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Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl
If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl
If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
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· Dec 24
I have the trans endocrinology autism.
Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
if you have DID you gotta love yourself.
All of yourself.
It might be hard, but you just gotta.
Otherwise you're fucked.
You gotta work it out, cos you are stuck in this together, cos it is 1 girl.
All of yourself.
It might be hard, but you just gotta.
Otherwise you're fucked.
You gotta work it out, cos you are stuck in this together, cos it is 1 girl.
February 11, 2026 at 8:39 AM
if you have DID you gotta love yourself.
All of yourself.
It might be hard, but you just gotta.
Otherwise you're fucked.
You gotta work it out, cos you are stuck in this together, cos it is 1 girl.
All of yourself.
It might be hard, but you just gotta.
Otherwise you're fucked.
You gotta work it out, cos you are stuck in this together, cos it is 1 girl.
you shouldn't hate trans people because we are trans.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
February 11, 2026 at 7:59 AM
you shouldn't hate trans people because we are trans.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
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transition stories in 12 words or fewer
You know what, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet
You know what, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
wanted this body. realized i could do it. scared for a while.
wanted this body. realized i could do it. scared for a while.
February 11, 2026 at 3:50 AM
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
You know what, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet
You know what, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet
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her motte? bro her bailey…
February 11, 2026 at 1:18 AM
her motte? bro her bailey…
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transition stories in 12 words or fewer
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
wanted this body. realized i could do it. scared for a while.
wanted this body. realized i could do it. scared for a while.
January 8, 2024 at 3:11 AM
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
It's been too long since I got my eyebrowa tinted, so back to using a filler.
Look at what a difference it makes tho
Look at what a difference it makes tho
February 11, 2026 at 1:59 AM
It's been too long since I got my eyebrowa tinted, so back to using a filler.
Look at what a difference it makes tho
Look at what a difference it makes tho
My wife is so awesome.
When we were getting re-married last year she invited her parents. Who very much do not approve. (But are polite about it).
Me: are they coming?
Her: yes. I think they feel obligated to.
Me: you could release them from that obligation.
Her: no. They *are* obligated to.
When we were getting re-married last year she invited her parents. Who very much do not approve. (But are polite about it).
Me: are they coming?
Her: yes. I think they feel obligated to.
Me: you could release them from that obligation.
Her: no. They *are* obligated to.
February 11, 2026 at 12:30 AM
My wife is so awesome.
When we were getting re-married last year she invited her parents. Who very much do not approve. (But are polite about it).
Me: are they coming?
Her: yes. I think they feel obligated to.
Me: you could release them from that obligation.
Her: no. They *are* obligated to.
When we were getting re-married last year she invited her parents. Who very much do not approve. (But are polite about it).
Me: are they coming?
Her: yes. I think they feel obligated to.
Me: you could release them from that obligation.
Her: no. They *are* obligated to.
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I had a great aunt we called Aunt Sherry whose real name was Rose. she had a brother everyone called Uncle Dutch, I have no idea what his birth name was. Their brother Aleck had two daughters, my Aunt Doody (real name Edra Lee) and Aunt Bird (again, no idea what her birth certificate says)
Baffled by transphobes insisting that the name on your birth certificate is Your True Name Forever when it was common in my grandparents' generation to just...pick a name you like and use that, nbd. I literally found out both of my grandma's birth certificate first names FROM THEIR OBITUARIES.
February 10, 2026 at 11:04 PM
I had a great aunt we called Aunt Sherry whose real name was Rose. she had a brother everyone called Uncle Dutch, I have no idea what his birth name was. Their brother Aleck had two daughters, my Aunt Doody (real name Edra Lee) and Aunt Bird (again, no idea what her birth certificate says)
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Tranny>transsexual>tgirl>transvestite>sissy>transgender>shemale>cross dreamer
I will not be taking questions at this time
I will not be taking questions at this time
February 9, 2026 at 10:06 PM
Tranny>transsexual>tgirl>transvestite>sissy>transgender>shemale>cross dreamer
I will not be taking questions at this time
I will not be taking questions at this time
I forgot sqlite was made by a cultist,
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
February 10, 2026 at 8:16 AM
I forgot sqlite was made by a cultist,
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
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So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
February 9, 2026 at 2:30 PM
So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
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Honestly it's wild that some parts of me are consistently so much hotter than others. It's wild just in general how often alters have recognisably different faces
One of the parts of me who consistently gets remarked on as especially attractive not only doesn't have a sex drive, but may be incapable of understanding sex outside of a psychological or sociological context
Alter fuckability tierlist
February 9, 2026 at 1:39 PM
Honestly it's wild that some parts of me are consistently so much hotter than others. It's wild just in general how often alters have recognisably different faces
So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
February 9, 2026 at 2:30 PM
So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
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the same thing used to happen with companies even, and they'd even stop doing the thing that was a scandal. what a time
what do you mean the leader of your country will sometimes "resign" just because there's "a scandal"
February 9, 2026 at 2:08 PM
the same thing used to happen with companies even, and they'd even stop doing the thing that was a scandal. what a time
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"She/it like a marble status of a woman. Obviously female, but also obviously not an actual human."
