard news day. 🍊 & Musk are so triggering when you grew up with middle class versions of them.
Seeing people still eat it up is like being that kid who wasn’t believed all over again.
This time, though, I have found my people and that narrative is different. Thank you for that 🫶🏻.
Seeing people still eat it up is like being that kid who wasn’t believed all over again.
This time, though, I have found my people and that narrative is different. Thank you for that 🫶🏻.
February 5, 2025 at 4:23 AM
Today was a hard news day. 🍊 & Musk are so triggering when you grew up with middle class versions of them.
Seeing people still eat it up is like being that kid who wasn’t believed all over again.
This time, though, I have found my people and that narrative is different. Thank you for that 🫶🏻.
Seeing people still eat it up is like being that kid who wasn’t believed all over again.
This time, though, I have found my people and that narrative is different. Thank you for that 🫶🏻.