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Frames
@oxinabox.bsky.social
Minors DNI
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️‍⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl

If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
Pinned
I have the trans endocrinology autism.

Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
I forgot sqlite was made by a cultist,
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
February 10, 2026 at 8:16 AM
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So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.

3 observation on this:
February 9, 2026 at 2:30 PM
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Honestly it's wild that some parts of me are consistently so much hotter than others. It's wild just in general how often alters have recognisably different faces
One of the parts of me who consistently gets remarked on as especially attractive not only doesn't have a sex drive, but may be incapable of understanding sex outside of a psychological or sociological context
Alter fuckability tierlist
February 9, 2026 at 1:39 PM
So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.

3 observation on this:
February 9, 2026 at 2:30 PM
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the same thing used to happen with companies even, and they'd even stop doing the thing that was a scandal. what a time
what do you mean the leader of your country will sometimes "resign" just because there's "a scandal"
February 9, 2026 at 2:08 PM
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"She/it like a marble status of a woman. Obviously female, but also obviously not an actual human."
February 9, 2026 at 8:18 AM
Is there a tool to workout why I have someone blocked?
Like to workout which of the block-lists i am subscribed to blocks them?

It seems like block-lists that start out inline with my interests often diverge over-time.
And now I have some art gallery blocked and idk why
February 9, 2026 at 5:58 AM
Recommendations for bluetooth headphones for running?
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.

My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
February 9, 2026 at 1:35 AM
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and if your "identity" has nothing to do with your ACTIONS and the CHOICES you make, specifically CHOOSING to go towards HAPPINESS.... you're not doing it right dawg...
February 8, 2026 at 11:08 PM
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I know "wholesome" isn't the first word to come to mind when dildos are thrown in anger, but this protest technique somehow feels wholesome to me.
At Whipple where expired dicks are being thrown at ICE vehicles and those believed to be agitators. The area has been a place of protest since thousands of federal agents arrived in the city.

Near Minneapolis February 7, 2026
February 8, 2026 at 11:09 PM
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they already have this it's called A ENTIRE BLOCK OF CHEESE
they should invent a food that girls can eat while cozy in bed
February 7, 2026 at 9:20 PM
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Look.
A lot of us have DID
I have been fascinated by people who experience a significant discontinuity after transition. The whole "egg" metaphor seems to imply this, and I see people wrestling with how to conceptualize their former self. I actually had such a concept all lined up and then found out I didn't have use for it.
February 8, 2026 at 10:49 AM
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concept: DID system where the alter with least access to other parts memories is convinced she can teleport.
February 8, 2026 at 5:46 AM
Look.
A lot of us have DID
I have been fascinated by people who experience a significant discontinuity after transition. The whole "egg" metaphor seems to imply this, and I see people wrestling with how to conceptualize their former self. I actually had such a concept all lined up and then found out I didn't have use for it.
February 8, 2026 at 10:49 AM
I'm not like other girls.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
February 8, 2026 at 9:48 AM
concept: DID system where the alter with least access to other parts memories is convinced she can teleport.
February 8, 2026 at 5:46 AM
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My big sis is doing so well for me.
One day she will get her final reward.
February 7, 2026 at 6:23 AM
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"Do I suck dick like a top" voice: do I get nullified like a top?
February 6, 2026 at 2:29 PM
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the reason why the wolf dates the rabbit & the reason why the rabbit dates the wolf are two very different reasons

it doesn't matter which iteration of the fractal we're on, you delicious little thing

there are only two exits from here

either i love you & i leave

or i'm indifferent & i eat you
February 7, 2026 at 5:00 AM
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ah, yes

the choice that i can neither offer, nor deny

it is a legitimate choice

but when you possess the power of compulsion, it is a choice that must be solely in the other's hand

for it to be otherwise would make me a monster

you will be missed, even after a thousand years

it was, wasn't it?
February 7, 2026 at 9:15 AM
My big sis is doing so well for me.
One day she will get her final reward.
February 7, 2026 at 6:23 AM
NGL it's kinda wild to me how many of my friends have never been harassed by transphobes.
February 7, 2026 at 4:18 AM
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Girl who is into chastity and needle-play making a porn video of her preparing to stitch her partner's vagina shut.
"Welcome to my new unboxing video"
Girl who is into blood play making a porn video of her preparing to flay her partner.
"Welcome to my new unboxing video"
January 13, 2026 at 8:04 AM
Chat, she is so cooked.
February 7, 2026 at 3:26 AM
concept: domme who really believed in you, and really thought you were going to be good this time.
February 7, 2026 at 2:37 AM