February 9, 2026 at 8:18 AM
"She/it like a marble status of a woman. Obviously female, but also obviously not an actual human."
Is there a tool to workout why I have someone blocked?
Like to workout which of the block-lists i am subscribed to blocks them?
It seems like block-lists that start out inline with my interests often diverge over-time.
And now I have some art gallery blocked and idk why
Like to workout which of the block-lists i am subscribed to blocks them?
It seems like block-lists that start out inline with my interests often diverge over-time.
And now I have some art gallery blocked and idk why
February 9, 2026 at 5:58 AM
Is there a tool to workout why I have someone blocked?
Like to workout which of the block-lists i am subscribed to blocks them?
It seems like block-lists that start out inline with my interests often diverge over-time.
And now I have some art gallery blocked and idk why
Like to workout which of the block-lists i am subscribed to blocks them?
It seems like block-lists that start out inline with my interests often diverge over-time.
And now I have some art gallery blocked and idk why
Recommendations for bluetooth headphones for running?
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
February 9, 2026 at 1:35 AM
Recommendations for bluetooth headphones for running?
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
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and if your "identity" has nothing to do with your ACTIONS and the CHOICES you make, specifically CHOOSING to go towards HAPPINESS.... you're not doing it right dawg...
February 8, 2026 at 11:08 PM
and if your "identity" has nothing to do with your ACTIONS and the CHOICES you make, specifically CHOOSING to go towards HAPPINESS.... you're not doing it right dawg...
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I know "wholesome" isn't the first word to come to mind when dildos are thrown in anger, but this protest technique somehow feels wholesome to me.
At Whipple where expired dicks are being thrown at ICE vehicles and those believed to be agitators. The area has been a place of protest since thousands of federal agents arrived in the city.
Near Minneapolis February 7, 2026
Near Minneapolis February 7, 2026
February 8, 2026 at 11:09 PM
I know "wholesome" isn't the first word to come to mind when dildos are thrown in anger, but this protest technique somehow feels wholesome to me.
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they already have this it's called A ENTIRE BLOCK OF CHEESE
they should invent a food that girls can eat while cozy in bed
February 7, 2026 at 9:20 PM
they already have this it's called A ENTIRE BLOCK OF CHEESE
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Look.
A lot of us have DID
A lot of us have DID
I have been fascinated by people who experience a significant discontinuity after transition. The whole "egg" metaphor seems to imply this, and I see people wrestling with how to conceptualize their former self. I actually had such a concept all lined up and then found out I didn't have use for it.
February 8, 2026 at 10:49 AM
Look.
A lot of us have DID
A lot of us have DID
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concept: DID system where the alter with least access to other parts memories is convinced she can teleport.
February 8, 2026 at 5:46 AM
concept: DID system where the alter with least access to other parts memories is convinced she can teleport.
Look.
A lot of us have DID
A lot of us have DID
I have been fascinated by people who experience a significant discontinuity after transition. The whole "egg" metaphor seems to imply this, and I see people wrestling with how to conceptualize their former self. I actually had such a concept all lined up and then found out I didn't have use for it.
February 8, 2026 at 10:49 AM
Look.
A lot of us have DID
A lot of us have DID
I'm not like other girls.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
February 8, 2026 at 9:48 AM
I'm not like other girls.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
concept: DID system where the alter with least access to other parts memories is convinced she can teleport.
February 8, 2026 at 5:46 AM
concept: DID system where the alter with least access to other parts memories is convinced she can teleport.