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@oxinabox.bsky.social
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Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl
If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl
If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
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@oxinabox.bsky.social
· Dec 24
I have the trans endocrinology autism.
Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
Me getting railed in an alleyway: 😆
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Networking is so cool
February 12, 2026 at 3:49 PM
Me getting railed in an alleyway: 😆
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
Person passing by: 😲
Me: "it's ok, I work in tech. We're networking"
Person passing by: "oh ok, carry on."
my boss asked me today: "Frames, how do you know so many talented women in tech".
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
February 12, 2026 at 3:19 PM
my boss asked me today: "Frames, how do you know so many talented women in tech".
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
(I recently recruited us a tech lead and today put her in touch with a scientific computing contractor)
Had to avoid saying "tranny discord" because I didn't want to put anyone.
BTW anyone in Perth want to go to the magistrate's court on the 23rd of February to see what happens, and let me know?
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
February 12, 2026 at 3:14 PM
BTW anyone in Perth want to go to the magistrate's court on the 23rd of February to see what happens, and let me know?
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I probably shouldn't go as
1. Prob not good for my mental health
2. It is only just over a month before my surgery so I am minimising illness risk.
I also paid 25% of my FFS cost.
This is largely unrelated.
This is largely unrelated.
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
February 12, 2026 at 3:08 PM
I also paid 25% of my FFS cost.
This is largely unrelated.
This is largely unrelated.
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
February 12, 2026 at 3:05 PM
I drafted a victim statement for the court today about the effects being assaulted by a transphobe have on me.
Well done Frames.
Well done Frames.
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get yourself a friend you can send boobie pics too because you’re proud of them and want to share
February 12, 2026 at 3:51 AM
get yourself a friend you can send boobie pics too because you’re proud of them and want to share
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Tranarchy 🏳️⚧️🖤🏳️⚧️
February 12, 2026 at 7:18 AM
Tranarchy 🏳️⚧️🖤🏳️⚧️
ok so SC needles with the 27G needle is not actually any less painful than IM with 23G.
Both are extremely low pain.
It is just less intimidating to people, because of the shorter needle?
Both are extremely low pain.
It is just less intimidating to people, because of the shorter needle?
February 12, 2026 at 5:20 AM
ok so SC needles with the 27G needle is not actually any less painful than IM with 23G.
Both are extremely low pain.
It is just less intimidating to people, because of the shorter needle?
Both are extremely low pain.
It is just less intimidating to people, because of the shorter needle?
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NGL it's kinda wild to me how many of my friends have never been harassed by transphobes.
February 7, 2026 at 4:18 AM
NGL it's kinda wild to me how many of my friends have never been harassed by transphobes.
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Look.
A lot of us have DID
A lot of us have DID
I have been fascinated by people who experience a significant discontinuity after transition. The whole "egg" metaphor seems to imply this, and I see people wrestling with how to conceptualize their former self. I actually had such a concept all lined up and then found out I didn't have use for it.
February 8, 2026 at 10:49 AM
Look.
A lot of us have DID
A lot of us have DID
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I'm not like other girls.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
February 8, 2026 at 9:48 AM
I'm not like other girls.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
My brain gives me dopamine when I complete tasks.
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Recommendations for bluetooth headphones for running?
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
February 9, 2026 at 1:35 AM
Recommendations for bluetooth headphones for running?
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
Must have is ability to use just one for mono, since i am deaf in one ear.
My current ones are Jabba Elite 4.
Main problem with them is the charge uses 2 pins to charge and those pins get stuck down and so often won't connect and it goes flat
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"She/it like a marble status of a woman. Obviously female, but also obviously not an actual human."
February 9, 2026 at 8:18 AM
"She/it like a marble status of a woman. Obviously female, but also obviously not an actual human."
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So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
February 9, 2026 at 2:30 PM
So there is a theory that complex traumagenic conditions like DID "release" trauma at the time in which you are ready to handle them, because other stressors are low and your capacity is there.
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
And til then you _mostly_ dissociate when triggered, rather than deeper response.
3 observation on this:
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I forgot sqlite was made by a cultist,
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
February 10, 2026 at 8:16 AM
I forgot sqlite was made by a cultist,
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
I remembered that they were "Open-source, not open-development".
But i forgot they included a blessing in the place of the license for libsqlite, and that they had a code of ethics based on Rule of St. Benedict
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It's been too long since I got my eyebrowa tinted, so back to using a filler.
Look at what a difference it makes tho
Look at what a difference it makes tho
February 11, 2026 at 1:59 AM
It's been too long since I got my eyebrowa tinted, so back to using a filler.
Look at what a difference it makes tho
Look at what a difference it makes tho
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you shouldn't hate trans people because we are trans.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
February 11, 2026 at 7:59 AM
you shouldn't hate trans people because we are trans.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
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lara croft triangle boobs had more love and soul and humanity put into them than anything a tech bro could make
February 11, 2026 at 1:32 PM
lara croft triangle boobs had more love and soul and humanity put into them than anything a tech bro could make
sure is wild that meta spent over $10 billion to fail to make Second-Life.
February 11, 2026 at 1:21 PM
sure is wild that meta spent over $10 billion to fail to make Second-Life.
sure us bullshit that while processing trauma need to do all the other things to continue living, like go to work, acquire and/or prepare food etc
February 11, 2026 at 1:16 PM
sure us bullshit that while processing trauma need to do all the other things to continue living, like go to work, acquire and/or prepare food etc
if you have DID you gotta love yourself.
All of yourself.
It might be hard, but you just gotta.
Otherwise you're fucked.
You gotta work it out, cos you are stuck in this together, cos it is 1 girl.
All of yourself.
It might be hard, but you just gotta.
Otherwise you're fucked.
You gotta work it out, cos you are stuck in this together, cos it is 1 girl.
February 11, 2026 at 8:39 AM
if you have DID you gotta love yourself.
All of yourself.
It might be hard, but you just gotta.
Otherwise you're fucked.
You gotta work it out, cos you are stuck in this together, cos it is 1 girl.
All of yourself.
It might be hard, but you just gotta.
Otherwise you're fucked.
You gotta work it out, cos you are stuck in this together, cos it is 1 girl.
you shouldn't hate trans people because we are trans.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
February 11, 2026 at 7:59 AM
you shouldn't hate trans people because we are trans.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
that's bigoted.
you should hate trans people because we are, as a demographic, incredibly annoying.
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transition stories in 12 words or fewer
You know what, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet
You know what, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
wanted this body. realized i could do it. scared for a while.
wanted this body. realized i could do it. scared for a while.
February 11, 2026 at 3:50 AM
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
You know what, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet
You know what, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet
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her motte? bro her bailey…
February 11, 2026 at 1:18 AM
her motte? bro her bailey…
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transition stories in 12 words or fewer
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
wanted this body. realized i could do it. scared for a while.
wanted this body. realized i could do it. scared for a while.
January 8, 2024 at 3:11 AM
transition stories in 12 words or fewer
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".
(A sad one. Might do a happy one later.)
I wanted this one thing for me.
I did everything else "right".