Frames
@oxinabox.bsky.social
Minors DNI
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl
If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl
If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
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Frames
@oxinabox.bsky.social
· Dec 24
I have the trans endocrinology autism.
Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
"Gilead only has one thing to trade that anyone wants ...... they want to trade handmaids"
(Handmaid's Tale s1e6)
(Handmaid's Tale s1e6)
February 13, 2026 at 12:53 AM
"Gilead only has one thing to trade that anyone wants ...... they want to trade handmaids"
(Handmaid's Tale s1e6)
(Handmaid's Tale s1e6)
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Make art about it.
Make art to process it.
Make art to escape it.
Make art to protest it.
Make art to change it.
Make art to grow from it.
Make art to recover from it.
Make art to understand it.
Make art to question it.
Just make art about it.
Make art to process it.
Make art to escape it.
Make art to protest it.
Make art to change it.
Make art to grow from it.
Make art to recover from it.
Make art to understand it.
Make art to question it.
Just make art about it.
June 23, 2025 at 9:20 PM
Make art about it.
Make art to process it.
Make art to escape it.
Make art to protest it.
Make art to change it.
Make art to grow from it.
Make art to recover from it.
Make art to understand it.
Make art to question it.
Just make art about it.
Make art to process it.
Make art to escape it.
Make art to protest it.
Make art to change it.
Make art to grow from it.
Make art to recover from it.
Make art to understand it.
Make art to question it.
Just make art about it.
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my boss asked me today: "Frames, how do you know so many talented women in tech".
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
February 12, 2026 at 3:19 PM
my boss asked me today: "Frames, how do you know so many talented women in tech".
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
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BTW anyone in Perth want to go to the magistrate's court on the 23rd of February to see what happens, and let me know?
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
February 12, 2026 at 3:14 PM
BTW anyone in Perth want to go to the magistrate's court on the 23rd of February to see what happens, and let me know?
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
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Me getting railed in an alleyway: 😆
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Networking is so cool
February 12, 2026 at 3:49 PM
Me getting railed in an alleyway: 😆
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Me getting railed in an alleyway: 😆
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Networking is so cool
February 12, 2026 at 3:49 PM
Me getting railed in an alleyway: 😆
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
"out anyone".
My kingdom for an edit button
My kingdom for an edit button
February 12, 2026 at 3:21 PM
"out anyone".
My kingdom for an edit button
My kingdom for an edit button
my boss asked me today: "Frames, how do you know so many talented women in tech".
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
February 12, 2026 at 3:19 PM
my boss asked me today: "Frames, how do you know so many talented women in tech".
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
BTW anyone in Perth want to go to the magistrate's court on the 23rd of February to see what happens, and let me know?
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
February 12, 2026 at 3:14 PM
BTW anyone in Perth want to go to the magistrate's court on the 23rd of February to see what happens, and let me know?
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I also paid 25% of my FFS cost.
This is largely unrelated.
This is largely unrelated.
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
February 12, 2026 at 3:08 PM
I also paid 25% of my FFS cost.
This is largely unrelated.
This is largely unrelated.
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
February 12, 2026 at 3:05 PM
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
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get yourself a friend you can send boobie pics too because you’re proud of them and want to share
February 12, 2026 at 3:51 AM
get yourself a friend you can send boobie pics too because you’re proud of them and want to share
It's kinda weird being someone people I don't know have heard of
February 12, 2026 at 1:18 PM
It's kinda weird being someone people I don't know have heard of
One of the founders of my employer keeps meeting people I don't know who know me from my open source work.
And Livi keeps finding people who know me from being a very online tranny.
And Livi keeps finding people who know me from being a very online tranny.
February 12, 2026 at 1:09 PM
One of the founders of my employer keeps meeting people I don't know who know me from my open source work.
And Livi keeps finding people who know me from being a very online tranny.
And Livi keeps finding people who know me from being a very online tranny.
Looked up it school's Wikipedia page.
Which is surprisingly detailed.
Not a single famous alum mentioned.
I have joked before that it might be me.
But legit it might actually be?
Which is surprisingly detailed.
Not a single famous alum mentioned.
I have joked before that it might be me.
But legit it might actually be?
February 12, 2026 at 11:22 AM
Looked up it school's Wikipedia page.
Which is surprisingly detailed.
Not a single famous alum mentioned.
I have joked before that it might be me.
But legit it might actually be?
Which is surprisingly detailed.
Not a single famous alum mentioned.
I have joked before that it might be me.
But legit it might actually be?
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Tranarchy 🏳️⚧️🖤🏳️⚧️
February 12, 2026 at 7:18 AM
Tranarchy 🏳️⚧️🖤🏳️⚧️
I have had the same for IM.
the needles are really sharp and thin
the needles are really sharp and thin
February 12, 2026 at 7:20 AM
I have had the same for IM.
the needles are really sharp and thin
the needles are really sharp and thin
ok so SC needles with the 27G needle is not actually any less painful than IM with 23G.
Both are extremely low pain.
It is just less intimidating to people, because of the shorter needle?
Both are extremely low pain.
It is just less intimidating to people, because of the shorter needle?
February 12, 2026 at 5:20 AM
ok so SC needles with the 27G needle is not actually any less painful than IM with 23G.
Both are extremely low pain.
It is just less intimidating to people, because of the shorter needle?
Both are extremely low pain.
It is just less intimidating to people, because of the shorter needle?
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NGL it's kinda wild to me how many of my friends have never been harassed by transphobes.
February 7, 2026 at 4:18 AM
NGL it's kinda wild to me how many of my friends have never been harassed by transphobes.
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Look.
A lot of us have DID
A lot of us have DID
I have been fascinated by people who experience a significant discontinuity after transition. The whole "egg" metaphor seems to imply this, and I see people wrestling with how to conceptualize their former self. I actually had such a concept all lined up and then found out I didn't have use for it.
February 8, 2026 at 10:49 AM
Look.
A lot of us have DID
A lot of us have DID
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I'm not like other girls.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
February 8, 2026 at 9:48 AM
I'm not like other girls.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
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Recommendations for bluetooth headphones for running?
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
February 9, 2026 at 1:35 AM
Recommendations for bluetooth headphones for running?
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
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"She/it like a marble status of a woman. Obviously female, but also obviously not an actual human."
February 9, 2026 at 8:18 AM
"She/it like a marble status of a woman. Obviously female, but also obviously not an actual human."
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So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
February 9, 2026 at 2:30 PM
So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this: